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Have you got a personalised number plate and do you wish you hadn’t?

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PamelaJ1 Tue 06-Aug-24 16:34:12

I was given one for my 50th birthday by my mother who was influenced by my sister who was sure I would like one.
I was a bit cross because it was something I’ve never craved. It is a very ordinary one and now I’m in my 70ties I’m not too bothered about it proclaiming how old I am but…..
We are changing the car soon so today I had to pay £80 to the DVLA and £38 for new (old no,) plates so we can sell the old one🤬. Not for the first time.
It’s just the gift that keeps on giving!!!
Mum is still going strong at 95 but perhaps this is the last time I will have to do it.

MissInterpreted Fri 09-Aug-24 09:28:02

RosiesMaw2

^There main advantage to us is that people cannot label us by the age of the car we drive^

I challenge anybody to even know the age of car I drive (or the reg) let alone judge or label me.
In fact I often have difficulty in remember either and I have no idea about those belonging to my friends.

Believe it or not, there are people who can take one look at a car and know the model and year right away. You may not know any, but I can assure you I do.

M0nica Fri 09-Aug-24 15:16:56

The problem is RosiesMaw is that it is surprising just how many people do. Not one's friends and family, but people you do business with, hotels you visit etc.

At one point we had a Volvo Estate. When I changed jobs, among my leaving presents was a copy of 'The Sloan Rangers Handbook'. It was a joke present, Our elderly and rather tatty Volvo was not going to be seen on any grouse moor unless being driven by one of the beaters, but the image stuck to the car.

John Betjeman wrote in his poem ^The Executive*
^ I am a young executive, no cuffs than mine are cleaner^
I have a Slimline briefcase and drive the firm's Cortina
In every roadside hostelry from here to Burgess Hill
The maitres d'hotel all know me well and let me sign the bill

Whether you like it or not some people will assess your car and place you in a certain social group. It amuses us and we enjoy thwarting them. Although I think we get classfied as eccentric old buffers.

PamelaJ1 Fri 09-Aug-24 15:22:21

Actually MOnica although I know you are totally correct but I look at old cars now and think that their owners are doing their best for the environment😂
If I had changed my car every 3 years I would have gone through 5 ( well nearly) it’s 14.

Norah Fri 09-Aug-24 15:25:11

RosiesMaw2

^There main advantage to us is that people cannot label us by the age of the car we drive^

I challenge anybody to even know the age of car I drive (or the reg) let alone judge or label me.
In fact I often have difficulty in remember either and I have no idea about those belonging to my friends.

Quite agree. I've no idea to cars of our AC, let alone other people.

No judging or label applied to cars here in the East, perhaps in the city?

maddyone Fri 09-Aug-24 15:35:20

No, but the last two letters are the first and last initials of my name. Coincidentally.

RosiesMaw2 Fri 09-Aug-24 15:50:22

John Betjeman wrote in his poem ^The Executive
I am a young executive, no cuffs than mine are cleaner
I have a Slimline briefcase and drive the firm's Cortina

I wonder if you are not missing the point of Betjeman’s dig at the sort of person to whom it matters that he is driving the firms Cortina
As in Pass the fish knives Norman , Betjeman was an inveterate snob, fawning on Princess Margaret and with a trenchant sense of humour.
Volvos were sturdy workhorses in my day not “statement cars” , real Sloane Rangers at horse trials picnicked in the backs of Land Rovers or if in Chiantishire, Discoveries.
I think I can confidently say no hotel receptionist sales staff or anybody in a similar position judged us on the cars we drove - other than the type portrayed by Betjeman.

Joseann Fri 09-Aug-24 16:03:55

JackyB

Here in Germany the system is very different. All cars have to be registered in the town or district where you live which dictates the first letter (for large cities) or first two letters (for most towns) or first three letters (for tiny rural towns which still have their own councils and are classified as towns).

After that you have one or two letters (which can be your own initials) and two or three numbers (which can be your year of birth). Nearly everyone in our street alone has number plates following this system. It's not compulsory but it doesn't cost much extra and in our small country town it's quite doable and doesn't carry any stigma. In larger towns it's more expensive and more exclusive I think.

If anyone's interested I can explain a bit more.

So if the letters go by the size of the city or town in Germany, how come Hanover is H, yet Hamburg, being 3 times the size, is HH?

M0nica Fri 09-Aug-24 16:06:30

Norah I live in a rural area.

We have met this assessment in car showrooms, show houses on new estates and at hotels over many decades. It doesn't happen often, but it always amuses. But, as I have said, not among family and friends.

I think that if you run one of the many mid market cars available, these are very neutral and do not attract attention. I run a car like that, it is over 10 years old, but otherwise nothing exceptional then nobody does pay attention to what you drive, but if you drive an expensive car, or a very old car - and both DH's car are about 20 years old, then it can be very different.

Joseann Fri 09-Aug-24 16:07:56

I moved to Devon from East London a few years back and my car, which was bought in Essex, has a registration EX.. ... which is actually the postcode of a pretty village here in Devon where I now am! So sort of personalised!

RosiesMaw2 Fri 09-Aug-24 17:16:44

Sadly - or otherwise- now that Land Rover Discoveries or Range Rovers, Teslas and SUVs are ten a penny there is not much to impress the gullible by, if that is your inclination.
My gardener drives a Jeep, my handyman a Discovery and my cleaner a Subaru 4x4 - hardly status symbols, more trusty workhorses!

Janetashbolt Sat 10-Aug-24 21:22:37

we had one for the car it was the two letter make of car and the year it was registered, sold it when we sold the car

Norah Sat 10-Aug-24 21:50:57

RosiesMaw2

Sadly - or otherwise- now that Land Rover Discoveries or Range Rovers, Teslas and SUVs are ten a penny there is not much to impress the gullible by, if that is your inclination.
My gardener drives a Jeep, my handyman a Discovery and my cleaner a Subaru 4x4 - hardly status symbols, more trusty workhorses!

Indeed.

My husband's work vehicle is a Volvo XC90, a trusty workhorse - nobody gives it a second glance, not that anyone would, as you say Volvos are ten a penny in this poor rural area.

FoghornLeghorn Sat 10-Aug-24 23:13:59

No. I’d be embarrassed. More to the point, they make you far too visible. I drove a boyfriend’s car with a personal number plate many years ago. He’d know where I’d been every day as friends and acquaintances would report back.

Nightsky2 Sun 11-Aug-24 00:04:29

TerriBull

My husband did have one, I made him suggested he get rid of it, I don't like anything that draws attention in a "look at me " way. To be fair, his partner bought it for him some time ago when he passed a significant birthday, the number plate comprised of that age and his initials. He did eventually sell it, I I'm glad to say. There seemed to be quite a faff involved in the transfer when he changed cars if I remember rightly. Wild horses wouldn't induce me to get one it's probably a personal prejudice but I find them a bit vulgar ostentatious, but each to their own.

How patronising.

Purplepixie Sun 11-Aug-24 00:30:34

No. I just think they are so vulgar. Look at me syndrome!

David49 Sun 11-Aug-24 06:48:52

Purplepixie

No. I just think they are so vulgar. Look at me syndrome!

Yes Pixie it it “look at me”.
In exactly the same way cosmetic surgery, pumped up lips boob jobs, tattoos, red hair, extreme dress, extreme behavior, jewelry, designer clothes, is a statement of individuality.

Many of the above I would term vulgar and they would cost a lot more than personal plates.

NotAGran55 Sun 11-Aug-24 07:10:16

They can be good investments. We have one that has increased from £3K to £12K in 7 years.

BladeAnnie Sun 11-Aug-24 07:47:57

I have one which DH bought for my 60th a couple of years ago. I'd wanted one which related to my football ⚽️ team forever, and apparently he'd been looking for the right one for quite a while. I was more than overjoyed with it - a definite investment although I'd never sell it. I've also got past the stage of caring whether people judge me ..... 😄

Marydoll Sun 11-Aug-24 09:17:43

David49

Purplepixie

No. I just think they are so vulgar. Look at me syndrome!

Yes Pixie it it “look at me”.
In exactly the same way cosmetic surgery, pumped up lips boob jobs, tattoos, red hair, extreme dress, extreme behavior, jewelry, designer clothes, is a statement of individuality.

Many of the above I would term vulgar and they would cost a lot more than personal plates.

They harm no-one! There are worse things happening in the world.
I bought mine, cost £100, about twenty years ago, not to show off, but because the plate exactly matched my initials and I like quirky things.
Cronic ill health means my life is very restricted, with little pleasure in it.

You come across as rather judgemental, David -- and what I choose to do with my hard earned money is my own affair.-- 😉

P.S I have red hair too, but it is my own colour.😂

MissInterpreted Sun 11-Aug-24 09:35:05

I often wonder how some people on here breathe - the air must be so thin up there on their moral high ground... grin

Marydoll Sun 11-Aug-24 09:39:39

MissInterpreted

I often wonder how some people on here breathe - the air must be so thin up there on their moral high ground... grin

I do like your response.

I have to say, I would find it exhausting maintaining that moral high ground.

Mollygo Sun 11-Aug-24 11:00:44

MissInterpreted

I often wonder how some people on here breathe - the air must be so thin up there on their moral high ground... grin

🤣🤣🤣

David49 Sun 11-Aug-24 20:09:06

The high moral ground - sackcloth and ashes for all, no enjoyment or frivolities, no individuality.

For goodness sake we are discussing a thread about car licence plates, vanity plates, let those of us without vanity standup and be counted.

RosiesMaw2 Sun 11-Aug-24 20:31:08

David49

Purplepixie

No. I just think they are so vulgar. Look at me syndrome!

Yes Pixie it it “look at me”.
In exactly the same way cosmetic surgery, pumped up lips boob jobs, tattoos, red hair, extreme dress, extreme behavior, jewelry, designer clothes, is a statement of individuality.

Many of the above I would term vulgar and they would cost a lot more than personal plates.

The high moral ground - sackcloth and ashes for all, no enjoyment or frivolities, no individuality

Make up your mind David49.

M0nica Mon 12-Aug-24 14:26:58

David49

Purplepixie

No. I just think they are so vulgar. Look at me syndrome!

Yes Pixie it it “look at me”.
In exactly the same way cosmetic surgery, pumped up lips boob jobs, tattoos, red hair, extreme dress, extreme behavior, jewelry, designer clothes, is a statement of individuality.

Many of the above I would term vulgar and they would cost a lot more than personal plates.

So you would have us all dressed in shades of beige with our clean scrubbed faces devoid of make-up and something like a hijab wrapped around our heads so that anyone with naturally flaming red, or blonde hair could not show this vulgar attribute?

Shuld I remove my wedding and engagement rings, such vulgar items, and flaunting the fact that I am married?

Exactly what would you describe as extreme behaviour and extreme dress? Perhaps coming out on the streets and demonstrating anti-racists beliefs and support for a local mosque when it was threat from the Far Right hooligans, or perhaps the lady I saw at the weekend, who must have been well into her 80s, was going round a stately home in a loose light cotton dress, waisted, with long sleeves and a mid-calf skirt, but it was a good strong orange. it looked lovely - and so elegant.

As for designer clothes, are you confusing designer clothers with clothes with brand logos? Really good designer clothes are very discrete only giving their origin away by their impeccable tailoring. Is that really so vulgar?

What a dreary world you must live in if you live by the tastes that can be inferred from the above post. You would no doubt be at home in the land of The Hand Maiden.