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What would you like on your headstone?

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Sue500 Fri 02-Feb-24 17:47:40

On a recent visit to a churchyard I noticed the following on a headstone “He tried to be kind”
Have to say it made me smile.😊

Anniel Sat 03-Feb-24 17:20:43

All I want is “ She Dud Her Best”

Sounds a bit selfish but I do try to help my family, friends and dogs who will die in shelters if we ignore them.

Anniel Sat 03-Feb-24 17:21:57

And typically I made a spelling error!

Ofcouse is is “did”

Oldnproud Sat 03-Feb-24 17:26:59

varian

No headstone for me. My only memorial will be in the memories of those who survive me and remember me, especially my grandchildren.

Same here.
Unless, of course, those who survive me decide differently, but I don't think they will once they know that I don't want to be buried.

Bella23 Sat 03-Feb-24 17:37:33

None for me ,though I saw on a seat in a Church yard"She was the wind beneath our wings",I thought it very poignant.

Pammie1 Sat 03-Feb-24 17:39:45

I think Spike Milligan nailed it with ‘told you I was ill’. Don’t think anyone will top that !!

Juggernaut Sat 03-Feb-24 17:44:55

I won't be having a headstone, but if I did, it would read……
Step Back A Bit, You're Crushing My Boobs!

Littleannie Sat 03-Feb-24 17:48:20

'Point me towards the nearest star.'
I saw this years ago in a book by James Herbert.

Spinnaker Sat 03-Feb-24 18:52:22

Best Before (then date of death)

Lexisgranny Sat 03-Feb-24 18:55:39

It was great while it lasted!

Iam64 Sat 03-Feb-24 19:07:12

Don’t want to detract from the humour - my husband wanted to be buried and died after we booked the woodland burial ground in a spot close to home but, before we discussed headstones.
There aren’t headstones, just a simple slate fitted into the ground. His says name - dates - A truly lovely man
Because he really was 💙🙏🏽

TurtleDove Sat 03-Feb-24 19:11:42

To be honest, I won't have a headstone, I will be cremated and my ashes will be scattered in Devon, next to a railway line near the sea along with my late husband's ashes and our two German Shepherd dogs ashes, there will be a dust storm that day. My husband was a rail enthusiast and I liked the sea so he will forever watch the trains go by every day and I will watch the sea come and go. My idea of everlasting peace.

Farzanah Sat 03-Feb-24 21:08:26

I like that Iam64. It’s the most valuable legacy we can have really. That we were loved by those who knew us best.

Pammie1 Sat 03-Feb-24 21:35:41

Spinnaker

Best Before (then date of death)

I love this !!

Pammie1 Sat 03-Feb-24 21:36:36

Iam64

Don’t want to detract from the humour - my husband wanted to be buried and died after we booked the woodland burial ground in a spot close to home but, before we discussed headstones.
There aren’t headstones, just a simple slate fitted into the ground. His says name - dates - A truly lovely man
Because he really was 💙🙏🏽

❤️

Anniel Sat 03-Feb-24 22:06:21

I have always enjoyed visiting grave yards from my childhood. I felt so sad for the people who died young. I recall renewing my paternal grand dad’s grave and more recently I found my maternal grand dad’s grave in Anfields huge cemetery in Liverpool. So anonymous and now not one of the family lives in UK. People doing family history are generally interested in graves of their family.

dlizi4 Sat 03-Feb-24 22:11:10

No headstone, just the haunting lol

tanith Sat 03-Feb-24 22:42:40

No headstone for me, cremation and ashes scattered with my late husband in the garden of remembrance.

Biscuitmuncher Sat 03-Feb-24 22:55:47

Here lies Mrs Momoa

SeaWoozle Thu 08-Feb-24 11:43:31

I've always said mine would read

"Finally Found Her Keys"

Witzend Tue 13-Feb-24 10:10:30

SeaWoozle

I've always said mine would read

"Finally Found Her Keys"

I can imagine a not-too-distant future one saying, ‘Finally off his/her phone.’

Oreo Tue 13-Feb-24 10:15:01

Iam64

Don’t want to detract from the humour - my husband wanted to be buried and died after we booked the woodland burial ground in a spot close to home but, before we discussed headstones.
There aren’t headstones, just a simple slate fitted into the ground. His says name - dates - A truly lovely man
Because he really was 💙🙏🏽

Lovely indeed 💐

GrannyGravy13 Tue 13-Feb-24 10:22:53

No headstone for me, our AC know where I want my ashes to be scattered.

grumppa Tue 13-Feb-24 11:00:05

I'll take John Gay's:-

Life is a jest, and all things show it;
I thought so once, and now I know it.

Purplepixie Tue 13-Feb-24 11:07:51

I won’t be having a headstone.

If I did then they could put “The girl just wanted to have fun”

Most of my life has been anything but.

silverlining48 Tue 13-Feb-24 12:08:31

Though not religious I love the quietness of an old churchyard. I often sit quietly on a bench it’s very peaceful.

I would rather like a bench with a view of the sea or countryside perhaps.
As for what is put on the stone or the bench would leave that up to my family.
On that note this is something which hasn’t been mentioned so perhaps now it’s time it was.