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ExDancer Mon 27-May-24 18:34:53

I'm told this is an actual extract from a sex education textbook for girls, printed in the early 1950's in the UK. As far as we have come, we have so far to go!!

“When retiring to the bedroom, prepare yourself for bed as promptly as possible. Whilst feminine hygiene is of the utmost importance, your tired husband does not want to queue for the bathroom, as he would have to do for his train.

But remember to look your best when going to bed. Try to achieve a look that is welcoming without being obvious. If you need to apply face cream or hair-rollers wait until he is asleep as this can be shocking to a man last thing at night.

When it comes to the possibility of intimate relations with your husband it is important to remember your marriage vows and in particular your commitment to obey him. If he feels that he needs to sleep immediately then so be it. In all things be led by your husband's wishes; do not pressure him in any way to stimulate intimacy.

Should your husband suggest Congress then agree humbly all the while being mindful that a man's satisfaction is more important than a woman's. When he reaches his moment of fulfilment a small moan from yourself is encouraging to him and quite sufficient to indicate any enjoyment that you may have had.

Should your husband suggest any of the more unusual practices be obedient and uncomplaining but register any reluctance by remaining silent. It is likely that your husband will then fall promptly asleep so adjust your clothing, freshen up, and apply your night-time face and hair care products.

You may then set the alarm so that you can arise shortly before him in the morning. This will enable you to have his morning cup of tea ready when he awakes.

swampygirl58 Tue 28-May-24 21:06:32

All I can say is .... that's shocking.
Oh, and in my marriage vows I omitted 'obey'.

Norah Tue 28-May-24 20:51:56

MissAdventure

Yes!
Let's all have a nice thread about toilet brushes.

Or ugly/not ugly, stretched out/not stretched out leggings?

MissAdventure Tue 28-May-24 19:34:46

Yes!
Let's all have a nice thread about toilet brushes.

keepingquiet Tue 28-May-24 19:33:06

These people longing for a past that didn't exist!

I read this message on a wall at the weekend:

'Stop feeling nostalgic for a life you never had.'

I couldn't agree more.

RosiesMaw Tue 28-May-24 19:18:46

Germanshepherdsmum

Why post this again?

Why indeed?

jocork Tue 28-May-24 19:17:52

I remember reading a similar article from a magazine published in the fifties. It was all about looking your best when hubby arrives home having cooked a lovely dinner before changing into fresh clothes and putting a ribbon in your hair etc. I think thigs may have been like that one upon a time.

Gundy Tue 28-May-24 17:02:34

Good Lord!! What Alien wrote that crap?

Of course, being a child in the 50’s I was never aware of that kind of “doctrine.” In time, I learned a little history about attitudes like that - not particularly good.

Then, the Revolution. Brava!

Hard to believe that 6-7 decades later we are back to this caveman thinking - thank you to the Republican ultra conservative movement who are trying to recapture their masculinity and put women in their place… the kitchen and laundry room. (Those poor dim-witted emasculated souls…) These guys (and even some women!!!) are making laws to repress you and take away your rights.

Get real! And VOTE out anyone spewing this nonesense.

nanasam Tue 28-May-24 16:10:59

grandtanteeeJE65 It's the Stepford Wives all over again! shock

grandtanteJE65 Tue 28-May-24 15:57:44

silverlining48

Those days are long gone thank goodness.

Unfortunately, they are making a come-back in certain parts of the English speaking world, according to a documentary I recently saw on France 24.

It seems to have started in USA amongst the more traditionally inclined groups, such as Ku-Klux-Klan, but is currently spreading.

(Some) young women, calling themselves, or being called ,Trad Housewives are singing the praises of a lifestyle that includes being stay -at -home- housewives and mothers, being financially depended on husband ,, and generally living life in a manner that we associate with our grandmothers, Old Order Amish, ultra-orthodox Hassidic Jews, or fundamentlistic Muslims.

Willing as I am to respect anyone's right to choose their lifestyle, I personally hope and trust that Trad Wives remains a minority trend.

OurKid1 Tue 28-May-24 14:27:25

Congress!!!! Well, that's one word for it, I suppose.

NLnanna Tue 28-May-24 13:29:42

I went to a catholic all girls school in the late 60s, early 70s. Our sex education was, and I quote, "I am a temple of the Lord thou shalt not enter!" I once heard on TV or read somewhere a mother say to her daughter, "let me eyes be your contraceptive!!". How things have changed.!!

Babamaman Tue 28-May-24 11:14:39

Reads as though it’s from Barbara Cartland! We may poo poo it but sadly in many countries this is still the norm! A woman must hede to her husbands wishes!
We’ve come a long way - but sometimes not all for the good

Bea65 Mon 27-May-24 20:50:02

It's doing the rounds again on here as I mentioned in previous thread was also on Next Door platform ...

mabon1 Mon 27-May-24 20:44:11

Oh, my goodness

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 27-May-24 20:41:40

Why post this again?

Marydoll Mon 27-May-24 20:09:00

BlueBelle

We be just had this thread havent we ?

Exactly!
www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1335269-This-is-too-funny?msgid=30594057#30594057

Norah Mon 27-May-24 19:36:00

I married in the late 50s.

Mum never said anything remotely resembling that. It's a spoof not a real textbook, imo. Nuns didn't say anything so silly. I believe they wanted us to be as they were and marry The Church and Christ.

Should your husband suggest Congress then agree humbly all the while being mindful that a man's satisfaction is more important than a woman's. Congress? Humbly? Really? grin

MissAdventure Mon 27-May-24 19:28:39

It sounds exhausting!!
Sod that for a game of soldiers!

BlueBelle Mon 27-May-24 19:27:52

We be just had this thread havent we ?

RosiesMaw Mon 27-May-24 19:26:33

Isn’t this the same extract (and thread ) as before? www.google.com/url?client=internal-element-cse&cx=010995057459380558086:wn3vvylhmc4&q=https://www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/1329941-Sex-Education&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwic4p-Quq6GAxXPQEEAHZcnDnAQFnoECAEQAg&usg=AOvVaw0gvHt5Ky1BJqCqPWZhoM_r&arm=e&fexp=72519170,72519168

agnurse Mon 27-May-24 19:23:20

Oh boy. Hubby and I are not NEARLY so formal.

As to the waking up early, I do recall one particularly funny incident. Somehow we forgot to set the alarm, and I woke up about 20 minutes before my stepdaughter (who was at ours that day) was supposed to be at school - and of course she wasn't awake yet. I let out a foghorn shriek that woke my husband, who was all, "WHAT in the blazes HECK, WOMAN?" Once he figured out that the house was not, in fact, burning down with everyone in it grin, we got daughter up and she made it to school on time!

BlueBelle Mon 27-May-24 19:12:57

Is this the second time this has been a thread recently or am I dreaming Sure there was quite a few pages about it

silverlining48 Mon 27-May-24 19:12:27

Those days are long gone thank goodness.

silverlining48 Mon 27-May-24 19:11:23

Not a spoof unfortunately.

hollysteers Mon 27-May-24 19:09:34

Reads like a spoof to me.