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Judy54 Mon 21-Oct-24 14:26:52

Visited a lovely pub restaurant recently but the portion on my plate was one of the largest I have ever seen. I like to see what is on the plate with the meat/fish surrounded by the vegetables. This was piled so high it was impossible to see what was what! Yes it is difficult for restaurants to please everyone but I just found it so off putting. On this occasion it even beat Mr J and that is saying something! Lovely as the pub was I just can't face visiting again. Would you find large portions like this not right for you?

dogsmother Mon 21-Oct-24 14:40:26

Likewise yesterday we went for a carvery, huge portions. I like a little of everything but it is impossible. And to answer your question yes it does put me off.
Now this is a bit of a contradiction as I eat a lot, but if it’s all presented in one go it’s just a no-no for me.

MissInterpreted Mon 21-Oct-24 14:41:39

I can't eat large portions because of a medical condition, so I always ask for a smaller portion. Most places are happy to oblige - just ask before you order.

Georgesgran Mon 21-Oct-24 15:15:07

There was an article on TV recently where a landlord who has a carvery, is going to issue fines to people who pile their plates so high, then leave half of it. I think he said people were welcome to go back for more vegetables, but he is sick of the wasted good food he has to throw away.

Mogsmaw Mon 21-Oct-24 15:31:47

We go to an Indian buffet restaurant in Dundee. They have a card on the table with a cutout face on it. It states if the food left on your plate covered an area larger than the face you paid £2 to a food charity.
It’s a fabulous friendly place, we eat there whenever we visit the V&A.
Also we went to an Indian restaurant in Glasgow for a pre-concert meal. They had “small plates” on the menu but we didn’t realise it was all small plates.
We ordered 2 curries with various accompaniments it was a small meal, but we realised it was plenty.

ExDancer Mon 21-Oct-24 15:37:51

Ask for a child's portion.

Elusivebutterfly Mon 21-Oct-24 15:42:51

ExDancer - A lot of places offer a different menu for children with things like sausage or chicken nuggets and chips instead of the nice food on the adult menu so that's not the answer.
Sometimes ordering a starter instead of a main is the answer but, if it is the first time visiting somewhere, you won't know what the portion size will be.

w1u7 Mon 21-Oct-24 15:59:39

Completely agree.I just can't eat large meals anymore. I love to eat out but so many places serve very large portions. I also think it is contributing to our obesity problem because many people will think,Well I'd paid for it so I'm going to eat it.

GrannyIvy Mon 21-Oct-24 16:21:22

Completely agree I hate to be over faced with food piled up. I feel bad if I leave anything and often comment in a restaurant it was so good but I just couldn’t eat it all !!

AGAA4 Mon 21-Oct-24 16:30:45

I usually have the smaller portion in restaurants as I can't eat a lot in one go. I like carveries but too many people pile their plates high and I wonder if they do that at home.
It's just greedy if you can only eat half of it and I don't blame the owners for charging extra for food left on plates.

hazel93 Mon 21-Oct-24 16:32:18

I too really dislike it . Please give me the "main " feature and sauce / gravy whatever with side dishes as they should be on the side .
Our local Sunday carvery is very good and when feeling lazy we pop up, always amazes me how much people can get on a plate ! It is so ridiculous. Why, oh, why !!

foxie48 Mon 21-Oct-24 16:40:26

I don't eat big meals, few places we go to offer small plates/portions or I'll have a starter if I know their portions are large. I hate to have my plate piled up, it's very off putting and although I do like to have french fries I always ask for a small portion often to accompany a starter!

valdavi Mon 21-Oct-24 16:49:31

We tend to eat little during the day, no crisps, no biscuits, & then at around 6 we have a generous main meal. We rarely have puds (DH has always said he prefers more of the main, & they are sugary). So if we go out for a meal I do like a generous portion. When I leave DH to get his own tea he'll often have a readymeal for 2 plus boil himself some baby potatos or a pack of green beans as a side.It is expensive eating out & a bit of a downer to go home feeling hungry, as occasionally happens to us. So maybe it's the likes of us that are to blame? Sorry!

mokryna Mon 21-Oct-24 16:50:51

I have asked for the same meal in a child’s portion before now. The waiter said I wasn’t allowed to have the cheaper meal. I said either I have the small meal and then a dessert or the adult meal and no dessert, it was their choice. They decided I was allowed the small meal and the dessert.

Babs03 Mon 21-Oct-24 16:51:45

I suffer from GERD and big portions would have me rocking and rolling with agony.
If I know a pub or restaurant does bigger portions I ask for a child’s portion.
Or a salad 🥗

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 21-Oct-24 16:57:41

Georgesgran

There was an article on TV recently where a landlord who has a carvery, is going to issue fines to people who pile their plates so high, then leave half of it. I think he said people were welcome to go back for more vegetables, but he is sick of the wasted good food he has to throw away.

“Eyes bigger than bellies”.

Jane43 Mon 21-Oct-24 17:10:06

I can’t eat large portions any more, I can’t eat anything that is too sweet either. I think it is the result of getting older, I am 81.

Babs03 Mon 21-Oct-24 17:15:28

Georgesgran

There was an article on TV recently where a landlord who has a carvery, is going to issue fines to people who pile their plates so high, then leave half of it. I think he said people were welcome to go back for more vegetables, but he is sick of the wasted good food he has to throw away.

The same happens at hotels with buffet breakfasts, have seen people piling their
plates high then leaving loads on the table when they leave. I can only manage some toast and cereal with fruit, is what I have at home so that’s what I have at a buffet breakfast. People seem to think it is free food so they have to take loads, but they paid for it in the price of the hotel/carvery.
Strange behaviour 🙁

CanadianGran Mon 21-Oct-24 17:31:46

Judy54, in a case like that, I would have asked for a side plate and taken some of the extra off my plate. Just so there is room to see it nicely plated. Sometimes I find there is no room to cut the meat without something else flying off the plate!

Also ask for a take-out container for left-over, there is no shame in that.

eazybee Mon 21-Oct-24 17:41:47

I have found that lately, with starters large enough for a main course, and plates covered with meat, vegetables, dressings, accompaniments etc. for roasts. i did ask for a smaller portion at a restaurant recently and was told all the meals were plated up and chef wouldn't allow anyone to touch them.
I hate apologising for leaving good food, and one of the waiters said privately that the portions were too large for an older clientele (that's us) and they were distressed by the amount of food that went into the bin.

mumofmadboys Mon 21-Oct-24 17:53:59

Restaurants should definitely sell smaller meals- less waste and hopefully less obesity!

RosiesMaw2 Mon 21-Oct-24 17:58:53

That's why I like places like Brasserie Blanc- small portions but exquisite!
Pubs tend to compensate for quality by piling on the quantity.
One solution an aunt used to have was to go for a starter and a pudding. You get more choice that way too!

Dottydots Mon 21-Oct-24 18:11:09

I'm not very big and can't eat big portions of food, but when I go for a carvery I find that my plate does get a bit overloaded. This is because there is so much choice and a little bit of this and a little bit of that soon mounts up.

sodapop Mon 21-Oct-24 19:16:21

mumofmadboys

Restaurants should definitely sell smaller meals- less waste and hopefully less obesity!

Absolutely momb I am put off my meal immediately if the plate is piled high.
Restaurants in France are now obliged to give you a box to take home any leftovers, that's a better option than waste at least.

OldFrill Mon 21-Oct-24 20:13:27

sodapop

mumofmadboys

Restaurants should definitely sell smaller meals- less waste and hopefully less obesity!

Absolutely momb I am put off my meal immediately if the plate is piled high.
Restaurants in France are now obliged to give you a box to take home any leftovers, that's a better option than waste at least.

French restaurants (serving over a certain number of covers) have been obliged to do so for years. Not sure he w well their customers have responded, as they aren't obliged to take their waste home.