Of course comparisons apply and are important, because even amongst EU members, several countries are asserting more of an independent rĂŽle within that organisation.
I have a neighbour from Belgium who has recently settled in the UK and we meet every week for coffee, and a chat in French. She tells me that Belgium is now moving away from its once unquestioned commitment to the EU and its foreign policymaking.
For example, the new Belgian government is tightening its migration policies, looking after number one more you could say, which is quite a change in approach from what used to be a very humanitarian country. I think, nothing to do with Brexit, this reflects what is happening in wider Europe too. Governments are pushing for stricter border controls, more rigorous asylum procedures etc. In Belgium newcomers now have to wait five years before becoming eligible for social aid. The only family members who can come and join the migrant are a spouse or a child of that person.
Inevitably at the back of every country's mind is security for themselves in more ways than one. Joined up thinking amongst EU members doesn't come into it, and I'm not holding my breath that it ever will, looking again the way things are going.