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34 year old assisted euthanasia

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Bridie22 Sun 28-Apr-24 15:13:51

Personally I think its her body, life and choices. if somebody is determined to die they will find a way .

MissAdventure Sun 28-Apr-24 15:13:32

Me too.
She has a long, long history of an eating disorder, very mild learning difficulties, and depression, for which she has tried and tried different forms of help.

It does seem a terrible waste, but I know lots of people are very pro euthanasia.

I wondered whether that also includes cases such as Jolanda's.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 28-Apr-24 15:11:00

I have read about her. I thought it was extremely sad that she should think this was the only answer to her problems. It was what she wanted, but personally I don’t think this is what assisted suicide should be used for. I did feel that there was an element of attention seeking. People who are in such a dark place that they can see no way forward don’t usually ask to be assisted.

JaneJudge Sun 28-Apr-24 15:10:19

I think it's a shame sad

MissAdventure Sun 28-Apr-24 15:04:08

ExDancer

Well she obviously has mental problems, but at first glance seems more like attention seeking. What are you hoping to achieve by posting this?

Exactly what I asked for.
People's opinions.

winterwhite Sun 28-Apr-24 15:00:54

I wrote mine between your two posts. Now rather mystifying about the boyfriend who turns out to be 51

ExDancer Sun 28-Apr-24 15:00:30

Well she obviously has mental problems, but at first glance seems more like attention seeking. What are you hoping to achieve by posting this?

winterwhite Sun 28-Apr-24 14:58:05

We don’t know enough about her, Miss A. At age 34 this is a great tragedy and waste of a like. Presumably she had no family.
This could haunt the boyfriend in later life

MissAdventure Sun 28-Apr-24 14:55:10

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Jolanda, who was diagnosed at the age of 22, explained that every social situation feels like 'dark, overstimulation, chaos in my head, loneliness'.

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"Most of the time I just feel really sh*tty," she revealed to the Times. "Sad, down, gloomy. People don’t see it, because that’s the mask I put on and that’s what you learn to do in life."

In the interview, Jolanda explained that she was in a relationship with a 51-year-old man and revealed that he 'knew from the beginning that this would be coming'.

MissAdventure Sun 28-Apr-24 14:51:40

A lady called Jolanda had planned the 25th April to be her last day in earth, due to lifelong struggles with her mental health.

It's currently not clear if she did get her wish, which was for assisted suicide, but she has made no further responses, other than to thank her boyfriend, who wished her well on her last journey.

What is your opinion on this, please?