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merlotgran Tue 08-Oct-24 12:39:11

Mug!!

You’ve been in my life for many years, surviving a falling shelf when everything else was smashed, being left out in the rain more times than I could possibly count, indignity in the greenhouse when seedlings are being pampered and you’ve been placed next to grubby hasbeens stuffed full of labels, bits of string and a marker pen that no longer writes!

You have always understood that big drinks are not for me and your bone china elegance has always provided a more refined offering of my favourite brews unlike the large, clumpy pottery monstrosities hanging on my kitchen dresser because people keep giving them to me. I don’t mind that they proclaim me to be the world’s greatest granny or a gardening guru but they just don’t keep my drinks HOT so I end up leaving almost half of it.

You survived four months in storage in a packing case clearly marked so I could unpack you first and claimed your rightful place next to the tea caddy almost as fast as I could get the kettle on.

This morning, however, I had to make the sad decision that a suspicious looking crack could no longer be passed off as part of the autumnal charm of your tasteful design so I will gently place you in the bottom of the bin because I already have enough cracked mugs littering up the shed and greenhouse and in any case you would hate the company! 😢

ronib Wed 09-Oct-24 04:21:18

The mirror frame is fantastic. Did you make or buy it LauraNorder

LauraNorderr Wed 09-Oct-24 02:01:28

Make a lovely frame for a mirror in honour of your faithful old mug.

gentleshores Tue 08-Oct-24 23:59:43

I hear you! The same happened to me this year. My lovely favorite mug. It was porcelain and had painted bluebells on and came from a nice little shop with nice memories about the visit to the area. I couldn't even blame anyone else for breaking it! I put it down on a shelf near the coats for some reason and when I opened the door one of the coats swept it off onto the floor.

I chose a nice new mug for myself. I've linked it below! (I think they could make good gifts as well - I mentioned that before :-)).

I also have a mug, stored away, that I have had since I was 13 years old. The whole family had them with different designs - from Hornsea Pottery. It was used regularly until about 25 years ago when it got the tiniest little bit of glaze knocked off (hardly noticeable) and after that I decided just to store it - it has such lovely memories of childhood with my family.

I got the Zambezi mug. It was a bit of an indulgence but I think tea tastes nicer out of china. The pink lynx one is nice too!

emmajshipley.com/collections/mugs?srsltid=AfmBOorkHI9RopRTAV-SYgFX9pzYcN3J23JP3ZUhiDlg755996v58nC6

Summerfly Tue 08-Oct-24 23:36:54

Oh Merlotgran
“Parting is such sweet sorrow”.
I think most of us have a favourite mug. I smashed mine that I’d had for years. It was a gift from a dear friend with beautiful wading birds on from the RSPB shop. I keep looking, but I haven’t found a good replacement yet. Funny how we get attached to something as simple as a mug.

Allira Tue 08-Oct-24 22:59:03

can your faithful friend not be kept in service as a pen and pencil holder in the kitchen, merlotgran?

Allira Tue 08-Oct-24 22:57:37

Farewell dear mug

My two favourite bone china mugs have no pattern left on them now after about 20 years, thanks to the dishwasher but still provide faithful service.

I should buy myself a couple more because yes, the clunky ones given by well-meaning friends are just not the same, pretty or quirky though they might be.

But - have you seen the price? 😯

Cabbie21 Tue 08-Oct-24 22:02:20

Me too. Mine fulfils its purpose perfectly, but its pattern is faded and it is chipped. It was a leaving gift from a very special pupil. Now on its last legs, I shall be sad when it has to go.

Astitchintime Tue 08-Oct-24 15:24:21

I get it, I really do! I have a favourite mug, well a couple, but a very special one was gifted to me by the daughter of my late neighbour when they were clearing out her home after she died. She always served my tea/coffee in this particular mug.

merlotgran Tue 08-Oct-24 15:10:12

Thanks for the suggestions but I’ve decided to let her RIP in landfill or maybe another adventure awaits via the recycling centre.

She may one day meet up with Aunt Marjie’s Pyrex casserole dish! 😂

Washerwoman Tue 08-Oct-24 15:01:19

I knocked my favourite coffee mug off the side of the bath and it shattered on the tiled
floor.Heartbroken! I bought it from the V&A museum 20 plus years ago.The pattern had faded with years in the dishwasher but it was my perfect morning coffee mug.Ive yet to see one I like as much.

SueDonim Tue 08-Oct-24 14:09:59

Aw, what a dear friend! ❤️ I’d had the same thought of using as drainage in pots, then you’d be keeping it close.

I’ve used the same cereal bowl for about 50 years, the last remaining piece of a 70’s set. It’s ugly to today’s eyes, brown on porridge colours, but it’s perfect for my daily cereal. I do have an alternative but it’s just not the same.

Oreo Tue 08-Oct-24 14:00:57

MissInterpreted

I have a favourite mug, but I'm not sure many GNetters would approve of it! It's my Irritable Owl Syndrome mug...

I approve 😁

Oreo Tue 08-Oct-24 14:00:16

What a eulogy Merlotgran 🤣you could hire yourself out and make a mint.
I have a favourite mug too, a beaten up large china mug with a tatty looking cat on it.

MissInterpreted Tue 08-Oct-24 13:53:30

I have a favourite mug, but I'm not sure many GNetters would approve of it! It's my Irritable Owl Syndrome mug...

Babs03 Tue 08-Oct-24 13:50:06

I don’t have a special mug and also I am what my old mum would call ‘cack handed’ inasmuch as many mugs and plates over the years have slipped through my hands and come to grief.
Am also prone to knock over mugs of tea/coffee, one of my daughters is the same.
Is it just us or do other people do this.

Wheniwasyourage Tue 08-Oct-24 13:36:32

We’ve used bits of well-loved but broken mugs for drainage in the bottom of plant pots. It’s nice to see them when we’re repotting something!

NotSpaghetti Tue 08-Oct-24 13:26:36

Esmay I considered a mosaic too but remembered how much I loved finding pieces of old china/buttons etc in the soil.
Small joys for a future generation I felt.

I have a broken pottery ox which will be buried one day. It can't be mended but does hold significance here.
It was given my husband by my son-in-law when he married our daughter. My husband had jokingly asked (at their engagement) what he proposed to offer as "bride price" and my son in law said maybe 50 oxen?

This was one of them - handed over as part of his wedding speech. All different- one glass, a family group of china ones, two carved, one metal, one plastic an old lithograph another a painting... and a photo with a group on - all counted.

Happy day.

Tuaim Tue 08-Oct-24 13:02:16

Could you not grow something in it or use it for a mini flower display?

Esmay Tue 08-Oct-24 13:01:42

A beautiful tribute to your mug .
If you are really sentimental about it - it could be turned into a mosaic .
I've smashed my mother's favourite mug and feel really sad about it .
At the moment it's in a plastic bag and I'm thinking about it

The design doesn't lend itself to being a mosaic .

nanaK54 Tue 08-Oct-24 12:56:33

Oh no poor little mug sad
I am so sorry for your loss merlotgran flowers

GrannySomerset Tue 08-Oct-24 12:52:57

It’s strange how important unlikely objects become. I have a small Old Hall teapot without which life would not be the same.

Indigo8 Tue 08-Oct-24 12:52:49

Like losing an old friend.sad

When you fell ready and not before, try and find another bone china mug. Clumpy pottery is no substitute even if it does extol your virtues.
Find a nice tasteful mug, just the right size with a tasteful floral or maybe even fruit pattern. You owe it to the memory of your old friend the pair of pears mug.

MayBee70 Tue 08-Oct-24 12:51:42

sad

NotSpaghetti Tue 08-Oct-24 12:50:06

I have smashed and buried a favourite mug under my fig tree once it was unsafe to use.
Many happy memories with my old mug.
flowers

Clawdy Tue 08-Oct-24 12:43:21

Aw, poor little mug! Who will take your place?!