We lived in Darwin for over two years (1989-91) as my DH's job sent him there - we had no choice!
Very remote, thousands of miles from anywhere, but a bustling lively city, but very clearly keeping its roguish outback reputation as the place you escaped to if you ran out of other options... There was/is only one road (the Stuart Highway) in and out.
Very hot, 30°C plus, all the year round, but extremely wet and humid with the chance of cyclones from November to April - the lightning strikes were spectacular.
A fair distance from any interesting places to visit - most required overnight stays such as Kakadu or Katherine Gorge. We flew to the Queensland coast and the Whitsunday Islands for our main holiday.
Some local places we were able to get to for a day trip included the famous Adelaide River jumping crocodiles boat trip, the Northern Territory country park, snake and crocodile farms and also a large National Park whose name escapes me.
Surrouded by a beautiful blue sea full of hidden dangers, it was impossible to bathe at any time of year - poisonous box-jellyfish, saltwater crocs and blue-ringed octopus, so any visit to the beach was just that, a walk along the sand. And no bathing in rivers either - the home of the enormous saltwater crocodiles
Our children, then 10 and 6, obviously went to school there and loved it, making very good friends, and we too become friendly with other parents, who were very welcoming.
Lots of outdoor living and BBQs obviously! The people were so friendly and welcoming, and we enjoyed our time there - but were ready to return to the UK when our tour was over