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Crossstitchfan Thu 16-May-24 17:09:37

Why do some mothers insist on putting bands around their babies’ little heads? To add insult to injury, the bands invariably have a big bow on them! Am I the only one who thinks they look utterly ridiculous?
I’m not a miserable old fuddy daddy and have no problem with pretty much all other baby fashions but I hate the look of this!

Primrose53 Thu 16-May-24 19:24:05

Hellogirl1

I don`t like the headbands either, but I really hate to see tiny babies with earrings.

In many countries it is the custom to have baby girls ears pierced at just a few months old and has been for decades. My SIL had her ears pierced as a baby in Germany, my friend same with her French mother and recently we had Czech neighbours and they had her ears done straight away.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 16-May-24 19:22:56

👍🏻

Joseann Thu 16-May-24 19:21:52

Very chic!

GrannyGravy13 Thu 16-May-24 19:18:58

Crossstitchfan

I think you are missing the point. It’s not whether it’s harmful or not to have a headband because babies wear hats and bonnets. It’s about how ridiculous they look!

They may look ridiculous to you, but others obviously like them.

Joseann Thu 16-May-24 19:18:47

😃

GrannyGravy13 Thu 16-May-24 19:17:44

Joseann I first saw babies with headbands on in Southern Europe 50 years ago, likewise pierced ears on little ones.

(I couldn’t leave the house if my underwear wasn’t matching 🤣)

Joseann Thu 16-May-24 19:13:11

I'm not really bothered about them, if that's how people want to dress their child.

Incidentally, I am currently in France where lots of little girls seem to wear them, with aplomb! I think the trick is to match the material with the outfit, (a bit like bras have to match knickers in France!)

Crossstitchfan Thu 16-May-24 19:08:01

@Summerlove
You’re right when you say headbands etc are better than pierced ears. Why would anyone have a tiny baby’s ears pierced? To my mind, that’s abuse! The mind boggles!

MissAdventure Thu 16-May-24 19:04:22

They seem to be the polar opposite of how things are today, with gender neutral, unisex people and the use of "they" rather than he or she.

They are pointless bits of girlie frivolity that serve no purpose.

Crossstitchfan Thu 16-May-24 19:03:18

I think you are missing the point. It’s not whether it’s harmful or not to have a headband because babies wear hats and bonnets. It’s about how ridiculous they look!

M0nica Thu 16-May-24 18:56:15

I cannot see any harm in them. Babies wear hats and bonnets, why not a headband?

Allsorts Thu 16-May-24 18:55:37

I don’t like them. I’ve noticed that a lot of the babies are bald and wonder if mothers are putting them on to show it’s a girl. Think they could be unsafe.

AreWeThereYet Thu 16-May-24 18:48:28

They always remind me of the 'Friends' episode where Rachel stuck a pink box on her baby's head because she got fed up with people thinking her baby girl was a boy 😄

ElaineI Thu 16-May-24 18:41:28

They look cute but I find hairbands very uncomfortable so must be same for babies. NotSpaghetti that is really frightening and I have often wondered about the pressure.

ferry23 Thu 16-May-24 18:39:13

And to go one step further - when I read a headline that "xxxx" announces new arrival, or "xxxx" first picture of their new cute daughter, sometimes I know, I just know - and I actually say to myself "I bet this baby is wearing one of those ridiculous headband things". And I'm usually right! grin

maddyone Thu 16-May-24 18:33:08

NotSpaghetti

I don't care if they look ridiculous but they can be dangerous.

Re the cranium:
They cause an increase in force in these already very sensitive areas for a baby, and can cause developmental problems in they are left on for long periods

Also, at least one baby has suffocated with one.

I agree with this.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 16-May-24 18:11:30

They are really naff. I’m glad my granddaughter doesn’t wear them. She doesn’t get dressed in pink frilly stuff either and her parents certainly wouldn’t have her ears pierced. Some things are really low rent.

mae13 Thu 16-May-24 18:09:43

They are the infant version of 'fascinators' - and I loathe those as well. Either have a proper hat or don't!

NotSpaghetti Thu 16-May-24 18:05:02

I don't care if they look ridiculous but they can be dangerous.

Re the cranium:
They cause an increase in force in these already very sensitive areas for a baby, and can cause developmental problems in they are left on for long periods

Also, at least one baby has suffocated with one.

Casdon Thu 16-May-24 18:01:31

They are a bit naff I think, but baby girls have had to endure the most ridiculous headgear for hundreds of years, with frills, ribbons, and lace beyond reason, so it’s nothing new.

Summerlove Thu 16-May-24 17:57:14

Better silly bows and headbands than pierced ears!

MissInterpreted Thu 16-May-24 17:46:50

I think they're ridiculous. I've been looking for a little outfit for my niece's new baby girl and almost everything was pink and frilly with matching headbands.

Crossstitchfan Thu 16-May-24 17:45:09

It’s interesting to se how many people agree with me! We are wasting our time though as I don’t suppose the headband lovers will care that so many people think the bands don’t do their babies any favours! I loved the ‘ridiculous and pointless’ comment! My sentiments exactly!
Oh well, we tried!
By the way, I don’t think you can beat a bonnet for the cute factor! Especially a Broderie Anglais one!

Hellogirl1 Thu 16-May-24 17:42:50

I don`t like the headbands either, but I really hate to see tiny babies with earrings.

HowVeryDareYou2 Thu 16-May-24 17:28:20

I don't particularly like to see them (none of my GDs wore them), but I really hate to see babies wearing jeans! (none of the GC wore them)