How to address someone used to be important, now not so much. If I get a ( business ) enquiry I usually reply in the same vein… after a few ‘to and fros’ we bothnevitably end up with ‘ Hi ‘ or just a direct reply with no address,
Some people still hold to polite formality in which case I do the same. I often get a Good Morning / Good Evening from polite elder gents usually. If they continue with the average Dear Sue… I do the same back. It shouldn’t be difficult. I have to say tho that I have rarely been addressed by just my surname!
Have anyone ever hesitated to get help at home because of not much reassurance


