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Am I being pedantic?

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Maggierose Wed 31-Jan-24 18:09:46

Every time I buy my usual tinted moisturiser I always have the same conversation with the shop assistant. I buy Laura Mercier in the Nude shade. I point out that I am surprised that they haven’t changed the name of the shade because the shade is only suitable for white women whereas Nude could apply to any skin shade. They don’t really get my point; the last time I bought it in a Space NK shop I was assured that the product came in shades for all skin colours. The daftest response came in Selfridges where the assistant thought for a moment then said, “Well we do have it in Natural.” Am I being pedantic?

Siope Thu 01-Feb-24 12:04:58

It’s a poor choice of name for a skin product in a single colour, or narrow range, but the correct people to take it up with are the company, not sales assistants, who can’t change it.

welbeck Thu 01-Feb-24 12:07:51

seems like another goady posting.

Primrose53 Thu 01-Feb-24 12:36:36

I think you are being pedantic.

RosiesMaw Thu 01-Feb-24 14:53:49

I always used to refer to that pinky beige colour as "old lady's knickers" anyway! grin

Esmay Thu 01-Feb-24 15:18:29

Don't worry about it !

I once made the assistants on the cosmetic counter double up with laughter when I described my skin tone as an uncooked pork sausage .

Cossy Sun 04-Feb-24 11:14:21

Yes 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ gringrin

Fairycakes Sun 04-Feb-24 11:39:05

Yesss. I'm not sure why you care so much 😆

Lizhol77 Sun 04-Feb-24 11:49:39

There are more important issues to worry about than what to call a moisturiser

sandelf Sun 04-Feb-24 12:12:47

Pedantic yes - but right. Surely all foundation shades are 'nude' on the appropriate skin colour.

Gwenisgreat Sun 04-Feb-24 12:12:52

My skin is peelly Wally it would probably suit me?

rowyn Sun 04-Feb-24 12:22:43

YES

Baggs Sun 04-Feb-24 12:26:21

With regard to make-up, nude for me is not wearing any at all. Keeps life simple 🤣

grannybuy Sun 04-Feb-24 12:29:22

Nude, as a colour, implies the colour of bare skin. Considering that the colour of bare skin differs widely, it doesn’t really work as a colour.

Aldom Sun 04-Feb-24 12:36:12

Lizhol77

There are more important issues to worry about than what to call a moisturiser

The post is in CHAT. OP is not worrying, she is chatting things over.
I'm sure OP knows about the state of the world etc., as we all do. But we all chat about all manner of inconsequential matters in our daily lives. We'd go mad otherwise. smile

VioletSky Sun 04-Feb-24 12:37:00

Nude is a colour name, some brands do "transparent" though and that wouldn't actually be transparent for all skin tones as it does have colour to it, I know because I use it in winter

So, maybe some names changes would be appropriate

Elegran Sun 04-Feb-24 12:52:40

It is up to the OP which topic she posts it under, but it might have been better under "Pedant's corner"

grandtanteJE65 Sun 04-Feb-24 13:18:10

Actually, I think you are making a valid point, but as others say to the wrong people.

In these days, when we quite rightly have to beware of making assumptions or labelling things in a way that could seem racist, the only way we can avoid giving offence is if we demand that makers instead of just labelling something "nude" or "skin tone" for a shade that no woman on earth irrespective of ethnicity actually is, find some other way of describing their goods.

Stockings or make-up should come in a range of skin tones, advertised as "Find the shade that suits your skin tone" or the like.

Alison333 Sun 04-Feb-24 13:49:23

Yes, I agree it is a valid point but best not to harass a poor sales assistant! Write to the CEO. You can look up the email address of the CEO of Laura Mercier online.

I expect it's a product that's been around for a long time and nobody in Laura Mercier has bothered to stop and think about it.

welbeck Sun 04-Feb-24 13:54:27

well, this OP works well as an advertisement;
i'd never heard of that brand name before.

Mojack26 Sun 04-Feb-24 13:54:37

Yes

netflixfan Sun 04-Feb-24 14:08:44

Yes 🤣

fluttERBY123 Sun 04-Feb-24 14:11:46

Who cares, I love to pedant. The word nude has two separate meanings nowadays.
1. The flesh colour of the average Caucasian.
2. The state of being with no clothes on.
This is confusing and were I a black skinned person I might find this slightly irritating or even very annoying.
I don't think there is any harm in pointng out to anyone around that it is all a bit problematical.

ExaltedWombat Sun 04-Feb-24 14:55:12

Yes, 'nude' is an accepted colour description.
Yes, the name is obviously derived from it matching Caucasian skin tone.
Yes, there's an argument for ditching it, for the same reason that Elastoplast no longer just comes in 'skin tone' but in a choice of light, medium and dark skin tones, and that - taking an extreme case - 'N***er Black' is no long found on colour charts.
Yes, you're being a virtue-signalling twat for constantly raising the point with shop assistants!

Pippa22 Sun 04-Feb-24 15:51:44

For goodness sake maggierose , you must be losing the plot. The world is in chaos, maybe on the brink of WW3 and you are fussing about the colour of make up you buy. You are more than pedantic you must be really short of things in your life to get involved in. You must be really boring, get out and do something stimulating and useful, charities are always looking for volunteers.

Theexwife Sun 04-Feb-24 16:04:07

Pippa22

For goodness sake maggierose , you must be losing the plot. The world is in chaos, maybe on the brink of WW3 and you are fussing about the colour of make up you buy. You are more than pedantic you must be really short of things in your life to get involved in. You must be really boring, get out and do something stimulating and useful, charities are always looking for volunteers.

With the world in chaos and far more important things going on why are you on social media reading trivial posts? Maybe you should be out doing something stimulating and useful.