watermeadow
When I was a child and growing up it was not the norm to praise children ever. Neither at home nor at school was I ever told I had done well or that they were proud of me. I think parents believed praise would make you big-headed.
School reports were all about pushing you to work harder. Fun, satisfaction and pride were unnecessary.
I hope things are different now.
How true, it was just not done for parents or teachers to offer much encouragement or praise in case you got above yourself.
I remember the mother of a very clever girl saying "I'm really proud of Susan." (Susan had just heard she had got into Oxford). My parents and the other parents stared at her in stunned silence and disbelief. One just did not say that sort of thing.
The correct thing to say, according to the other parents, would have been "I hope Oxford doesn't turn Susan into one of those awful spinster type, blue stockings who can't stand men and never marry."
I think now parents and teachers are more open to encouraging children and helping them to develop their strengths.