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Grandma70s Sat 04-Jan-25 18:22:37

Perhaps I shouldn’t introduce this topic, as it could get nasty. I was thinking how I have irrational dislikes of people I see on television whom I don’t know at all. Helen Skelton, Sarah Moore (from Money for Nothing), Meghan used-to-be Markle, Luke Littler. I know nothing about any of these people, but I can’t stand them.

Of course the upside of this is that I have irrational likes as well.

bluebird243 Wed 08-Jan-25 19:13:57

Miriam Margolyes.

MissAdventure Wed 08-Jan-25 19:18:16

Ah, I was waiting for Mariam to appear.

I'm not sure about her.

Crossstitchfan Wed 08-Jan-25 19:52:49

GrannyGravy13

Crossstichfan wow! I am so envious 🩵

I don’t blame you! I fell madly in love, even though I had a gorgeous husband at home! The TV never showed how handsome he was in the flesh. He didn’t photograph well but oozed sex appeal and seemed such a genuinely nice guy.

shysal Wed 08-Jan-25 20:03:07

This evening I have felt moved to start a new thread about Joanna Page on a wildlife programme. She drove me bonkers!

I must be one of the few people who have never seen Gavin and Stacey!

HowVeryDareYou2 Wed 08-Jan-25 20:04:23

Robbie Williams - I don't like his singing voice or his face grin
Miriam Margoloyes - vulgar
The weatherman on ITV Central, Des somebody - too animated

valdali Wed 08-Jan-25 20:12:39

Oooh I like Des the weatherman - we only get to see him when the TV has a wobble as we're not Central. Would swap ours for him.

Ilovedogs22 Wed 08-Jan-25 20:39:53

MissAdventure

Ah, I was waiting for Mariam to appear.

I'm not sure about her.

At first I thought 'Oh she's a game old bird' but as time has plodded-on,
I've developed an aversion to her.
I can only put it down to her
beady-eye roll, her hippy-waddle &
her panting breathy way of talking in a rather leary, creepy way!
Apart from that she just about bearable in tiny fairy doses!!!
Sometimes, occasionally, not often really to be honest!!! 🥴

Allira Wed 08-Jan-25 20:43:35

Miriam?

Ooh, you are awful - but I like you!!

kittylester Wed 08-Jan-25 21:02:41

I love Joanna Page and Robbie Williams.

merlotgran Wed 08-Jan-25 21:03:26

I couldn’t stand MM in the Marigold Hotel series but warmed to her in her programmes about Australia. I also enjoyed her autobiography although parts of it were obviously written to shock.

She’s one of a kind…Thank goodness. 😂

valdali Wed 08-Jan-25 21:10:59

I'm not sure people have an irrational dislike of Miriam - its how she presents & what she says.
Not like those people who you just can't put your finger on what it is that bugs you.

Calendargirl Thu 09-Jan-25 13:01:56

MM can be awful, swearing, crude, embarrassing.

Then she can come across as really empathetic and caring.

Sort of Jekyll and Hyde.

Sparklefizz Thu 09-Jan-25 14:14:37

shysal

This evening I have felt moved to start a new thread about Joanna Page on a wildlife programme. She drove me bonkers!

I must be one of the few people who have never seen Gavin and Stacey!

I have never seen Gavin & Stacey and have never felt I wanted to, so you are not alone shysal

I can't stand Joanna Page or Alison Steadman.

And much as I love wildlife, I couldn't possibly watch Joanna Page on that programme.

TheWeirdoAgain59 Thu 09-Jan-25 14:50:08

Another I can't get anywhere near is Crocodile Dundee's Paul Hogan.

A weird thing to say but he reminds me of white slime!

I won't watch anything with him in it and if I'm watching something and realize he's there I'll immediately switch off!

Kate1949 Thu 09-Jan-25 14:53:33

Oh I love Des Coleman the weather man. He is so cheerful. I'm always a bit disappointed when it isn't Des reading our weather. Another no to Robbie Williams from me.

TheWeirdoAgain59 Thu 09-Jan-25 14:57:38

Totally true story going back about 20 years when I was in my late 30s.

I was an acting assistant manager of a shop. We had this young Indian woman working with us, in her 20s and she absolutely terrified me! I think she scared other staff too but I was the only one who said anything about her.

She could speak reasonable English but would often try to talk to us in Indian. We had to politely keep explaining that we don't understand what she's saying and to speak only English when she's with us.

She was what I would call a psychic vampire - she literally sucked the energy out of us. She was devastatingly creepy, extremely moany, very odd, very lazy and tried to get us to do her work for her, never smiled, was seriously off. She was never in the shop, only working in the back.

When she wasn't there the rest of us were happy and laughing etc. but as soon as she walked in the atmosphere totally changed and became dark, eerie and ''sinister''.

On various occasions I had the misfortune of being left alone with her and each and every time, with or without other colleagues around, I could feel my knees buckling and I started shaking uncontrollably. I couldn't stand her.

It got to the point where one day she came in, again, creepy and negative. The manager was off duty that day. I shot into the loo and actually burst into fits of tears.

I rang the manager when she was at home and apologized for bothering her but explained the situation and that she'd been scaring us for the past month or so she'd been ''working'' there.

Manager said ''So it's not just me that's scared of her then?!'' This manager was known for being a nasty bully, loud and opinionated but as I was stood there on the phone actually crying and physically shaking she agreed to have a natter with The Vampire next time they're both in.

She did as she promised and The Vampire was a bit better over the next few days.

I left a few weeks later because of The Vampire and once saw her in the street. She tried to come over to talk, still looked and sounded scary but I made a run for it and refused to get anywhere near her! I genuinely believe she was actually evil and I had nightmares about her for weeks after.

hollysteers Thu 09-Jan-25 15:11:25

Jeremy Paxman and the other Jeremy
Simon Cowell
Ant and Dec
Nicole Kidman
Gwyneth Paltrow
Joanna Lumley
Lorraine
Helen Mirren
James Corden
The late Queen Mother
Michael Parkinson

My MIL had an ‘irrational dislike’of Angela Rippon

HowVeryDareYou2 Thu 09-Jan-25 17:25:26

I've never seen Gavin and Stacey (can't stand James Corden), and the new animal programme with Joanna Page - she spoilt it with her wittering and dithering. She was useless.

Des Coleman the weatherman - why the hell does he keep bending his knees and reaching his arms out?? Just tell us the weather.

Kate1949 Thu 09-Jan-25 17:28:34

Des is a showman. He's appeared in musicals. Maybe thats why he can't keep still!

MissAdventure Thu 09-Jan-25 17:29:14

grin

HowVeryDareYou2 Thu 09-Jan-25 17:42:36

Kate1949

Des is a showman. He's appeared in musicals. Maybe thats why he can't keep still!

Really? I didn't know that. He reminds me of a wedding reception DJ or something like that grin

MissAdventure Thu 09-Jan-25 18:03:26

I need to go and find him now. smile

nanna8 Thu 09-Jan-25 22:14:59

Germaine Greer was another one though my husband actually worked with her years and years ago at Warwick University. No one liked her , very opinionated and unpleasant before she became ‘famous’.

MissAdventure Thu 09-Jan-25 22:37:58

Oh, I quite like her, but then, I've never had to work with her.
Just watch her and read her books.

Ilovedogs22 Fri 10-Jan-25 20:24:03

Ohh nann8, you made laugh I won't forget David Rabbitburrow in a hurry! Brilliant 😄