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Magenta8 Sat 05-Jul-25 08:36:06

My DD showed the latest reports on the GCs. There were virtually no personal comments just references to how the child was progressing in comparison with the standardised norm or some such jargon.

Looking back over old style school reports which could be very personal and even wounding, I wonder if some sort compromise between the two styles would be better.

One of my favourites was for a subject I had dropped the previous term, it read "contributes little in class". Another was a netball report from a games teacher which said "Where the ball is there is Magenta8".

Have GNs any fond, or not so fond, memories of past reports they would care to share?

Whitewavemark2 Sat 05-Jul-25 08:43:01

whitewave “is with the class in body, but not in spirit” 😄😄.

I’ve always preferred being outdoors.

NotSpaghetti Sat 05-Jul-25 08:52:56

No. But my parents did keep dozens!

Greenfinch Sat 05-Jul-25 08:58:36

“ should read the parable of the talents and take its message to heart”. Never did !😒

Grannybags Sat 05-Jul-25 09:05:09

Must try harder

Could do better

I could have done better and should have tried harder but didn't!

TerriBull Sat 05-Jul-25 09:11:58

Best ones, made public by former pupil who goes on to achieve outstanding success, "will never amount to anything" Eat your words dismissive teacher grin

grandMattie Sat 05-Jul-25 09:17:19

I think that it depends on the teacher. And how much time they have for the reports.
DS is a teacher and tries to be helpful and personal. He says he always tries to include something only the student knows about - an in joke.

Aveline Sat 05-Jul-25 09:18:16

DH's teachers were obviously scraping the barrel to come up with something positive to say : 'Best soup eater in the school'! He's never forgotten that accolade and still loves soup.

GrannyIvy Sat 05-Jul-25 09:31:37

I dreaded school report day. I was painfully shy and quiet and very middle of the road not excelling in anything. I was too scared to put my hand up in class in case people laughed at me. Always had comments like could try hard could do better. I always felt I did my best.However I went on to a further education college and held down responsible jobs all through my working career and was never out of work. I blossomed later than some 😂

BlueBelle Sat 05-Jul-25 09:41:25

‘Done really well this term but could do better’
Never a positive without a negative
But the reports now are just numbers and totally impersonal

I ve got all my kids reports and some of my own

GrannySomerset Sat 05-Jul-25 09:48:35

The worst (of many unflattering) reports said “R talks too much”.

Clawdy Sat 05-Jul-25 09:51:10

My old school reports has so many short comments - "Fair only " and " Tries hard" and "Average" or "Good". Report writing must have been a much shorter process for teachers back in the sixties!

Calendargirl Sat 05-Jul-25 10:25:39

“Calendar must learn to work and not talk in a practical lesson”

This was written by my Domestic Science teacher, referring to the Needlework classes.

I hated sewing, still do, gave those classes up at the earliest opportunity.

Maggymay Sat 05-Jul-25 10:56:54

I remember the red underlining there were always several on my reports.

grumppa Sat 05-Jul-25 11:00:36

"Must curb his tendency towards flippancy." Never did, I'm glad to say.

Elusivebutterfly Sat 05-Jul-25 11:00:56

Mine always said I was very quiet.

lafergar Sat 05-Jul-25 11:20:26

l. has progressed well in swmming this term. Only I hadn't because I never did it!

Poor concentration was often mentioned. I was concentrating with ever fibre of my being. Maybe spending my dinner money on donuts didn't help?

It's a shame all the little personal touches have been lost from reports.

Mollygo Sat 05-Jul-25 12:18:49

Back then a single line or, if the writing was tiny a two line comment for each subject.
I remember occasional praise, some could do better, but my least favourite was the one that mentioned how much better my brother was at chemistry!
Nowadays:
There is, on our primary reports, a block for personal comment (arial, size 12, please do not alter the box size).
Writing report comments with next steps for English and maths are well received by some parents and greeted with, “Well I hope you’re going to teach them that then!”

theworriedwell Sat 05-Jul-25 12:23:50

Worried couldn't draw a straight line with the aid of a ruler. Harsh as although I was no good at art I could draw a straight line with the aid of a ruler.

theworriedwell Sat 05-Jul-25 12:29:32

TerriBull

Best ones, made public by former pupil who goes on to achieve outstanding success, "will never amount to anything" Eat your words dismissive teacher grin

I remember Emlyn Hughes on This is your life. They brought on the teacher who'd said something like "if Emlyn is as good at football as he thinks he is he'll captain the England team". And he did!

Farmor15 Sat 05-Jul-25 12:51:42

An English teacher commented on a report once, that my writing was "too dry and factual"! She was probably right - I ended up in science, where dry, factual writing is the normsmile.

Linnana Sat 05-Jul-25 13:01:32

My primary school report said “ her sewing is good but she finds knitting a trial” …… nothing has changed!!

Ashcombe Sat 05-Jul-25 13:12:18

My school reports were glowing when I was at primary school but were less so at grammar school where I was often described as “quiet”! DH finds that amusing!

This week, DD2 forwarded reports regarding DGS2, aged 15 and DGD, 12 who attend single sex high schools in the same town. Both looked more like spreadsheets from a business with columns containing numbers that had to be cross referenced to explanations of levels on a different page of the document. These were related to DfE expectations for that age group. The only personal comment was on DGD's report and that was from her form tutor.

At the top of one column on DGS2’s report was A2L meaning attitude to learning. Similarly, on his sister’s report we see R2L for readiness to learn. DH and I found this concerning not least because it would have been as easy to use the letter T in place of ‘to’! It reminded us of ToysRUs!! Dumbing down appears to be the order of the day.

ViceVersa Sat 05-Jul-25 13:14:55

Academically, mine were all good - but I'm pretty sure 'talks too much' was mentioned on more than one occasion.

watermeadow Sat 05-Jul-25 20:15:43

When I was a child and growing up it was not the norm to praise children ever. Neither at home nor at school was I ever told I had done well or that they were proud of me. I think parents believed praise would make you big-headed.
School reports were all about pushing you to work harder. Fun, satisfaction and pride were unnecessary.
I hope things are different now.