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Strange habit of other Grandmother

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LilyoftheValley Sun 25-Feb-24 01:49:59

I am shortly to become a Grandmother. I have never met any of the father's family who are uncommunicative to say the least!

I was told today, that the other Grandmother has kept the umbilical cord, or part of, the cord from each of her grandchildren! has anyone else heard of this peculiarity? Why on this earth would anyone do such a grisly thing. I wonder if it is used as a toy at Halloween or to chew on?!

HelterSkelter1 Sun 25-Feb-24 05:42:58

No I haven't heard of that. Sounds very odd. I have heard of the placenta being dug into the roots of rose bushes. That's strange as well but at least it has been put to a good use.

Does she keep them in match boxes? Well if they are an uncommunicative lot you don't have to discuss it with her.
Don't try and compete!!

Oopsadaisy1 Sun 25-Feb-24 05:56:19

Umbilical cord stem cells.
Can be used it the child has problems, but not if it’s kept in a cupboard.
I think it’s kept frozen in a Medical facility somewhere.

BlueBelle Sun 25-Feb-24 06:09:54

Well obviously the daughters or sons go along with it so guess she’s doing nothing wrong…. takes all sorts
Yuk wouldn’t it go smelly and shrink
But up to them

Anniebach Sun 25-Feb-24 06:13:28

Your daughter agreed so doesn’t think it grisly surely

Joseann Sun 25-Feb-24 06:32:55

or to chew on?!
I would imagine it's gristly, as well as grisly.

Aveline Sun 25-Feb-24 06:34:12

Seems very odd. Witchcraft?

kittylester Sun 25-Feb-24 06:34:29

Does she keep them at home - that would be weird - or does she pay for them to be stored as Oops suggests. That is a very thoughtful thing to do.

NotSpaghetti Sun 25-Feb-24 06:43:03

It won't be huge pieces I think and it won't be grisly as I think she means the small stump of dried up cord that falls off the baby's belly button in the first couple of weeks of life. I think it's unusual for the grandmother to keep this - I think if it's kept it's usually the parents who choose to keep it. After all, it's just small and dry and tiny - finger-tip sized and pebble-like. It's the last physical remnant of the physical mother-child bond. I don't personally think it's grisly.

If she doesn't mean saving this cord-stump but instead is offering to freeze or otherwise medically save/store the cord or cord blood for baby's future use - what's not to like? It's an extremely valuable product and in future may become even more so.

NotSpaghetti Sun 25-Feb-24 06:54:47

Or... maybe you should Google "umbilical cord art" or "umbilical cord jewellery" or similar...

grin

Louella12 Sun 25-Feb-24 07:16:39

I've got my eldest son's. It had dropped out one evening and I felt bad about throwing it away. I popped it in a tiny jar adve it's still up they're there, 35 years later .

Nothing sinister about it at all

tickingbird Sun 25-Feb-24 07:47:14

Not sinister, but strange. I mean how far do you take it? First poo, fingernails, first haircut, first scab?

Louella12 Sun 25-Feb-24 07:55:41

Well we're going to be seeing a lot of poos, fingernails, haircuts, scabs etc so not quite the same. Just the one little nub.

I didn't do it with the other 4. Which is possibly strange .

Just something I did .

Shelflife Sun 25-Feb-24 08:01:45

Each to their own , but I find it very weird indeed!

maddyone Sun 25-Feb-24 08:02:04

I think it’s weird.
I have heard of people eating the placenta.
There’s no accounting for taste.
Personally I prefer a roast dinner.

Grandmabatty Sun 25-Feb-24 08:08:05

I kept the tiny bit of cord, baby teeth and a bit of baby hair from the first cut for years! Clearly I'm odd then.

Louella12 Sun 25-Feb-24 08:09:52

Grandmabatty

I kept the tiny bit of cord, baby teeth and a bit of baby hair from the first cut for years! Clearly I'm odd then.

Ditto!

We can be odd together 😃

maddyone Sun 25-Feb-24 08:14:51

Teeth and hair, yes.
Umbilical cord, ugh!

Sago Sun 25-Feb-24 08:21:29

When my youngest son’s cord end dropped off at home a few days after coming home from hospital it fell on the floor and my Labrador got it before I did😳.
He seemed to enjoy it.

GrannyIvy Sun 25-Feb-24 08:52:29

I think it is very weird. Hair and teeth I understand. However whatever rocks your boat!

Witzend Sun 25-Feb-24 08:53:22

maddyone

I think it’s weird.
I have heard of people eating the placenta.
There’s no accounting for taste.
Personally I prefer a roast dinner.

I gather that a lot of animals eat the placenta. A nutritious meal (for carnivores anyway) when the mother won’t immediately feel like going out hunting.

NotSpaghetti Sun 25-Feb-24 09:15:38

maddyone

I think it’s weird.
I have heard of people eating the placenta.
There’s no accounting for taste.
Personally I prefer a roast dinner.

I think most if not all animals eat their placenta.

NotSpaghetti Sun 25-Feb-24 09:17:14

GrannyIvy

I think it is very weird. Hair and teeth I understand. However whatever rocks your boat!

Isn't that a bit weird qhen you think about it - as someone said above - there will be lots more of those!

flappergirl Sun 25-Feb-24 09:25:39

I think it's a bit weird and I've never heard of it before. In any event, I would have thought it more appropriate for the mother to keep it rather than the grandmother. What does your daughter think about it OP?

Are the other grandparents hippies or new age types?

Callistemon21 Sun 25-Feb-24 09:28:26

tickingbird

Not sinister, but strange. I mean how far do you take it? First poo, fingernails, first haircut, first scab?

I have got their first curls 🙂