We had no hassle with my mum. Dad had just died but there was enough in the bank for a few months until the house was sold, so she was self funding. As it happened a community nurse recommended a Home that she visited regularly and we looked no further. She was very happy there. In fact she had a new lease of life.
I do not understand people who try to give away their assets in order to avoid care home fees. Far better to use the funds to make their later life comfortable.
Actually my parents were poor all their lives but Dad was prudent with insurances. Made all the difference to Mum’s last months.
AIBU to wish toilet cubicles were a decent size.


