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‘Seventy-five, and everyone says I’m wonderful!’

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Witzend Tue 15-Jul-25 11:36:26

No, not me! (I’m just a bit over) but I recently remembered a neighbour of a granny saying this every time we saw her! This would have been in the 60s.

I don’t think 75 was a very great age even then - both GMs lived well into their 80s, and my lovely GGF well into his 90s.

But I can’t help thinking that hardly anyone would talk like this now about their age, or would they?

BTW I don’t think the neighbour had dementia, there was no talk of her ‘not being quite right in the head’.

BlueBelle Tue 15-Jul-25 16:07:42

RosieandherMaw

PinkCosmos

Lulu should look good. It is apparent that she has had fillers or surgery on her face. However, she does still have a nice slim figure. She was very sprightly when she was singing with Rod Stewart at Glastonbury.

He was also great for 80. I remember him saying years ago that he had always used moisturiser on his face.

I think Rod Stewart looks like the wreck of the Hesperus!

I totally agree, personally I think Rod Stewart looks awful

BlueBelle Tue 15-Jul-25 16:10:05

As a man who admired Enoch Powell and now loves Farage I think he’s as awful as he looks not what I would call sexy at all

lafergar Tue 15-Jul-25 16:20:37

RosieandherMaw

PinkCosmos

Lulu should look good. It is apparent that she has had fillers or surgery on her face. However, she does still have a nice slim figure. She was very sprightly when she was singing with Rod Stewart at Glastonbury.

He was also great for 80. I remember him saying years ago that he had always used moisturiser on his face.

I think Rod Stewart looks like the wreck of the Hesperus!

My mother used to look in the mirror and say that. Never heard it since or elsewhere.

Oreo Tue 15-Jul-25 16:26:58

Chocolatelovinggran

Well, Oreo, I'm definitely mutton, but don't necessarily want to dress as mutton. Sometimes I wear something a little lamb ( ish).

Oooh you daring trendy thing you😄no mini skirts or boob tubes tho I hope.

Chocolatelovinggran Tue 15-Jul-25 16:29:23

Oreo, I couldn't possibly say...

Oreo Tue 15-Jul-25 16:30:01

I thought the expression ‘looking like the wreck of the Hesparus’ was a common one? My Nan and Mum used to say it all the time ( in London that was) not that we saw many ships😄

Chocolatelovinggran Tue 15-Jul-25 16:34:34

I did once have a meeting with a parent regarding her child's attendance.
She explained that she was busy caring for her " elderly mother" . My colleague and I must have looked puzzled - the son was quite young.
She told us that the woman in question was fifty - nine ( ie two years older than my colleague, and four years older than me....)

TerriBull Tue 15-Jul-25 16:43:30

I remember my maternal grandma, she was probably only mid seventies when she died, but my recollections of her were always of an old lady, only she probably wasn't by today's standards. A couple of her sisters, maiden great aunts who lost their fiances in the Great War all wore a uniform of pleated skirts, blouses and cardigans, they all had white hair which was kind of, fairly short and set and wasn't coloured. That generation didn't really do anything much with hair, it was just stuck there on top of their heads in a nondescript way, no distinguishing styles they tended to look like the rest of their peer group. In my mind it was a ubiquitous old lady look. On their feet, they wore lace up shoes that had oval toes and a small Cuban type heel. It occurred to me recently when I was looking at some old photos of other relatives circa 1920s that would have been similar to the style of shoe they would have worn then, heel height wise anyway.

Possibly somewhere down the line in say a 100 or so years in the future, descendants will look at photos of us and think something along the lines of "look at them they're all wearing the same type of shoe, trainers, ankle boots or sliders", depending on the time of year. By that time someone will have discovered the secret of eternal youth, or if not, they'll merely be so botoxed, face lifted and expressionless, they'll think we looked really odd and old because we're smiling and our laughter lines maybe visible, even if we don't feel we look old now compared to how we perceived our own grandmothers. Maybe!

lafergar Tue 15-Jul-25 19:32:38

Oreo

I thought the expression ‘looking like the wreck of the Hesparus’ was a common one? My Nan and Mum used to say it all the time ( in London that was) not that we saw many ships😄

No problem. As you wish.

WhiteSwan63 Tue 15-Jul-25 19:54:41

My 80 year old step mum is totally fabulous. She’s still working and I was with her on Saturday when she had her second tattoo on her thigh.

valdavi Tue 15-Jul-25 20:02:28

Lulu for 76 is just amazing. now or at any time. She genuinely looks attractive, energetic, natural.
Are you sure you know people who look better for their age than her? I certainly don't.

Grammaretto Tue 15-Jul-25 20:12:21

There are some amazing older people out there. One dark haired, slim gt grandmother often leads our U3A walking group. She's over 80 and another octogenarian gives blood still as she has a rare blood group.

I'm not specially impressed by the aging rockers though I met Lulu once, not at a concert, and she was really nice.

M0nica Tue 15-Jul-25 20:51:56

Oreo

I thought the expression ‘looking like the wreck of the Hesparus’ was a common one? My Nan and Mum used to say it all the time ( in London that was) not that we saw many ships😄

Yes, gets used in our household - and we know what it refers to, which makes the modern use of the phrase quite puzzling.

Allira Tue 15-Jul-25 21:40:01

The wreck of the Hesperus, pulled through a hedge backwards, something the cat dragged in - all used to describe the state of my hair occasionally 😃

Milsa Tue 15-Jul-25 21:52:50

Usually dancers and ballerinas look very well in older age because their muscles seem stronger from all the training and their spines seem never curve from all that posturing

Mollygo Tue 15-Jul-25 22:04:03

Allira

The wreck of the Hesperus, pulled through a hedge backwards, something the cat dragged in - all used to describe the state of my hair occasionally 😃

I recognise those, and the haystack hairdo too.

SueDonim Tue 15-Jul-25 23:15:57

Allira

The wreck of the Hesperus, pulled through a hedge backwards, something the cat dragged in - all used to describe the state of my hair occasionally 😃

I love that saying about the wreck of the Hesperus. It’s how my GD looks when she comes out of school. grin

Another expression I use is that I look like Haggis MacBaggis I have no idea where that comes from.

I do wonder if these sayings will die out, though?

Scribbles Tue 15-Jul-25 23:23:36

Sorry, LucyAnna5. I now see it was RosieandherMaw who made the wreck of the Hesperus comment.

LadyGaGa Tue 15-Jul-25 23:40:24

In my 40’s and 50’s when my age came up, I would always get the ubiquitous ‘no way! You don’t look that age at all!’ Now in my 60’s it’s like tumbleweed …… 😂

M0nica Wed 16-Jul-25 10:31:41

Chocolatelovinggran

I did once have a meeting with a parent regarding her child's attendance.
She explained that she was busy caring for her " elderly mother" . My colleague and I must have looked puzzled - the son was quite young.
She told us that the woman in question was fifty - nine ( ie two years older than my colleague, and four years older than me....)

When I worked for Age Concern, I once had a client who turned to me and said 'wait until you are my age ,then you will understand how difficult life is. I was her age. I didn't say a word.

theworriedwell Wed 16-Jul-25 12:36:16

TerriBull

I remember my maternal grandma, she was probably only mid seventies when she died, but my recollections of her were always of an old lady, only she probably wasn't by today's standards. A couple of her sisters, maiden great aunts who lost their fiances in the Great War all wore a uniform of pleated skirts, blouses and cardigans, they all had white hair which was kind of, fairly short and set and wasn't coloured. That generation didn't really do anything much with hair, it was just stuck there on top of their heads in a nondescript way, no distinguishing styles they tended to look like the rest of their peer group. In my mind it was a ubiquitous old lady look. On their feet, they wore lace up shoes that had oval toes and a small Cuban type heel. It occurred to me recently when I was looking at some old photos of other relatives circa 1920s that would have been similar to the style of shoe they would have worn then, heel height wise anyway.

Possibly somewhere down the line in say a 100 or so years in the future, descendants will look at photos of us and think something along the lines of "look at them they're all wearing the same type of shoe, trainers, ankle boots or sliders", depending on the time of year. By that time someone will have discovered the secret of eternal youth, or if not, they'll merely be so botoxed, face lifted and expressionless, they'll think we looked really odd and old because we're smiling and our laughter lines maybe visible, even if we don't feel we look old now compared to how we perceived our own grandmothers. Maybe!

Goodness, my grans were born at the end of the 19th century. Never saw either of them in pleated skirts or lace up shoes. They both had very definite ideas about hair, one was into the blue rinse and the other decided in her 70s to grow her hair as she wanted to have a plait and wrap it round her head. One of them had arthritis but refused to have a stick, she bought an expensive umbrella that was strong, black silk with beautiful flowers painted on it. It was never used as an umbrella but was her walking stick in disguise.

Both of them had very little money but both definitely cared about their appearance.

eddiecat78 Wed 16-Jul-25 13:00:31

Yesterday in the dentist's waiting room I was joined by 2 ladies about my age (approaching 70). One was wearing really fabulous loose fitting dungarees. The other had well cut pale jeans, t-shirt and shocking pink ballet pumps. I wasn't looking too shabby myself and it struck me how different we looked from how our mothers looked at that age

mabon2 Wed 16-Jul-25 13:43:04

Lulu is a disgrace to older people, she looks about 20 with all that work she's had done. What's wrong with growing old grcefully I ask?

cassar Wed 16-Jul-25 13:57:50

Did anyone else feel indignant when a news report the other day described two women as 'elderly women' - they were only in their 60s!

annodomini Wed 16-Jul-25 14:00:35

There's nothing wrong with 'growing old gracefully', but I always thought it would be more fun to do it 'disgracefully'. I never quite managed that, but live in hope - at 84!