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Luckygirl3 Thu 18-Apr-24 21:38:15

....... cyclists who think that looking over their right shoulder is sufficient to tell the cars behind them that they are planning to turn right - this happened today - a man cycling down a fairly main road looked over his shoulder then turned right on front of me as I was driving. And he had a toddler in a seat on the back!!

Redrobin51 Thu 18-Apr-24 21:40:37

They think we are all mind readers. You probably thought he was glancing back to see if the toddler was OK.x

flappergirl Thu 18-Apr-24 21:57:44

I get annoyed when they jump red lights at crossings. They all do it. Their rationale is that they can plainly see if people are still crossing. Well, by that token so can I as a car driver. Apparently their "green credentials" give them immunity from the law and somehow makes them superior to pedestrians. That's the attitude in Bristol anyway and it makes my blood boil.

BlueBelle Thu 18-Apr-24 22:50:02

I get annoyed by people who are constantly moaning and negative about anything new
Before a new building goes up you get “that ll look awful not like the old buildings ” a new business and that gets ‘well that won’t last long’ a new bus route “ no one will use that”
Not everything was wonderful in the ‘good old days’
No wonder Aussies call us whinging poms

crazyH Thu 18-Apr-24 22:52:50

Cyclists here always indicate with their hands, when they intend to turn

JamesandJon33 Fri 19-Apr-24 06:25:03

We have a coastal path near us used walkers and cyclists also. Do they never have a bell? We have often been startled as a bike swishes past with no warning.

kittylester Fri 19-Apr-24 06:28:24

BlueBelle

I get annoyed by people who are constantly moaning and negative about anything new
Before a new building goes up you get “that ll look awful not like the old buildings ” a new business and that gets ‘well that won’t last long’ a new bus route “ no one will use that”
Not everything was wonderful in the ‘good old days’
No wonder Aussies call us whinging poms

Me too Bluebelle.

Also the people who bemoan the lack of shops and blame the council for chatging high rates etc but do their shopping on line.

BlueBelle Fri 19-Apr-24 07:39:44

Yeeees Kittylester that’s a toe curler
And they moan and moan about litter but never stop to pick a bit up or god forbid join in a litter pick

NotAGran55 Fri 19-Apr-24 07:46:33

Dog owners who allow their dogs to run off the lead.
A local 3 mile leisure walkway between villages here is impossible to walk along without dogs running at people.

ARlamb1972 Sun 21-Apr-24 23:51:52

I find cyclists and even walking or jogging pedestrians feel they don't need to be cautious or aware on the road. Like drivers are the look out at all times. Unfortunately, that's what we have to do in this world. I rather be the extra cautious driver looking at every traveler from every direction, than being involved in a collision.

Coolgran65 Mon 22-Apr-24 01:00:19

I get irritated by litter.
Our back gate goes out into a public right of way. Using it we are 5 minutes from the river and duck pond. There is also an Asda nearby and people throw wrappers and cans down despite there being plenty of waste bins. On a Sunday my youngest dgs age 7 and I take a bag each and go out to do our bit. Granny let's go save the planet.

Coronation Mon 22-Apr-24 06:55:25

I hate seeing cyclists on pavements, I've seen electric bikes on pavements going faster than vehicles! I've seen delivery drivers cycling inside shopping centres.

Curtaintwitcher Mon 22-Apr-24 07:04:49

Why has everything become so lax? There are road safety rules but many people ignore them. People on mobility scooters are a menace. They seem to think they take priority over everyone else, forcing pedestrians to step off the pavement into the road.
All cyclists should be forced to take a cycling proficiency test, all bikes should have a bell and lights.
These are the laws but are not enforced.

Doodledog Mon 22-Apr-24 07:36:49

I don’t think bikes should be on pavements or footpaths at all. It’s really annoying when someone rings their bell and expects you to jump out of their way, regardless of your mobility or how much space there is. If people are using a footpath on foot (the clue is in the name grin) cyclists should dismount and push. Where I used to work was dreadful for that - students on cycles and people on those city scooter things. The number of traffic calming measures and lack of seating (some of it replaced with bike parks and scooter chargers) meant that the less mobile have enough problems getting around the city centre as it is. I’m all for green measures, but suspect that town planners are all young and fit.

MissInterpreted Mon 22-Apr-24 07:42:12

I was driving home one evening last week. It was almost dark, yet there were three teenagers, all dressed from head to toe in black, riding bikes down the middle of the road - no lights, nothing. An accident waiting to happen. A few years back, I was crossing one of the main roads in Edinburgh, at a pedestrian crossing with the green man on, when a cyclist flew through and nearly took me away. Let's just say I turned the air blue that morning.

Gwyllt Mon 22-Apr-24 08:32:49

More than just litter.
Rubbish collected from the verge outside our house before its first cut
Must be from cars as there is no footpath

Esmay Mon 22-Apr-24 09:01:21

There is something which I find mind numbingly irritating .
Yesterday , I had a nice day out planned .
Church first and talking to my Vicar was the nicest part .
Then onto the garden centre , which should have been thoroughly enjoyable .
First of all , I had a lecture from an acquaintance .
Why don't I get a mobility scooter , was the theme .
I don't want one .
She persisted .
I don't want one , because I'm on a exercise programme to restore my core and reduce my weight .
She continued .
Being told want I want /need to do has become a regular lecture each time I see her .

Good manners means that I say nothing .

NotSpaghetti Mon 22-Apr-24 09:02:58

Doodledog I think it's illegal to ride bikes on pavements.
You can push them on the pavement (with you walking) though I believe.

I'm sure I was taught that they "become a vehicle" when ridden.

lixy Mon 22-Apr-24 09:16:53

I get irritated when I save a knitting pattern idea to my online library only to find that it has been discontinued online and is no longer available to download when I get around to actually doing the project. Note to self - download as you go!

As a cyclist I understand the irritation to path users. Most paths here are shared use for cyclists and pedestrians. So here's the dilemma - do I ring my bell and startle people as Doodledog suggests or do I use it as a warning as requested by JamesandJon ?
In practise I don't use my bell as I have seen it make people jump. I often cycle very slowly at a distance behind walkers until there is a space to pass with a wide berth - it only takes a couple of minutes at most out of my day.

Now - cars parked across cycle paths really do irritate me.

Esmay Mon 22-Apr-24 09:19:45

I wrote first of all there is a second !
The person , who invited me to the garden centre continued the get a mobility scooter theme .
I had the distinct impression that they had been talking about me .
I made the same replies .

I've never said , why don't you sort your own life out ?

I've had thirty plus years of listening to you complaining about your wife .
It's repetative and boring !

Oreo Mon 22-Apr-24 09:34:17

lixy

I get irritated when I save a knitting pattern idea to my online library only to find that it has been discontinued online and is no longer available to download when I get around to actually doing the project. Note to self - download as you go!

As a cyclist I understand the irritation to path users. Most paths here are shared use for cyclists and pedestrians. So here's the dilemma - do I ring my bell and startle people as Doodledog suggests or do I use it as a warning as requested by JamesandJon ?
In practise I don't use my bell as I have seen it make people jump. I often cycle very slowly at a distance behind walkers until there is a space to pass with a wide berth - it only takes a couple of minutes at most out of my day.

Now - cars parked across cycle paths really do irritate me.

Please, please use your bell, that’s what it’s for after all.
Use it a short distance from pedestrians in front of you, not just before you speed past them, then it warns rather than startles.

eazybee Mon 22-Apr-24 11:41:44

Some wide pavements are designated for use for pedestrians and cyclists but with no dividing line.
I am tired of oncoming traffic driving on my side of the road , forcing me into the kerb because of an obstruction (parked car, slow vehicle, cyclist) on their side. Yesterday six cars in succession overtook a parked car while I was forced to pull in or risk being scraped.
It is my right of way.

Labradora Mon 22-Apr-24 14:57:42

I get irritated by litter also and by graffiti and any despoilment (is that a word?) of the natural environment.
I was lucky enough to have lovely kind parents and a smashing childhood but my childhood home had no garden , just what we called "a back yard" that is a concrete patch 12 by 12 at the back of the house and a small privet hedge at the front.
My significant adult life was lived in London and Hertfordshire and people's failure to appreciate and preserve their wonderful green spaces with fabulous treese.g. graffiti on benches: setting fire to park benches: littering: made me foam at the mouth and want to shout " you don't know how lucky you are..... "