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Missing lad in Tenerife, Jay Slater

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JenniferEccles Sat 22-Jun-24 09:54:02

It’s every parents worst nightmare isn’t it? Our teens get to the stage of wanting to go away on holiday with a group of friends, and most of the time of course everything is fine and they have a great time.

This lad’s parents though must be suffering agonies. I do hope he’s soon found safe and well.

Callistemon213 Thu 04-Jul-24 15:31:16

JaneJudge

sorry, I forgot to add, I hope he is found safe

So do it, despite all. Whatever has happened, if he is still alive it might be the wakeup call he needs.

Sadly, I don't believe he is but it is all very strange.

Callistemon213 Thu 04-Jul-24 15:29:38

JaneJudge

Of course his parents want him home. I think it is quite common for young people to make mistakes or wrong decisions on nights out, especially in areas that are not familiar to them.

I don't think most young people use extreme violence towards others on nights out although it does seem to be on the increase.

Of course his parents still love him and want him home but he is not a boy, he's a grown man.

Just because he has an appealing face doesn't mean he is a reformed character by the sound of everything that is being revealed.

JaneJudge Thu 04-Jul-24 15:15:53

sorry, I forgot to add, I hope he is found safe

JaneJudge Thu 04-Jul-24 15:15:29

Of course his parents want him home. I think it is quite common for young people to make mistakes or wrong decisions on nights out, especially in areas that are not familiar to them.

maddyone Thu 04-Jul-24 15:11:10

I suspect he’s not a very nice young man, but I hope he’s found alive.
I suspect that he won’t be though.

BigMamma Thu 04-Jul-24 15:07:59

BigMamma

Todays news states he stole a £1000 Rolex watch and ran away so goodness knows what happened to him after that.

Sorry £12,000. watch

BigMamma Thu 04-Jul-24 15:06:40

Todays news states he stole a £1000 Rolex watch and ran away so goodness knows what happened to him after that.

Iam64 Thu 04-Jul-24 15:02:32

I want my baby home
Says so much in the known circumstances doesn’t it

Sparklefizz Thu 04-Jul-24 14:04:59

I find the language used in the media disingenuous to say the least. Jay has been described by his father as a “young boy” possibly abducted/targeted / whatever by two “grown men”.

His mum also was quoted as saying "I want my baby home".

RosiesMaw Thu 04-Jul-24 11:08:25

I find the language used in the media disingenuous to say the least. Jay has been described by his father as a “young boy” possibly abducted/targeted / whatever by two “grown men”.

Jay is 19 - hardly a child victim, at 19 he is old enough to serve his country, get married, vote, and very little younger than some of our England football team - and from what I read, perfectly able to take care of himself even if he has made some wrong decisions in the past.

OldFrill Thu 04-Jul-24 10:21:07

Sparklefizz

It's being reported that he did steal the £12,000 Rolex previously mentioned in reports because he sent photos and messages about it to his mates, so there could be several criminal elements to what happened ......

Although no such watch, to our knowledge, has been reported stolen which may rather hinder the investigation.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 04-Jul-24 10:18:23

Quite possibly. Featuring drugs I suspect.

maddyone Thu 04-Jul-24 08:59:21

My gut feeling is that something has happened to him that was not accidental.

Sparklefizz Thu 04-Jul-24 08:46:40

It's being reported that he did steal the £12,000 Rolex previously mentioned in reports because he sent photos and messages about it to his mates, so there could be several criminal elements to what happened ......

BlueBelle Thu 04-Jul-24 05:44:34

One word comes to my mind behind all this and that’s DRUGS

A long time ago a middle aged lady working in an office for a friend near me went missing ….after the initial hoo har it went quiet she’s was never found and to this day no one has ever known what happened to her There are many situations many mysteries like this with no real conclusions

comrade Thu 04-Jul-24 00:14:47

So the man Jay stayed with also turns out to be a convicted criminal? And he booked the Airbnb using a made up last name.

This story keeps getting more and more worrying...

Iam64 Wed 03-Jul-24 12:14:31

Pathetic is a very negative word to use in circs like this

Boz Wed 03-Jul-24 12:13:02

I suspect the boy is in a spot already searched. Remember how Nicola B. was found in rushes near where she fell in!
searchers said they had not been told to search rushes - Pathetic. Often people are found in areas already searched but not very thoroughly.

maddyone Wed 03-Jul-24 12:00:08

Yes, that’s all true Iam. Personally I wouldn’t go to Tenerife for three days only, but it could be true that they were there for the festival. I don’t think the man’s photo should have been published, whatever the truth of it all but I think it might be helpful for the British police to interview them.

Iam64 Wed 03-Jul-24 11:56:09

3 night stays on Tenerife not uncommon. The suggestion is these two were there for the music festival……..
Spanish police interviewed them and concluded they were ok to fly home, they did stay an extra day when asked to do so.
Jay was seen walking up the hill, in the opposite direction to the place he was said to be going. I agree there’s an underlying unknown here but 3 days ‘partying’ could leave this 19 year old making poor choices and decisions

maddyone Wed 03-Jul-24 11:42:20

A picture of one of the two men he was with last has been published in the DM. I’m unsure what I think about this. I do feel that these two men should be interviewed by British police, but publishing a picture is not the right thing to do. It’s strange that it’s been said that these two men only went to Tenerife for two or three nights, if that’s true as reported. Why would anyone go for such a short time? It’s all very strange.

Dickens Wed 03-Jul-24 00:34:18

comrade

The police are probably receiving reports of sightings from all over the place. But I don't think they know anything except where his phone pinged last and perhaps if the video call(s?) can be recovered somehow then something could be gleaned, ideally the exact trail he was on...

Everything else is speculation or people trying to be "helpful"

I agree.

I don't think the police are actually hiding information - they just don't have anything more to go on and having looked in the obvious places, don't have a clue where to search further.

I cannot imagine what his family are going through.

comrade Sun 30-Jun-24 22:10:23

The police are probably receiving reports of sightings from all over the place. But I don't think they know anything except where his phone pinged last and perhaps if the video call(s?) can be recovered somehow then something could be gleaned, ideally the exact trail he was on...

Everything else is speculation or people trying to be "helpful"

Casdon Sun 30-Jun-24 15:37:54

The police clearly know something they are not yet revealing about this case.

From Sky News:

The Civil Guard called for volunteers to join a new search in the Masca area - near his last-known location - on Saturday.

It has now confirmed to Sky News that the search has ended. Police are keeping the investigation open and could yet open up searches in the south of the island, but have not provided an update.

As La Masca is not in the south of the island I read that that means they now don’t think he disappeared there, but possibly later, in the south?

Smileless2012 Sun 30-Jun-24 14:40:33

One simply cannot imagine what his family and friends must be going through, never knowing what happened sad.