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Do you still follow old routines your parents did years ago ??

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paris123 Wed 31-Jan-24 12:34:12

Im curious if any one you still carry on routines that your were brought up on , that your mom and dad used to do, like washing on Mondays etc.
l hadnt realised till today how much l still follow routines my mom used to do in the 50's. It was always wash on mondays, iron on tuesdays, de -clean l room on wednesday, market on thurdays, bathnight and change bedding on Fridays, buthcer shop for weekly joint on Saturdays, dads garden day Sundays while mom cooked a large roast dinner with old time songs playing on the radio. We always had a old fashioned high tea on Sundays in the back best room that always had a blazing coal fire there in the winter. My husband remembers his mom always baked a coconut cake on sundays for tea with chhese sandwiches & blamange and jelly ..l cant find blamange on sale any where now a days sad
iv only just realise how much l still follow those routines except we put washing on every other day and l dont iron as all our clothes l make sure are non iron.
My husband says his moms market day was saturdays and he remembers how they loved it when she got home as she bought fresh baked cob loafs and the kids had the joy of thick buttered bread with there salad tea. We had a local baker come every mid week with a large basket tray where mom would choice which bread, buns etc she wanted. We kids would argue over who would get the top of the cottage loaf.( again l cant find cottage loaves for sale anywhere sad wish we still had bakers who delivered !!

Sasta Sun 04-Feb-24 14:19:39

Lilyflower

Paris123, I loved your post. You ought to write a book.

Ditto what Lilyflower says, and lovely thread to start Paris123. A book should be in the offing, or at least your memoirs for the family. Your childhood sounds like the perfect Enid Blyton story.
And I love your post too Lilyflower.
Everyone’s memories are so nice to hear and they make you dig back to your own family memories.

Esmay Sun 04-Feb-24 14:37:41

I remember those stiff gauzy dresses and they were worn with pink leather ballet shoes .
And worse , my mother would get me to do a display !

There was one dress , which I hated - it was white and had a collar which was so uncomfortable .
Otherwise , there were two dresses in colours , which I've loved ever since - shades of green , mauve and purple .

Some of my dresses were bought , some made by my mother ( who was actually brilliant at sewing and knitting) and some were made by a dressmaker .
I once asked the dressmaker which church she went to.
I don't go to church , dear , she said .
I was so shocked and upset .
I couldn't stop talking about it .
I kept on thinking about this nice old lady going to hell !

lindiann Sun 04-Feb-24 15:04:37

We had a Chihuahua odd little thing, may have been crossed with a Jack russell. My Mum, Dad and I were walking back from the vets and met the Midwife who had delivered all us Kids. She said "Oh is he a little Mongrel", most offended I retorted "He's got his pedigrees" They all laughed couldn't understand why.

Fae1 Mon 05-Feb-24 11:18:50

Very similar paris 123 except baking on Thursday and market on Saturday. Sunday was always going to chapel with dad while mum cooked the Sunday roast

paris123 Mon 05-Feb-24 11:53:04

Thank you all for all your memories, Iv enjoyed reading every single one,

paris123 Tue 06-Feb-24 12:26:31

l was remembering last night before bed something else that happened .All my childhood days are flowing back so much today lol.
Here's another one l remember ( last one l promise )

All my older brothers and sisters always went to the stables on Saturday mornings while mom went shopping for the Sunday roast etc.
The stables were down a very long lane nk to our church and over the hump back bridge and too far for my little legs to walk too.
One Saturday morning , mom arrived home to find us younger kids waiting for her by the kitchen door, all giggling.

We pulled her shopping basket off her and took her by the hands , with her coat still on, to the french windows by the back garden.
She nearly fainted with shock !

Tied to our apple tree at top of garden was a massive cart horse lol.
It was larger than the 2 cart horses that pulled the coal wagon for our fortnightly coal delivery.....but ours in the garden was HUGE and pure white!

My 15 yr old brother had rode it bare backed from the stables lol.
To this day l dont know how he rode it through our small front gate, up the narrow path past our neighbours red front door and through the back gate.
He somehow then got it over the rockery that was in front of the french windows, under the rose arch, past moms prized garden gnomes on the lawn on the left and dad veg patch on the right. lol
Then over the long row of dads prized Lupins that separated it all..... and tied it to the apple tree.

l dont remember them ever going to the stables again after that. lol

Last night l was searching on the internet for info of where l used to live and to my joy found a website set up for the history etc.
Apparently its recorded the area is dated as far back as 1495.

But better still it had loads of Victorian photos of the areas before our house was built .The photos had all the little fetes that were held at the flower filled parks and our old steam railway station. All the children dressed in white aprons and hair ribbons and ladies in massive flower filled hats. It was just like you see on the film ' The Railway Children'
l looked to see if l could copy and paste but it says its not allowed.
Iv got to get my note book out and write down everything l remember of the 1950's before l forget it all.

NotSpaghetti Tue 06-Feb-24 14:09:43

paris123 I still use loose tea in a teapot (2 "everyday" sizes to choose from) but your oldest sister wouldn't like it that I usually serve everyone in mugs - unless you happen to be my mother-in-law!

M0nica Tue 06-Feb-24 22:08:53

NotSpaghetti So do I, but not copying my mother more because when I firsy saw soggy teabags, I was revolted by them because, to me, they looked like tiny t**ds.

NotSpaghetti Wed 07-Feb-24 00:02:45

I suppose I'm not copying my mother either to be truthful M0nica - tea bags just don't taste as good in my opinion even if they are fairly expensive ones (such as Fortnums or Newby) and are technically the same. I expect they use up their smaller (cheaper) leaves...

NotSpaghetti Wed 07-Feb-24 00:04:03

...but you are right about wet teabags looking horrid!🤣