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kingfisherfree Mon 03-Feb-25 10:47:14

After last night's awful events I feel relieved to have deleted my account.

LtEve Mon 03-Feb-25 14:16:15

As far as I’m aware you can post pictures on here so the same thing could happen on GN. Let’s not be too complacent.
I’m on both sites and find that I use both sites equally but for different things.

Rainbow1235 Mon 03-Feb-25 15:07:54

So glad I’m not on mumsnet xx

RedRidingHood Mon 03-Feb-25 15:35:55

I used MN more than GN. On there since twas all fields.

This site seems to have fewer functions - no quote; no @; and no edit for a start.
I dislike the ageism on MN and the vitriol against MILs.
GN has so much less traffic and feels rather cliquey, a bit like old school MN quiches.

Crossstitchfan Mon 03-Feb-25 15:52:54

nanaK54

Could we please stop using the terms 'child porn' and 'child pornography' it is 'child sexual abuse' some people may think that's not important but it really is.

I hadn’t thought of it like that before but, of course, you are absolutely right!

Cossy Mon 03-Feb-25 16:47:01

Awful!

AGAA4 Mon 03-Feb-25 16:53:57

I don't go over to MN very often and am glad I missed the child abuse. Really appalling.

NonGrannyMoll Mon 03-Feb-25 16:54:24

nanaK54

Could we please stop using the terms 'child porn' and 'child pornography' it is 'child sexual abuse' some people may think that's not important but it really is.

Very good point, nanaK54. Thanks, I will change my wording if the topic ever comes up again.

Delila Mon 03-Feb-25 20:24:13

Indigo8

Are these real photos of actual child abuse or AI generated?
Extra worrying if the former but either way, it is still a disgusting thing to post on MN.

Whether real photos or AI generated images, the effect must surely be equally sickening. I fervently hope I never stumble upon such a thing.

Indigo8 Mon 03-Feb-25 20:38:25

Delila

Indigo8

Are these real photos of actual child abuse or AI generated?
Extra worrying if the former but either way, it is still a disgusting thing to post on MN.

Whether real photos or AI generated images, the effect must surely be equally sickening. I fervently hope I never stumble upon such a thing.

I disagree, if only AI images were used and not real photos, then at least actual children were not harmed. Still extremely sickening but hardly "equally sickening".

Delila Mon 03-Feb-25 20:52:43

Indigo8, AI generated or not, the harm done to the viewer is the same, and the interest generated in those who are partial to this sort of obscenity is the same.

fancythat Mon 03-Feb-25 21:04:08

AGAA4

I don't go over to MN very often and am glad I missed the child abuse. Really appalling.

Ditto.

There has never been good or much cover at night.
No matter how many complaints there are.

nanna8 Mon 03-Feb-25 22:14:21

I would actually report that to the police. Hope they did. They would be onto them like a tonne of bricks here.

petra Mon 03-Feb-25 22:33:08

nanna8

I would actually report that to the police. Hope they did. They would be onto them like a tonne of bricks here.

Did you doubt that MN wouldn’t.
You have a population of about a third of ours. Our police are swamped with this obscenity.

nanna8 Mon 03-Feb-25 22:43:32

I don’t know, petra but I hope so.

nanna8 Mon 03-Feb-25 22:47:44

Just deleted my account after looking at the stuff they talk about. Not relevant for me.

Maggiemaybe Mon 03-Feb-25 23:28:45

Oh no, that’s sickening. sad

I look at MN as much as I do GN, and enjoy it more. There are some truly witty posters on there, interesting topics, a lot of expert help and genuine support for those who need it, and some laugh out loud barking mad threads.

But I don’t want to risk ever seeing images like that, and I’ll be staying off for now, hoping they can get their security sorted out. They’ve had some annoying tech issues for weeks, with snail’s pace loading of threads and constant freezing. The site seems to be in urgent need of an overhaul.

I’ll be worried now though that the same thing will happen on here. Maybe all images should be blocked for the time being at least?

Allira Mon 03-Feb-25 23:36:26

I had an account, rarely went on there but have now deleted it.

Oopsadaisy1 Tue 04-Feb-25 09:17:09

I wonder if that has anything to do with GN being down this morning? Tightening up their web site protocols maybe?

Barleyfields Tue 04-Feb-25 09:21:38

I wondered if there had been similar sickening pictures posted on GN when I couldn’t access the site earlier. I hope not.

Indigo8 Tue 04-Feb-25 09:23:05

Delila

*Indigo8*, AI generated or not, the harm done to the viewer is the same, and the interest generated in those who are partial to this sort of obscenity is the same.

I personally would be more sickened by actual pictures rather than AI manipulated or generated images. Clearly you do not feel the same way as I do. You are entitled to feel as you do.

Toetoe Tue 04-Feb-25 09:26:06

I often pop onto mums net whilst in bed and I'm so pleased I didn't on Sunday I had a good book to read . Then was shocked to hear about the pictures . Last night for a minute I once again logged onto mum's net and then became scared there may be something awful so left immediately. Maybe the answer is no pictures allowed until they have been monitored.

Ilovedogs22 Tue 04-Feb-25 11:25:36

I started on Mumsnet but was told off for a innocent but true comment which certain factions of the Mumsnet community took great offence at!
I much prefer Gransnet, it's much more free-thinking & far less narrow-minded (mostly). We can discuss, disagree & argue but there is rarely any real nastiness or lingering animosity on this site, so far anyway. 🙂

nanna8 Tue 04-Feb-25 11:33:56

I think we are older and more mature on here. Different stages of our lives. It can get fiery and there are a lot of different viewpoints but that makes it interesting.

MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-25 11:43:41

It's much more pleasant on here than it has been, at times.
Thankfully!

Anyway, there's rom for both sites, each with their own strong and weak points.

Iam64 Tue 04-Feb-25 12:14:24

Indigo8

Delila

Indigo8, AI generated or not, the harm done to the viewer is the same, and the interest generated in those who are partial to this sort of obscenity is the same.

I personally would be more sickened by actual pictures rather than AI manipulated or generated images. Clearly you do not feel the same way as I do. You are entitled to feel as you do.

Child sexual abusers have free access to images of children being sexually abused.
Accessing AI images will have the same impact as viewing images of live children. The men (it usually is men) who are sexually attracted to babies, toddlers and children won’t remain satisfied by viewing, they’ll be looking for real live children