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“Lovely”

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RosiesMaw2 Sat 05-Oct-24 18:14:03

Why is everybody referred to as “lovely” ?
You know the sort of thing, I suspect I am guilty of it too.
“My lovely cleaner, my lovely hairdresser, my lovely gardener etc?”
This from a post by our local WI FB group (place names redacted))
What a fabulous day out with our lovely WI ladies to The Kings Gallery and the Royal Mews - plus we were joined from a couple of lovely ladies from xxxxxxxxxx WI too
A superb day out with lots of lovely chats over tea and coffee getting to know one another a little better 😍 and two fabulous exhibitions that we all really enjoyed 🎉
Huge thanks to lovely xxxxx from xxxxxx Coaches for getting us there safely and huge thanks to all the lovely ladies on the trip

AIBU to find this all a bit saccharine and 🤮🤮🤮🤮

KGee Sat 05-Oct-24 18:20:22

No UANBU! I too am sick to the back teeth of every tiresome moaning Minnie being described as a “lovely lady”

AreWeThereYet Sat 05-Oct-24 18:22:49

Too many people with extremely restricted vocabularies?

Plus this modern need to be forever praising everyone that breathes for fear of missing someone out and bruising their egos.

What they wanted to say was

What a fabulous day out with our lovely WI ladies to The Kings Gallery and the Royal Mews - plus we were joined from a couple of ladies from xxxxxxxxxx WI too, despite not having invited them
A superb day out with lots of lovely chats over wishy-washy tea and coffee getting to know one another a little better than I wanted😍 and two fabulous exhibitions that we all really enjoyed 🎉
Huge thanks to lovely xxxxx from xxxxxx Coaches for getting us there safely despite driving like a maniac, and huge thanks to all the lovely ladies on the trip

Rekarie Sat 05-Oct-24 18:28:27

Lovely thread ✨️

Ilovecheese Sat 05-Oct-24 18:29:32

I think it is like referring to grumpy people as "a character".

Georgesgran Sat 05-Oct-24 18:35:13

What about ‘National Treasure’ often attributed to some obscure personality?

Dottydots Sat 05-Oct-24 18:38:58

Well, I had a lovely walk up the road today and bought some lovely flowers. A lovely man then caught my eye, so I gave him a lovely smile and a naughty but lovely wink. All in all, a lovely morning.

JenniferEccles Sat 05-Oct-24 18:42:41

Oh I agree with you. It’s become a very noticeable habit hasn’t it?

escaped Sat 05-Oct-24 18:44:46

Everything I type "lovely" on my phone, my finger slips and hits the "i" key, so my messages read:
"I had a lively time with a lively group of ladies doing lots of lively things."
The mind boggles! 😃

Jane43 Sat 05-Oct-24 18:47:38

Not just lovely as an adjective but as a personal pronoun - people in shops seem to call me ‘lovely’ all the time eg “Thank you lovely.”

Rekarie Sat 05-Oct-24 18:49:48

escaped

Everything I type "lovely" on my phone, my finger slips and hits the "i" key, so my messages read:
"I had a lively time with a lively group of ladies doing lots of lively things."
The mind boggles! 😃

I have that as well!

MissAdventure Sat 05-Oct-24 18:56:04

I use lovely a lot.

I expect I have a limited vocabulary, because I can't think of many other words, which are true, anyway.

I'd sound like a simp.

grandtanteJE65 Sat 05-Oct-24 19:00:36

There is a fashion in language as in everything else.

Remember our school-days (late 1960s) when everything was "fab"? Then "fantastic", "groovy" and more recently "awesome".

"Lovely" instead of "nice" will go the way of all the others. It is harder to predict what the new term will be.

MissAdventure Sat 05-Oct-24 19:07:55

Wagwan, Gs,

It was proper lit today at the Womens Institute, as we had the G.O.A.T giving us chat, innit?

Babs03 Sat 05-Oct-24 19:08:31

I think there are worse words to use, ‘amazing’ for instance. Whenever I talk to an estate agent on the phone these days - I have to because we are moving house- they almost always respond to everything I say with amazing. But I am just talking about viewings fir our house which isn’t that amazing when you think about it.

MissAdventure Sat 05-Oct-24 19:14:13

Smashing should make a comeback, I think

Tuaim Sat 05-Oct-24 19:31:12

It drives me nuts when people keep answering with perfect. My hairdresser refers to everything as perfect! Agghhh!

sodapop Sat 05-Oct-24 19:38:29

A step up from the ubiquitous ' nice' though.

MissAdventure Sat 05-Oct-24 19:40:18

What would you use instead of nice, though?

Visgir1 Sat 05-Oct-24 19:45:37

MissAdventure

What would you use instead of nice, though?

Lovely?

RosiesMaw2 Sat 05-Oct-24 19:55:14

I seem to remember being told to vary my adjectives in English lessons 60+ years ago.

AGAA4 Sat 05-Oct-24 20:03:30

I remember when lots of things were super.

MissAdventure Sat 05-Oct-24 20:06:16

So, alternatives to lovely or nice?

henetha Sat 05-Oct-24 20:06:31

At least lovely is a lovely word 😊

MissAdventure Sat 05-Oct-24 20:09:16

It is. smile