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Aveline Thu 24-Oct-24 11:53:04

Has anyone else had a PM from 'Soren' wanting to 'reach out'to them? Very flowery language appreciating my posts. V odd. Have blocked.

silverlining48 Thu 24-Oct-24 16:59:06

WWM I saw a button which says block, so I did. Can’t remember where it was but would have to have been obvious for me to notice it.

Whitewavemark2 Thu 24-Oct-24 17:04:23

Ok thanks I’ll have a look. Honestly after 13 years on GN you’d think I’d know these things!!

Whiff Thu 24-Oct-24 17:14:12

Whitewavemark2 make sure you are on desktop site and the block works there .

jasper16 Thu 24-Oct-24 17:16:34

Maybe Ronnie and the Rev could link up?

keepingquiet Thu 24-Oct-24 17:24:54

I got a message that read like some of those 'phishing' messages you get on Facebook from US servicemen who are clearly fake.

I did message 'Soren' back asking her to be specific, but 'she' wasn't- just as vague in her reply so I did think it was fake.

Good to see others have had messages because I did think it was only me!

Thank goodness I gave her a fake christian name.

I was once taken in my a so-called 'charity' worker to who I sent a small amount of money before finally rumbling him.

No more trying to be nice on-line.

Thanks everyone!

Cossy Thu 24-Oct-24 17:47:52

Esmay

I have replied to Soren .
I don't know if she is genuine .
She might be .
I'm not familiar with her name .

I too replied, she responded to me with “Dear Esmay, what flowers are in your garden!”

Allira Thu 24-Oct-24 17:54:47

silverlining48

I think we are all more sensible than that, but…some of these ‘people’ can be very convincing.

I know!!

Kate1949 Thu 24-Oct-24 18:07:15

I've just had a pm from this person.

Witzend Thu 24-Oct-24 18:16:24

Yes, a very odd one from Scrader/Soren.
I haven’t replied.

Wyllow3 Thu 24-Oct-24 18:53:28

Could it be a bot?

JaneJudge Thu 24-Oct-24 18:59:08

Yes to both

Iam64 Thu 24-Oct-24 19:05:02

I’ve had the same pm. Blocked and reported
Yes I think a bot

PhilipGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 24-Oct-24 19:11:36

Hello everyone, we have dealt with that poster and all private messages from them have been removed.
Please report any suspicious PM to us at GNHQ - we are always happy to take a look and it is very much appreciated.
GNHQ

Luckygirl3 Thu 24-Oct-24 20:23:51

I blocked something similar the other week.

Calendargirl Thu 24-Oct-24 21:37:27

Well, my PM (2 of them) are still showing.

I reported and blocked.

Marydoll Thu 24-Oct-24 22:14:20

Calendargirl

I had one a few days ago, not that name but also began with ‘s’.

He/she admired my ‘thoughtful’ posts, and wanted to know where I was?

I didn’t share that info!

Myself and another Scottish gran had a PM from that person. We too wrote thoughtful posts. He/she was reported.

madalene Thu 24-Oct-24 22:47:53

I actually had two from that odd poster, I blocked.

henetha Thu 24-Oct-24 23:42:30

Oh darn. I thought it was someone being friendly so I replied briefly.
I'll block it/her....

Wyllow3 Fri 25-Oct-24 00:04:38

Not a nice thing to do, make a supposed friendly bot, glad we got some help to ID it. Grateful to GNHQ it gives us some protections.

Esmay Fri 25-Oct-24 00:37:49

Cossy- that's interesting.
She asked me what I'd been doing .
I mentioned my bulb planting .
The last one requested my email address .
I never reveal it .
Initially , I thought that it was from a very pleasant person using old fashioned formal English .
I'm certainly suspicious now .

Coolgran65 Fri 25-Oct-24 01:21:57

I heard from Soren. I replied saying, Enjoy Gransnet.

mum2three Fri 25-Oct-24 06:59:23

Oh dear....I hope I haven't been taken in. I thought Soren was genuine and gave him my e-mail address. He might just be looking for friends. I'll be careful what I say. The e-mail address is a 'disposable one so if things get dodgy, I can easily shut it down.

Marydoll Fri 25-Oct-24 07:21:51

mum2three

Oh dear....I hope I haven't been taken in. I thought Soren was genuine and gave him my e-mail address. He might just be looking for friends. I'll be careful what I say. The e-mail address is a 'disposable one so if things get dodgy, I can easily shut it down.

Very few grans have my email address or phone number , that's why we have PMs. They provide a layer of security.
Also, most of those, who have my details, I have met in person.

It takes time to build up trust, I would never give my email address to someone, who has contacted me online, until I have got to know them.

mum2three Fri 25-Oct-24 07:27:45

Marydoll

mum2three

Oh dear....I hope I haven't been taken in. I thought Soren was genuine and gave him my e-mail address. He might just be looking for friends. I'll be careful what I say. The e-mail address is a 'disposable one so if things get dodgy, I can easily shut it down.

Very few grans have my email address or phone number , that's why we have PMs. They provide a layer of security.
Also, most of those, who have my details, I have met in person.

It takes time to build up trust, I would never give my email address to someone, who has contacted me online, until I have got to know them.

Yes, it was silly of me. Lesson learned I hope.

Luckygirl3 Fri 25-Oct-24 07:54:00

Before blocking them I put their name into the search facility to see if any reasonable posts came up from them. When nothing appeared I blocked them.