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Michael12 Tue 07-Oct-25 05:23:06

Good Morning Everyone ,
Have woken to dark but dry start to the day here in Brackley this morning.
Usual routine with the bus to Bicester ,shop and chat to friends , I need to get some weighing scales as one of the feet so to speak as broken ,and its giving variable weights .
Health OK ,
Take Care,
Mick

Grammaretto Tue 07-Oct-25 08:28:03

Good morning all from the Scottish Borders. The sky looks ominous.
The washing almost dried yesterday in the wind and scotch mist

I'm expecting a new Helper/volunteer later today. She's Australian and is interested in wool.
I have been making a list of jobs I hope she can help with.

I'll be leaving her alone a lot. I hope she's OK with that.

I saw the lawyer yesterday, briefly, and think I know how to proceed with my business.

I then tried on and bought a couple of new tops and trousers.

I do admire you who can just wizz things up on the machine!
As for Karmalady: I'm surprised the word procrastination is in your vocabulary. 😂

Ashcombe The teacher is right. You are so much better. ❤️

A lesson for your DGS, Grandmabatty .

How wonderful to have so many visits from Gnetters Bellasnanna!

I hope Marydoll got on alright yesterday and also the FGTs

Have a the best possible day 😊

GrannyIvy Tue 07-Oct-25 08:30:22

Good morning from Cambridgeshire.
Just a quick pop in this morning to say have a good day. We are starting to decorate the spare bedroom today 🙈

Thinking of Marydoll and FGT but also others on this thread that are facing hills to climb. Take care everyone 🤗

Marydoll Tue 07-Oct-25 08:31:00

Good morning all from a wet Glasgow, where it is 12°C,

How exciting, Bellsnanna.

You must have been delighted to hear from your son, GM.

Glad to hear you are feeling better, GMB, but a painful lesson for your grandson.😪

Karma is there no end to your skills? 👏

Fortunately, I did make it to the Golden Jubilee, without any accidents., however, my anxiety wasn't helped by DH going rogue again,. He refused to listen and change lanes, when coming off the bridge, saying he knew what he was doing. Of course he missed the slip road.
At the next ( four lane) roundabout, go in the outside lane and take a sharp right and we will be fine, I said.
He drove straight on, insisting that this was the way he always went. He was talking rubbish. This was our usual route to the retail park and shopping centre, where I was tempted to open the door and jump out!

I could feel my anxiety levels rising,when he ignored the suggestions of both myself and the sat nav, I know what I am doing, said the he. 🙈
On this nmagical mystery tour, I saw parts of Clydebank, I never knew existed 😡
When we arrived at the fully occupied car park he said, I told you I knew what I was doing. He nearly found himself a patient in the hospital!
Of course there were no spaces, but at least, for once, he took my advice, to listen to me and let me look for a space.

Trying to find the surgical unit was another problem. We had to eventually go outside and into the very smart surgical unit, vastly different from my local hospital, where I was initially meant to have my procedure.
Each patient has a pod, (about forty of then) complete with a personal toilet. I have never seen so many medical staff in one place.
I did cause a bit of consternation, when the staff took my long, complicated medical history, and multi medication allergies, especially as I was wearing a Fentanyl patch and they usually give Fentanyl, as pain relief,
It didn't help, when staff couldn't find a suitable vein for the cannula. They settled on my hand, which now sports numerous shades of purple.

The procedure went well and the outcome is that I do not have cancer, but one of the lesser evils, probably a result of years of RA meds and opioids. It explains the years of stomach pain,
I could have wept with relief, Apparently, I have been having a flare up, hence my humiliating episode outside the GP surgery a few months ago.
Photographs were taken in three areas, for future reference,
I need to wait to see the colorectal consultant, to find out the results of the CT scan and chest x-ray, but I am not concerned about that. It is all relative, for I have waited ten months for a diagnosis, a bit longer is not a problem.

Today, is a day of rest, especially as I didn't sleep well and my head is throbing from the double dose of pain meds. No driving for a few days,
My joints are so painful, as is my stomach, I was downstairs at 6am for pain relief,
My butler, DH, who is usually up before 6pm, has just wakened. I was ^forced to make my own cuppa and hot water bottle for my hips. 😉
It is so unlike him, I am worried about the toll this is taking on him. He looks old and tired.♥️

Yesterday a parcel was delivered with my long line gilet and Babydoll's dinosaur umbrella, except there was no gilet, nor brolly, just an enormous puffer coat. 😡
A phone call to customer services is on the cards,

Overwhelmed by the support of my family, friends and kind Gransnetters has made me realise, life is not too bad after all, just problematic,
Thank you all. ♥️

Enjoy your day and my best wishes for all with mountains to climb.💐

RosieandherMaw Tue 07-Oct-25 08:34:38

Huge relief MaryDoll - now get on with getting your strength back!

Ashcombe Tue 07-Oct-25 08:36:45

Thank you for updating us and good to hear of reassuring news, Marydoll. 😀

Grannydaisy1 Tue 07-Oct-25 08:39:43

Well done Marydoll. Great news

GrannyGravy13 Tue 07-Oct-25 08:41:05

(((Hugs))) Marydoll you must feel as if a huge weight has been taken off of your shoulders.

madeleine45 Tue 07-Oct-25 08:41:24

Good morning Mick and all GN's on a still and grey morning here in North Yorkshire. This morning I reversed the order of the day and as I was feeling a bit less creaky was able to get up in what used to be my normal way and shower and dress and breakfast without loitering around and taking ages. So you are my last call and have just been reading all the posts, before I rush off to make the most of feeling reasonable and am going down to York to the designer outlet. Havent been there for months, but they have an M and S outlet there. For me it is always feast or famine there, they either have several things my size that I want at much reduced prices, or there is absolutely nothing that would fit anyone bigger than Twiggy!!

So my great plan is to put my box in order and my flask etc etc, now dressed in reasonably decent clothes but will put boots and thick jumper etc in the boot too. If the promised rain arrives I shall stay in the shopping centre and have a bit of a look round and then home to face more ironing, but if the weather stays good or there is nothing that I want to buy or try on, I shall make a hasty depart and carry on to Harrogate and go and look round RHS Harlow Carr, which is much more to my liking of course!!

I had such a lovely day yesterday, and all because of being flexible!! The plan had been to carry on with work inside and do a bit to the garden and wind the honeysuckle round the wigwam properly, but the weather looked so nice and sunny and dry and I was awake early. My friend up in the durham area was going for a covid jab today and rang to have a chat and it was so nice we decided that I would go up and we would have a time together. before the covid jab might have a reaction tomorrow. So I ,as usual ,was eager to abandon any thoughts of work and shot off, with the idea that if the promised miserable afternoon arrived I would come back to the jobs. Well so glad I went. The weather was lovely and sunny all day, we got a bit of shopping that was needed, and I signed up for a Morrison card. Up to now have never been anywhere near one to use it, but there area couple of them nearer me now , so yet another flipping card to add to my growing collection. Anyway we had a successful morning and as the weather was still so lovely went right up the durham dales and saw a herd of very mixed colour alpacas and some trees turning to autumn colours, so dont care a jot that nothing got done here, and again today am making the most of feeling up to moving about. But even a couple of days with less pain and getting something done, whether jobs or days out lifts my spirits, after weeks and weeks that seem to have been a struggle to just get through the days. But of course I have always had a sort of lifted spirit and ready to make decisions and get things done at this time of the year.

It is being a lecturer and teacher, so this is the "new year" to me, and am resolutely not looking at the very long list of things that have not yet been done and just cheered to see anything getting sorted and the simple ability at the moment to bend down and pick up something from the floor is cheering. My only problem is that I know myself of old, and instead of just being glad to do one or two jobs that have been waiting, I push myself to try and catch up with the endless things I have been frustrated with and then overdo it and get paid back by seizing up again!! Anyway it is lovely to be me today and not the moaning minnie that I feel I have become lately. Looking out of the window, I have a couple of fat pigeons strolling around near my windblown pots of flowers and there is a grey squirrel digging little holes and skittering about sticking nuts and stuff in them. There are a very few leaves on the ground considering the wind we had yesterday, but they probably got swept off to a pile somewhere further down the garden. I need to look up about salvias tonight. Bought six seedlings in a tray and while 5 of them are growing steadily and slowly one has shot up and even flowered. So I need to look up and see if I can plant it in the border - less likely to get frosted in the ground, or find somewhere to shelter the seedlings as now have no greenhouse or cold frame here. Ah well it can all wait , whilst I get off on my trip. Apart from really needing a pair of winter warmer trousers, and need to look out for some warmer socks for the winter but have to be the diabetic ones now that dont grip your leg too much. Had loads of super sox ranging from really thick woollen ones for walking and sailing to a pair of light looking but very warm cashmere ankle sox, but not allowed to have very clingy sox these days, so might find something that would be usefull. we shall see!! I may return triumphant with needed clothes, or more likely return triumphant with a plant from harlow carr!!

So wishing you all a successful day in whatever you are doing and will be back to read more thoroughly and catch up with all your doings later . May you all feel in a better state today

Georgesgran Tue 07-Oct-25 08:46:42

Definitely a weight off your shoulders MD. X

TillyTrotter Tue 07-Oct-25 08:48:04

Usually a lurker to this delightful thread but want to send a virtual bouquet 💐 to Marydoll. The best news!
You can cope with the other buggerations.

Aldom Tue 07-Oct-25 08:49:08

Thank you for letting us know the outcome of your investigation Marydol. I'm so happy for you that it's not cancer. Such a relief for you and your family. smile flowers

aggie Tue 07-Oct-25 08:49:57

So happy for you Marydoll

grandMattie Tue 07-Oct-25 08:51:11

Thank you for the update, MD. I’m so very glad for you that it isn’t cancer…
Of course, we cheer you on, you are such a support to us when in need. Reciprocations is a natural reaction! ❤️🫂

dragonfly46 Tue 07-Oct-25 08:55:19

That’s wonderful news Marydoll I am very worried my DHs appointment with the consultant will not have the same outcome.

TillyTrotter Tue 07-Oct-25 08:56:29

dragonfly 🍀

NanaBabs1 Tue 07-Oct-25 08:59:27

Another lurker here but so happy to share my happiness and relief to hear such good news from our very own queen Marydoll, shared in her own inimitable way of course. Long may she reign!

monk08 Tue 07-Oct-25 09:03:30

Welcome news Marydoll such a relief.

Redcar Tue 07-Oct-25 09:04:12

So pleased and relieved for you marydoll)

paddyann54 Tue 07-Oct-25 09:04:26

Good Morning from dreich West Dunbartonshire ,especially to Marydoll I am so pleased it went well ,having had this experience myself I know the relief you will feel.
If it’s as I suspected and mentioned then medication and some dietary tweaking will help .
I am now free of the horrible illness .
The Golden Jubilee is the crown in NHS Scotland ,my OH was treated there after his heart attacks and 14 years later Hes doing just fine .still behaves like a 20 year old …He remembers the brilliant staff with great fondness and the time spent there is a good memory

Enjoy the peace of mind today will bring and I hope your treatment works as well as mine did xx

Oldbutstilluseful Tue 07-Oct-25 09:06:55

Thank goodness, Marydoll. Like so many others, those who post and those who read, I’ve been holding my breath waiting to hear some good news from you. I’m so sorry for all your trials and tribulations, which you bear so stoically, you really are a very strong, special person. I hope that some help will now be found for you.

Grandmadinosaur Tue 07-Oct-25 09:08:20

Phew what a huge relief Marydoll yes illness does take a toll on our loved ones. Big hugs to you both. 💐

Fingers crossed for your DH today dragonfly 🤞

baubles Tue 07-Oct-25 09:11:56

Delighted to hear your good news Marydoll.

cornergran Tue 07-Oct-25 09:13:17

Such welcome news maryd. A huge relief.

Marydoll Tue 07-Oct-25 09:14:47

Dragonfly, thinking of you both today. x

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 07-Oct-25 09:15:17

That’s a relief MaryD! 🪻🪻🪻