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The Queen and domestic violence

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RosiesMaw2 Mon 11-Nov-24 21:52:03

Tonight on ITV1
Didn't quite know where to put this but very impressed, not to say moved by Camilla's dedication to this cause and her empathy and kindness talking to workers and victims. She shows a humane and mature understanding of the problem and a realistic and down to earth ability to relate to the women in this position. Well done Camilla!

Anniebach Wed 13-Nov-24 14:18:38

May I suggest a thread all about Diana,

This thread is of domestic violence

GrauntyHelen Wed 13-Nov-24 14:14:03

Commend not comment

merlotgran Wed 13-Nov-24 14:14:01

Cammie and Charlie?

Oh do Grow Up!

GrauntyHelen Wed 13-Nov-24 14:13:14

Im a survivor of domestic violence but still can't comment Camilla as she was complicit in the abuse of Diana . As to her late majesty not spearheading campaigns she was the Monarch Camilla is not

merlotgran Wed 13-Nov-24 14:12:07

Can’t Camilla support a cause highlighting domestic abuse of women without comparisons to Diana and the late Queen? They each had their own patronages and whether or not people like it this is Camilla’s time to shine and she’s doing it in her usual understated way.

She’s Queen (consort) whether we like it or not and I do. She’s had a lot on her plate since the coronation and has just ‘got on with it’ and Charles is a better King for it.

Give her a break!

sazz1 Wed 13-Nov-24 14:12:01

While I have every sympathy with anyone experiencing domestic abuse I really dislike Cammy and Charlie. They are selfish evil people who ruined Diana's life by continuing their affair. And I can never forget that. IMO Cammie is just doing this to fool the public into thinking she's a kind caring person just like Diana. She's not and never will be.
Sorry if this offends some people but it's my opinion and I stand by it.

Crossstitchfan Wed 13-Nov-24 14:05:31

David49

Very brave but could get very political, can you imagine Queen Elizabeth spearheading a campaign like this?.

No, I can’t! I don’t know whether that’s a good or a bad thing. I was a child when Queen Elizabeth 11 came to the throne and have always thought of her as being on a pedestal, above us mere mortals. The mystery of our Queen then was part of the attraction for me.
That said, I suppose I must move with the times and I think Camilla does a great job but I still feel she should be sitting on the throne and ruling, figuratively speaking! Unfortunately, her Majesty Queen Elizabeth was a very hard act to follow and there will never be another like her.

Anniebach Wed 13-Nov-24 13:53:02

The children greeting Diana was unofficial, private,
the late Queen was being welcomed home by dignitaries, she
did greet Charles

ruthiek Wed 13-Nov-24 13:50:46

Did anyone think” Camilla has personal knowledge of this” I thought she was fantastic in this documentary

Chaitriona Wed 13-Nov-24 13:32:36

Many of us will have seen a clip of Princess Diana opening her arms and her children running into them. There is also a film of Queen Elizabeth shaking hands with Prince Charles as a very small boy when the Queen Mother had brought him to.greet her after an absence. She doesn't speak to the child but turns from him and the childv looks confused and at a loss. He has said that she was a cold mother and he relied on his grandmother for open aaffection

.I don't think the late Queen had no feelings but I think she maybe didn't understand how most people express them. I sometimes think she may have been autistic. If so, she was perhaps very well suited to her job as she could go through a long life following royal protocol to the letter without feeling frustration or trying to change things. Autistic people, in order to pass, have to learn what to do in social interaction and then act it out rather than knowing what to do spontaneously without thinking about it. It can be a strain. So if she was autistic, protocol would have been very reassuring and s great help..

Anniebach Wed 13-Nov-24 13:26:43

Queen consorts are addressed as Queen , the late Queen would
know, her mother, grandmother and great grandmother were
Queen consorts

Mypennyfarthing41 Wed 13-Nov-24 13:16:41

I agree,too many people regard her as The Queen, she is absolutely not. Our late queen declared that she should be called Queen Consort. Too bad Charles doesn't respect his Mothers wishes.

Kate1949 Wed 13-Nov-24 13:16:20

I've never understood why some people are so horrible about Diana.

Ziggy62 Wed 13-Nov-24 13:14:37

I didn't watch it but when I saw a clip the other evening, my immediate thought was " hypocrite "

Mirren Wed 13-Nov-24 13:12:41

I love Camilla. My kind of " girl"( lady / woman ... don't want to upset anyone)
I think I would love her to be my friend
Sensible, straight forward and, dare I say , I think she is a very attractive older lady.
Wish they'd been allowed to marry when they were young.
Everyone, even the sainted Diana would have had a happier life.

Kate1949 Wed 13-Nov-24 13:01:40

graninthemist flowers I regularly saw my mother being bashed up which I won't go into. She was from Ireland and had nowhere to go and no one to turn to. She was too ashamed to tell her family.

graninthemist Wed 13-Nov-24 12:37:36

I too was a victim of domestic abuse, and I wish this issue had been brought out in the open a long time ago. It's so easy to ask why women don't just leave, but there are so many reasons why it might be impossible. I chose not to tell anyone, but I couldn't avoid my lovely GP knowing when I turned up to the surgery black and blue. I don't think she really understood why I stayed in such a horrible marriage, but she did give me medication to help me to live with it.

Anniebach Wed 13-Nov-24 12:29:49

Same as The Queen Mother was called the Queen and Mary and Alexander

PattyFingers Wed 13-Nov-24 12:19:08

When I read this posts title I thought it was actually about Queen Elizabeth II

Why do people keep calling Camilla the Queen? She is just the Queen consort NOT the Queen.

Kate1949 Wed 13-Nov-24 12:07:45

Me too *jenpax"

jenpax Wed 13-Nov-24 12:05:52

tanith

Good for her for caring but I still have a moment when people say * The Queen* as I can’t get used to Camilla being called The Queen.

When people mention The Queen I ALWAYS think they mean ER2 I cannot think of Camilla as Queen! Elizabeth was Queen my whole life 😱

DeeDe Wed 13-Nov-24 11:54:23

Yes especially as she was having an affair with Charles when he married poor Diana … she should know all about abuse and bullying..

Anniebach Wed 13-Nov-24 10:37:44

Camilla was married to a philanderer, I suppose Mrs Manakee,
Mrs.Hoare, Mrs.Carling may say the same

flappergirl Wed 13-Nov-24 09:32:06

mokryna

I thought Camilla is doing a very good job highlighting the problems women have. It was an excellent program showing how both mental and physical abuse is in all walks of life.
I also thought of how the young Diana was disrespected by her husband.

There is a certain rather glaring irony to all of this that hasn't escaped many posters on other forums, including me.

mokryna Wed 13-Nov-24 08:32:16

I thought Camilla is doing a very good job highlighting the problems women have. It was an excellent program showing how both mental and physical abuse is in all walks of life.
I also thought of how the young Diana was disrespected by her husband.