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Posh……..a compliment or an insult?

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Sago Wed 01-Jan-25 14:37:28

Resurrecting an old one here but it’s a good debate.

I hate the word posh, I am never sure if it is an insult or a compliment.

What does it even mean?

I was taught that using the word posh indicated a poor vocabulary.

AIBU?

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 19:52:14

escaped

I think the twin sets I nean were revived by the posh girls around 1980 when I was at uni. A bit like the Diana/Sloane Square look with ruffled collar shirts. The tartan and tweed skirs didn't match the top half though like I assume they did in 1960? I'll look for a picture, but I'm out now until after lunch.

Oh, I remember those!
I think twin sets were more boring, a short-sleeved wool jumper with matching cardigan.

😯 just had a look - they are still sold!

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 19:53:24

MissAdventure

Before my time.
I was told my nan was a "sweater girl".
Mind you, it was my other nan who told me that.

Was she Jayne Mansfield? 😯

escaped Fri 03-Jan-25 20:04:48

Ah, I think I've got it now. So, a twin set is just the top bits. I've spent my life thinking it was like a suit - a skirt bottom and matching twin jacket in the same wool!
The posh girls at uni did often come to college like that. (They had done their A levels at Cheltenham Ladies' College or Westonbirt.)
Like so, a more modern version ......

Marydoll Fri 03-Jan-25 20:09:36

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 20:27:05

grin No, my nan wasn't Jane Mansfield, but apparently drove all the men a bit wild in her tight fitting sweater and pencil skirt.
She was a fat voluptuous woman.

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 20:52:29

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 20:57:51

Chanel suit

kittylester Fri 03-Jan-25 21:13:26

My mum told me I should wear a twinset as the wife of a professional man.

Marydoll Fri 03-Jan-25 23:03:01

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 23:03:33

Marydoll

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

😁

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 23:04:49

Marydoll

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

Ps which one is you, Marydoll?
I guess the glamorous one with the blonde bouffant!

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 23:05:32

Not saying the other model isn't lovely - she is!

Marydoll Fri 03-Jan-25 23:29:07

Allira

Marydoll

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

Ps which one is you, Marydoll?
I guess the glamorous one with the blonde bouffant!

Allira, that is for me to know and for you to find out! wink

Actually, I am a wee, fat woman from Glasgow! Well, not so fat after having Norovirus.

Allira Sat 04-Jan-25 10:57:49

Not the best way to lose weight.

Esmay Sun 05-Jan-25 10:48:14

I laughed to myself the day my neighbour and friend introduced me to one of her friends .
I was recycling and about to garden .
I have to admit to being a casual dresser when doing chores .
The friend said ,
'You said that she was posh .I didn't realise that she was that posh .'
I was wearing one of my son's socks and one of my son in law's socks ,a loose faded top pulled over a huge bleach stain on my paint splattered tracksuit bottoms .

M0nica Sun 05-Jan-25 17:36:25

I wore a twin set in the late 1950s when I was in my mid teens. My aunt made me a lovely dark turquoise tweed skirt and I wore a lilac coloured twinset over it. I loved the clolours. Never any pearls!

welbeck Sun 05-Jan-25 20:03:59

Essay
now I am wondering how you have access to your SIL's socks ...

welbeck Sun 05-Jan-25 20:06:57

I did write Esmay
honest but my phone thinks it knows better.
Probably something to do with Elon Musk.
He seems to be interfering in everything recently.

Esmay Mon 06-Jan-25 07:38:00

My son in law used to stay with me and left some of his laundry - nothing more exciting !