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Leaving babies outside to sleep …..Scandi craze.

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Primrose53 Thu 11-Jan-24 19:07:36

Being called a Scandi Craze but I imagine plenty of us did it.
My newborn son came home from hospital in the snow 44 years ago tomorrow.

It was really cold with deep snow. The midwife called for a few days and said I was to put him outside in his pram as soon as the snow cleared. I did and he slept really well and was a very healthy baby, child and now adult. He had his clothes on, then a fine blanket inside those gingham baby nests that Mothercare sold. Then a couple more blankets and the pram cover. He also wore a hat and mittens.

I put him out every day when we were at home and I am sure even a bit of winter sunshine did him some good. Summer was lovely.

The only babies I have seen sleeping outside in the last few years belonged to a former neighbour from the Czech Republic. When they were walking she took them on long walks wearing hats, mitts and snow suits.

Chestnut Fri 12-Jan-24 10:23:11

Unless you live in a rural area there is a real danger of air pollution now. Most towns and cities have high levels of toxins and the only way to check this is to use an air quality app. In some areas it's probably safer for babies to sleep inside with an air purifier in the room and obviously no heating on.

I can't see the benefit of leaving a young baby outside in sub zero temperatures. Their little noses have to warm the air before it passes down to their lungs. In some countries it's so cold the school children are not allowed outside for more than a few minutes because their lungs will literally freeze up.

silverlining48 Fri 12-Jan-24 10:19:27

I didn’t have a large sprung silver cross type pram but like most people had a small ordinary one from mother care. We lived in a two up two down Victorian terrace with a narrow hall and managed ok.
No I would never have left the Pram unattended outside a shop.

vintage1950 Fri 12-Jan-24 10:05:52

Where would you put a large Silver Cross-type pram in a modern house? Most have very small hallways and many none at all, and the wheels collect dirt from outside.

One problem with putting babies outside unsupervised is that they could get into trouble, like the poster who got entangled in a harness as a baby and had to be cut out. I have also heard of a child who was fatally injured by a brick thrown from a back alley (Victorian terraced houses) while sleeping in his pram - although that's probably a rare occurrence. And leaving babies unattended in a pram outside a shop would be a big no-no for me.

Bella23 Fri 12-Jan-24 09:51:20

Neither of ours could sleep outside though MIL tried to insist on it.
Both unfortunately had to sleep on their tummies in prams and cots because they had Aberdeen splints on their hips and could not roll over. I could not put them in the quilted bags that were fashionable at the time unless they were awake and with me.
DD1 was born at the start of a very hot summer and she used to sleep just under a sheet . I would have loved to put her out in the shade under a tree but had to be on constant servalance.DD2 was born during a very cold snowy winter and had to be zipped into a woolly suit.
I used to lie them on a large quilted blanket when I took a shower and had them with me at all times. Difficult with only 18 months between them.
It was such a relief when the splints were taken off and they could wriggle around.

Primrose53 Fri 12-Jan-24 09:34:02

We have a young family living near us. 3 babies all just a year apart ….. so far. They are a bit hippyish and carry them around in slings all the time, even when cooking. The other day it was really cold but there was a tiny bit of sun and the Daddy was standing outside with the youngest in a sling, about 6 months old. He says he stands out every day for about an hour as his daughter loves the fresh air. I thought that was a great idea but then realised both he and the baby had hardly any clothes on, just T shirt for him and the baby a little babygro with no socks!

Greta Fri 12-Jan-24 08:34:50

I think it's fair to say that Scandinavians spend a lot of time outdoors even it very cold weather. I would not call it a Scandi craze. This does not only apply to babies in prams.

yggdrasil Fri 12-Jan-24 07:36:04

I was born in the cold winter of 1947. My mother put me outside in the pram. The 'guru' at that time was Dr Truby King, whose book was the rule then. My kids were brought up more humanely as per Dr Spock :-)

Katie59 Fri 12-Jan-24 07:24:36

I had a more modern pram with a detachable top, babies spent a lot of time in it, inside and outside in reasonable weather.

NotSpaghetti Fri 12-Jan-24 07:00:11

Grandma70s

I didn’t put my babies (1971 and 1974) out in their prams unless I was with them. My mother was appalled. She thought babies HAD to be outdoors, but I liked to be able to see and hear them. I did take them for lots of walks in the pram.

Me too. The idea of leaving my little ones alone outside shock

... but we did walk every day, rain or shine.

RosesandLilac Fri 12-Jan-24 05:07:11

Mine happily slept outside in their Silver Cross pram in the late 70’s early 80’s. They were always within earshot of our tiny rural cottage.

OldFrill Fri 12-Jan-24 01:52:20

biglouis

I can remember this from the 1960s whe my sister had her first child. He was routinely left outside in his pram in all weathers. He was also left while she got on with jobs like washing, ironing and so on. However being a small house he was always in earshot. I see these threads on Mumsnet about women not being able to take a shower or wash their hair. Crazy.

Yes, it's absolutely dreadful, l had one of them. Either suckled or screamed for weeks on end. He's vegan now which may explain a lot

tobyianathekid Fri 12-Jan-24 00:45:00

I don't think this is just a Scandi thing. I've put all my kids outside. Remember I used to live on the coast in Moray in Scotland when my first was born. She was put outside with fresh sea air and wild deer even in the heart of winter. I thought it was healthy and she was always wrapped up warm!

OldFrill Fri 12-Jan-24 00:40:39

Whilst coal fires were the main source of heating it would have been far better for babies to be outside the house.

Redhead56 Fri 12-Jan-24 00:31:51

My son was premature born in October 87 he was well wrapped up in the pram in the garden. I had a net over the pram to protect him and got on with my cooking etc while I watched him.
I did the same with my daughter I probably over wrapped them but they thrived. I moved back nearer to my parents and walked two miles nearly every day to see them. The walk and fresh air was very good for me and my children.

Gingster Thu 11-Jan-24 23:05:28

It was all part of the daily routine.in all weathers. 1973, 75 and 78.

Chocolatelovinggran Thu 11-Jan-24 22:53:16

Farmor, my Norwegian granddaughters slept outside in all weathers and in daycare/ nursery toddlers are outside most of the time throughout the year. If I'd tried that with my early years classes I fear that I would have faced a parental lynch mob.

Callistemon21 Thu 11-Jan-24 22:50:46

One of my DC spent more time indoors because it was the summer of 1976 and far too hot in our sheltered back garden so he slept indoors in a north-facing sitting room.

JenniferEccles Thu 11-Jan-24 22:44:51

Mine too all slept outside in their large comfortable pram which did for all of them over the years.

They were all spring and summer babies but although I didn’t have cold weather to contend with, my biggest problem initially was keeping our neighbour’s cat off the pram.
Even though I used a cat net, I did spot the blasted thing just making itself comfy, with of course the risk of suffocating the baby.

Lets just say it never did it again.

MaizieD Thu 11-Jan-24 22:10:14

Neither of my children were put outside to sleep, nor did any midwife, health visitor or doctor suggest it. Nor, as I recall, were any of my friends' babies. (late 70s, early 80s)

They all seem to have grown up to be pretty healthy.

Outside in all weathers for naps was something our mothers did.

nanna8 Thu 11-Jan-24 22:06:46

I put my children outside, too,unless it was very hot as it can be here. I fostered a couple of babies and put them out,too and the nurse who came round said she could tell I was British because no one in Australia did it!

halfpint1 Thu 11-Jan-24 21:43:37

All my children were put outside
In the pram even the 4th one and she was born in 1990. My 2 dogs would always be close by to the pram.

Deedaa Thu 11-Jan-24 21:36:57

There are photos of me, sitting in my pram in the garden, in the deep snow in 1947.

Allsorts Thu 11-Jan-24 21:31:30

It had to be very bad weather not to out my babies out in their coach built prams, all mothers did this, we also walked to the shops, no car, the pram held all the shopping in the bag on the pram and also a wire tray underneath. If you needed more
space there was a generous compartment underneath the mattress. It bothers me the shallow flimsy prams and pushchairs they use now and the baby carriers, so heavy and uncomfortable.

biglouis Thu 11-Jan-24 21:12:29

I can remember this from the 1960s whe my sister had her first child. He was routinely left outside in his pram in all weathers. He was also left while she got on with jobs like washing, ironing and so on. However being a small house he was always in earshot. I see these threads on Mumsnet about women not being able to take a shower or wash their hair. Crazy.

Grandma70s Thu 11-Jan-24 21:06:32

I didn’t put my babies (1971 and 1974) out in their prams unless I was with them. My mother was appalled. She thought babies HAD to be outdoors, but I liked to be able to see and hear them. I did take them for lots of walks in the pram.