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Raising a glass to Giselle Pelicot

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madcatwoman Mon 23-Dec-24 17:22:09

Can we please, ladies, take a moment at Christmas to raise a glass to a wonderful woman who has endured the unendurable. Who has shown the world what it is to be a woman of grace and dignity. More than anything or anyone this year, Giselle Pelicot has shown me personally that we women need to stick together and support one another, no matter what. Even if we disagree, we are women-together and, as such, we should honour one another ... 'cos there's too many terrible men out there who would take our souls if we let them (as Carol King would say!) Yes, there are some terrific men, and we should treasure them and hold them close. If you've got a good 'un, hang onto him, that's what I say. But for Giselle, that hasn't been the case and, probably, never will be. So, hugs to Giselle Pelicot from me x

Whingey Mon 23-Dec-24 17:38:43

Good for her speaking out. Brave woman

Catterygirl Mon 23-Dec-24 17:44:59

I’m very proud of her and hope she goes on to find happiness.

Patsy70 Mon 23-Dec-24 18:12:16

What an incredibly brave woman, Giselle Pelicot is. Let’s hope she does find peace and happiness after this horrendous ordeal.

JamesandJon33 Mon 23-Dec-24 18:12:57

Exceptionally brave woman. 🍷

Galaxy Mon 23-Dec-24 18:15:41

I was thinking about an aspect of this the other day, and decided I hated him even more. Sleep is a place where you are completely vulnerable. You should not feel unsafe to fall asleep. It is unbearable what she has experienced.

Rosie51 Mon 23-Dec-24 18:34:04

Awful to think her abuse was only discovered because he was caught 'upskirting' in a supermarket. She has shown such courage and determination throughout the trial, I hope she can now come to a peace within herself. The physical abuse is over but the mental scars will be there forever.

Sago Mon 23-Dec-24 18:38:18

She is remarkable!

Had she gone to a Police station and told staff she thought she was being raped and drugged I would be very surprised if any Police officer would have taken her seriously.

The world now knows that men are capable of such heinous crimes and the unbelievable has become believable.

Her life will never be the same again but she has left a legacy to women all over the world.

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MissAdventure Mon 23-Dec-24 18:40:56

I'm raising my imaginary glass in honour of her, and her courage.

OldFrill Mon 23-Dec-24 18:41:43

I hope the entire family can find someway forward, and heal. Caroline Dorian, Gisele's daughter, has written a book, there's suggestions if a reason for between her and her mother. So many unanswered questions but Pelicot's DNA was found in a murder scene in Paris. Whether he will appeal his sentence isn't confirmed yet. Certainly raise a glass, but it's not the last we hear of him.

OldFrill Mon 23-Dec-24 18:42:34

* suggestions if a rift between mother and daughter.

ferry23 Mon 23-Dec-24 18:47:34

Well said madcatwoman.

I will most certainly raise my glass to her. A remarkably brave and dignified woman.

Vito Mon 23-Dec-24 18:58:36

Yes beautifully put madcatwoman .
There is no other woman more deserving of a toast and our thoughts this Christmas time. I hope the rest of her life is peaceful and kind

Sar53 Mon 23-Dec-24 20:39:24

A truly remarkable, brave lady. I hope you can find some happiness in the years to come.
I am in awe of your resilience xx

Indigo8 Mon 23-Dec-24 21:00:24

I wonder what the future holds for Madame Pelicot. I can't imagine she will want another relationship.

I just hope that she finds peace and some sort of contentment after all she has been through. I hope the admiration and respect she has been shown help her through.
Here's to Gisele.wine

tanith Mon 23-Dec-24 21:13:43

🍷 A very brave woman!

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 23-Dec-24 21:18:00

Well worthy of a glass being raised. What a woman!
And what a vile man.

Shez1955 Mon 23-Dec-24 22:36:39

Totally agree a very brave lady 🍷

PoliticsNerd Mon 23-Dec-24 22:52:43

There was a programme on Radio 4 called Fifty-one Frenchmen this afternoon. It will be on BBC Sounds.

Shelflife Tue 24-Dec-24 00:14:33

Well done for your post madcatwoman . As women we most certainly should honour each other. As you say lots of good men about but as we know there are lots of men out there that have no respect for women, feel they are superior, completely disregard the female gender and think they are entitled to own a woman's body - gone on throughout history and I hope that those who have accepted those views are at last beginning to question their thoughts .........
Not holding my breath though!!

crazyH Tue 24-Dec-24 00:48:51

Such a brave woman !

Ilovedogs22 Tue 24-Dec-24 11:30:26

MissAdventure

I'm raising my imaginary glass in honour of her, and her courage.

I couldn't say it any better myself MissAdventure. Yes, let's hope the wonderfully brave Madame Pelicot has a peaceful new year with fresh & happy new beginnings. πŸ™

watermeadow Thu 26-Dec-24 10:45:18

I admire her but am sure her reason to go public was not to stand up for women. Surely it was revenge against her bastard of a husband.

Sarnia Thu 26-Dec-24 10:50:23

I hope her bravery results in immediate and positive changes in the way women report rape, the way it is dealt with and in the minds of those male perpetrators.

Rosie51 Fri 27-Dec-24 14:09:38

watermeadow

I admire her but am sure her reason to go public was not to stand up for women. Surely it was revenge against her bastard of a husband.

Her husband's abuse was going to be fully exposed even if she kept her anonymity. She waived that to show that none of the shame was hers, she was an innocent victim. It also served to see the victim for who she was, not just a concept within the judicial process. She was seen, filmed, photographed as a living person who had suffered unspeakable abuse and survived.