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When did you last meet somebody new?

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Greyduster Tue 25-Jun-24 16:19:11

When I was struggling couple of weeks ago to cut a large patch of very long grass with my shears because the strimmer had died on me, a lady I had never seen or spoken to came across with her strimmer and took the grass down far enough for me to get the mower over it. Astonishingly kind! I met her again yesterday and we had a long chat.

Aldom Tue 25-Jun-24 15:45:48

Summerfly and Lovemylife I belonged to Housewives Register in the 1960's. The group I belonged to then was in Chester.
I've made several friends through my NWR group (formally Housewives Register).
Meeting in our homes in smaller groups is very friendly.

Aveline Tue 25-Jun-24 15:16:10

I meet lots of new people every week at my various voluntary jobs. I really enjoy it. Yesterday I ran a quiz in a care home and then went to visit people who liked to stay in their rooms. Lots of interesting chat.
Today I met some students and some doctors at a simulated patient exam.
All this keeps me fully mentally occupied.

Lovemylife Tue 25-Jun-24 15:10:51

Summerfly I belong to National Women’s Register too, and it was indeed National Housewives Register many years ago. I’ve made so many friends through our local group. Someone new came today so chatted to her. We talk about anything and everything!

kircubbin2000 Tue 25-Jun-24 15:10:19

JamesandJon33

Callistenon123 I joined U3A also. They do not have a lot to interest me, but an excellent book group. Lovely people in that.

Are you two people or why the odd name?

Mollygo Tue 25-Jun-24 15:08:17

I do guided tours too, MaizieD. It’s a good way of meeting new folk and they frequently come for a chat on future visits.
Do you think we ought to declare any tips to the taxman, as they are unsolicited gifts?

Oopsadaisy1 Tue 25-Jun-24 14:36:40

I haven’t met anybody ‘new’ that I would meet a second time by choice for many years. Although we have a new post lady that started yesterday.

But recently due to MzOops ongoing health problems I’ve met Police, Ambulance drivers and Paramedics, various Nurses, Doctors and Consultants, they’ve all been very kind but TBH I don’t really want to see them again!

Jaxjacky Tue 25-Jun-24 13:51:58

A new couple at quiz last night in our local, we had a chat during the break, they used to visit the area we lived in during our time in Françe.

Judy54 Tue 25-Jun-24 13:46:18

We met our lovely new neighbour a few weeks ago and She has already been in for a coffee. We will I am sure get on very well together.

JamesandJon33 Tue 25-Jun-24 13:21:04

Callistenon123 I joined U3A also. They do not have a lot to interest me, but an excellent book group. Lovely people in that.

nanna8 Tue 25-Jun-24 12:58:23

Most weeks. I am President of a very large club and we get a lot of new members all the time. I love it, there are all sorts and ages range from 55-90. Keeps me busy.

NotSpaghetti Tue 25-Jun-24 12:44:17

I suppose it depends what you mean by "meet".
I have very friendly conversations with people all the time.

crazyH Tue 25-Jun-24 12:39:04

1 year ago. A new family moved into our village, and she invited us over for a Buffet. Very sweet of her.

Summerfly Tue 25-Jun-24 12:34:15

Aldom

I belong to National Women's Register. A lady who recently moved to our locality, has joined the group. I think we may become friends in time.
I'm another who like JamesandJohn33 has a new, young, friendly postman. smile

I remember years ago joining the National Housewives Register. I met my best friend there.
Is this a similar sort of group Aldom?

Aldom Tue 25-Jun-24 12:03:37

I belong to National Women's Register. A lady who recently moved to our locality, has joined the group. I think we may become friends in time.
I'm another who like JamesandJohn33 has a new, young, friendly postman. smile

Siope Tue 25-Jun-24 11:40:54

I’ve met loads of new local folk since I had a hip replacement three weeks ago - half the village seems to be invested in my recovery, and pop out of their houses to encourage me on my daily walks. It’s been lovely.

Joseann Tue 25-Jun-24 11:40:48

At the weekend, a friend of my friend here in France whose 23 year old daughter is now going to visit us this summer in the UK to practise her English. So that's actually two people!

Whiff Tue 25-Jun-24 11:35:10

This morning 2 delivery drivers and every time I go on the bus or train. And when out shopping.

Callistemon213 Tue 25-Jun-24 11:30:46

I joined U3A!
Say no more.

kircubbin2000 Tue 25-Jun-24 11:22:05

About 3 months ago I met a nice lady whose friend was having the same op as me. She offered to give me lifts and do shopping if needed. I haven't needed her help but have met her and her friend for coffee a couple of times.

JamesandJon33 Tue 25-Jun-24 11:17:27

About ten minutes ago. A new postman. The old one has given up in despair, so he says.

MaizieD Tue 25-Jun-24 11:16:08

I did it by volunteering. Not only did/do I meet new volunteers but I also do guided tours with a completely new set of strangers every time.

Not an option if you're a bit housebound, though.

Daddima Tue 25-Jun-24 11:11:36

I remember, many years ago when I was a stay at home mum, moaning to the Bodach that I couldn’t remember when I last met somebody new. That all changed when the children were grown, and I went back ‘into the world’, but now I find I seldom meet new people.
Yesterday I met my new neighbours’ daughter, which made me think of how rare it is that I meet new people. How about you?