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Lack of motivation - give in or fight it?

(35 Posts)
Septimia Tue 27-Aug-24 15:31:24

Read a book definitely. But planning a time to get down to some of these things is probably a good idea, if you can stick to it (I'd have difficulty!).

BigBopper Tue 27-Aug-24 14:34:25

I would say take things as they come, we get to a certain age and for the past goodness knows how many years we have lived to a timetable but now it is time to stop and smell the roses.

Babs03 Tue 27-Aug-24 14:30:26

Do nothing. Is underestimated as ‘a thing’ but is definitely a thing with us. Whenever babysitting duties, house moving traumas, and having relatives stay eases off we just lounge around and do nothing. Never lasts long so we make the most of it.

eazybee Tue 27-Aug-24 14:19:14

Read a book.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 27-Aug-24 14:17:07

Give yourself a holiday till 1st September then roll up the sleeves.
I have started now to give myself a proper lunch break. And a proper coffee and tea break and will stop trying to do several things at once.

AGAA4 Tue 27-Aug-24 14:05:42

It's good for you to occasionally give up and do very little. We need to recharge out batteries sometimes. That's my excuse for not doing much.

AreWeThereYet Tue 27-Aug-24 14:03:11

Probably give in and do something I want to do, like read a book. I only fight the inertia if it's ongoing for days and I'm getting nothing done. That's when it becomes pure laziness grin

fancythat Tue 27-Aug-24 13:59:40

I am in the same sort of position. Just finished with the 5th lot of visitors this summer.

I would chill. But going somewhere at some point, so decided before I flop, to do some packing, while I am still standing.

fancythat Tue 27-Aug-24 13:57:52

Definitely give in for now, at this point.

kittylester Tue 27-Aug-24 13:53:16

Usually, I am really busy with volunteering, grandchildren, cooking etc. 0h and DH!!

As it's the end of the summer we are grandchildless and my volunteering hasn't got into gear again yet.

I have loads of things I could do - new biscuit recipe, new bread recipe, I need new bras, I'm sure I could find something housewifely to do if I tried but I can't be bothered.

My answer was to start a thread on GN grinbut, would you give in and read a book, watch TV or fight the inertia?