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Aely Sat 19-Jul-25 14:01:24

My house has, over the past 31 years since I moved here, turned into a combination Museum and unwanted items repositary. Yesterday, my daughter and I started a Blitzkrieg on the stuff that really had to go. First she booked a dump trip. I have no car and pedestrians aren't allowed, even if I could get the stuff there. Books and reusable items go to the Charity shops.

My last feathered friend went to a new home at least 10 years ago. Why did I keep for so long the huge bird cage, or the heavy mirror that used to hang over the fire place in the flat I left in 1990?

Then we started on the videos. The things we used with a VCR. I must have had at least a hundred of them. Double stacked. DVDs as well.
Some of them were originally my daughter's.
Surprisingly the ones to be removed went into two separate bags. Dump and daughter's loft. Why the loft? Because that is where she has stashed her VCR! Like me, there are some things she can't be permanently parted from, such as the Count Duckula videos of her childhood. I got rid of those I already have on DVD plus those I wouldn't want to ever watch again. I can't see me upgrading from DVD.
I should mention that I still have a VCR. Two, in fact, in case one breaks down!

Do you have clutter, or are you a minimalist? Is it clutter or a collection of old friends? One reason the job took so long was that a forgotten favourite would be unearthed and we would be lost in reminiscence before deciding dump/not dump.

Next trip will see the removal of my two ancient sewing machines. Or maybe just the Singer... Then the Jones really should go to a Museum!

Sometimes parting is such sweet sorrow... So why do it?

Gwyllt Tue 22-Jul-25 08:10:45

My husband proudly announced to a friend. Since we got married I don’t think I have thrown much away.
How true and enough to make me cry.
The junk has moved with us a few times

yogitree Tue 22-Jul-25 11:23:03

Mine is a bit of a Museum too, although some of it is actually still in use. Bits gathered from granny and mother gradually being sifted out applying usefulness/sentimental filters. As someone commented, things that are meaningful to me are turning out not to matter to my children so that's something to think over, however, I have found this thread very useful to help me prioritise and this morning have hefted a bin bag full of glassware, crockery, books, miscellaneous items to the local charity shop! I will try and keep at it - beginning to hate all this clutter!

yogitree Tue 22-Jul-25 11:41:43

Just found this link if you are in Scotland (and can't access TWAM)and want to donate sewing machines, tools etc to 3rd world countries.

.https://www.tfsr.org/support/give-tools/

yogitree Tue 22-Jul-25 11:52:13

Grammaretto

It's much easier with another person isn't it Madeleine. I find if I try to tackle it alone, I either get engrossed re- reading old letters or paralysed by the sheer scale of the task. I think I have been trying to declutter since DH died nearly 5 years ago. Progress is so slow.

I have an Italian helper coming in a week or so to stay and I hope, together we will make great strides.

What to do with 2 pairs of practically unworn Galloway clogs?

I can commiserate. My mother (who kept every receipt, milestone etc etc) died 10 years ago After 2 months clearing her house- selling, rehoming, etc I have since been gradually chipping away at the remaining items which are mainly sentimental, including a load of letters, passports, photos etc from early 1900's which I am loathe to part with partly because I have also started tracing my ancestry plus there are family 'secrets' in there They take up a lot of space and as you say it is easy to get engrossed and/or paralysed by the scale of it all.
Re the clogs, doorstep flower pots? flowers smile

yogitree Wed 23-Jul-25 14:19:41

Another large carrier bag away to Charity Shop today with clothing, bags etc. Started preparing another with kitchen utensils, pots, vases etc for tomorrow. On a roll!

Maremia Wed 23-Jul-25 16:26:18

yogitree, find/buy/repurpose a special and 'beautiful' box to store all of your family archives. Dispose/recyle the old containers. That way your treasures are all together and safe, and you can forge ahead with clearing your home.

Maremia Wed 23-Jul-25 16:29:32

Your nearest pet rescue might take your old but cleaned towels and bedding.

RedRidingHood Wed 23-Jul-25 22:20:04

Oxfam always want books.
And so do most charity shops..Do try them.

They don't actually. I've tried most charity shops and they all have more books than they can sell. Might sell more if they put 20p on instead of £2 but I guess they know what they are doing.
One shop said they would take half a dozen books if they were popular fiction.
The book bank at the tip was overflowing and the man told me it hadn't been emptied in years.
I think people just read digital now like me.

As for china tea sets, in the hospice shop they were marked up for £5 for a whole tea set. I asked why so cheap and she said they get lots given and no-one buys them.

Maremia Thu 24-Jul-25 08:53:45

Some supermarkets, for example Morrisons, have a table/bookcase just after the checkouts, where you can leave books, to sell in aid of Marie Curie Nurses.

Maremia Thu 24-Jul-25 08:54:34

B&Q also have a charity book table.

Aely Tue 29-Jul-25 16:27:20

For anybody still checking in - not been online for a few days, but news is, daughter has a sewing machine repair place near her. She is looking into getting my ancient Singer back into working order, either as a hand machine or a new motor. Once fixed, it can go back into use, perhaps through the TWAM scheme.

Sarnia Tue 29-Jul-25 16:31:48

RedRidingHood

Oxfam always want books.
And so do most charity shops..Do try them.

They don't actually. I've tried most charity shops and they all have more books than they can sell. Might sell more if they put 20p on instead of £2 but I guess they know what they are doing.
One shop said they would take half a dozen books if they were popular fiction.
The book bank at the tip was overflowing and the man told me it hadn't been emptied in years.
I think people just read digital now like me.

As for china tea sets, in the hospice shop they were marked up for £5 for a whole tea set. I asked why so cheap and she said they get lots given and no-one buys them.

Our charity shops only want paperbacks. I take mine to my groups that have Bring & Buy tables.
As for old china tea sets, as you say, nobody wants them now except for vintage tea shops.

petra Tue 29-Jul-25 16:37:32

Aely

For anybody still checking in - not been online for a few days, but news is, daughter has a sewing machine repair place near her. She is looking into getting my ancient Singer back into working order, either as a hand machine or a new motor. Once fixed, it can go back into use, perhaps through the TWAM scheme.

I took my 2 machines to the TWAM collection point on Saturday. Lovely people.
He told me they send 15 shipping containers a year to Africa.
Thanks for that info BlueBelle

Aely Tue 29-Jul-25 18:59:50

Our local hospital has a thriving book room full of donated books and it is very popular with visitors. Prices are between 50p and £1.50. Also, selection of the books are taken round the wards for the patients to read and return, like a mobile Library.

We must have a lot of keen, old-fashioned readers here. I know of two of our local charity shops who are asking for "More books please!" Books never run out of battery power at a vital spot in the plot.