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Good Morning Tuesday 21st October 2025

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Michael12 Tue 21-Oct-25 05:22:45

Good Morning Everyone,
A dark start but with signs of moister on the ground .
Today I have my chiropodist visiting ,before I do my usual routine bus trip to Bicester and hopefully chat to those I know .
Health OK , Have had problems with my BT phone unable to use , but made contact with them with new date to switch over to digital .
Take Care,
Mick

madeleine45 Tue 21-Oct-25 08:02:16

Good morning Mick and all GN's on another very dark morning in North Yorkshire. The only thing I can tell is that there is no wind and no rain. Other than that have to wait and see. Am having a topsy turvey day today. My normal way is to get up, shower, and sort stuff out before even thinking of going out anywhere. However today a friend has to go to Ripon for something and asked if I wanted to go too. So, it will be rather nice, as havent been there for ages, to go along. I wont even be the driver so not even struggling to find a parking place, as it used to be a very devil to find parking places near where I wanted to go. I was a singer in the church there and at the time lived in richmond area so had to be there early to bag a space as parking was difficult. It is a long time since I have been there so shall be able to see old haunts, find out if favourite coffee shops are still there and hopefully have quite a good mouch round antique/second hand places too.

The plan now is to decide what I shall wear and iron it , as have still large amount of very clean but unironed items awaiting my attention. Yesterday had to rescue the washing that was left out overnight and so that had to be spun dry and then hung on clothes horse to dry as it was damp and chilly all day yesterday. So it is a matter of delving down to find something suitable for todays jaunt. Think it will be yellow linen trousers and striped yellow top with jumper and then my "posh" going out mac, which is two sided, with navy one side and yellow the other. Not planning to look for a hat as dont think it will be a "ladies who lunch" kind of trip! Quite looking forward to it, as wont even be the driver for a change, but of course, my optomism will be governed by my ability to move and walk about, and that I shant know until we go!!

Am in quite a militant mood and at the right state of mind to get things done , especially regarding shops - mostly supermarkets!! As far as I am concerned we have bonfire night next and that date beginning with C in december is not to be considered, until after bonfire night. I totally understand that business must collect stock etc in advance, but was extremely annoyed yesterday when I went to tesco for some shopping. I will give them their due that Tesco are usually quite good about width of shelves and ways round , to have space to use a buggy to go round. But at this time of year they begin their inevitable creeping, where they start putting extra stacks of shelves and showcase things at the end of the normal aisles. For a start these are usually not solid but something like cardboard or whatever so not very strong, and yesterday there was one of these set of shelves which had glass things on it. Now the bottoms of these stands often stick out more to give some secure standing. However they put them both ends of many of the usual stands, and so even an experienced driver of buggies like me cannot just drive round the ends of rows but take up to three goes to get round, and can risk catching onto these loose cannons. All business have to have a fire certificate to be open , as I know from my own running things in the past. So yesterday I was polite but went to the customer service to complain and explain the difficulties caused by these being at both ends of the normal shelves and cutting down space to turn and being a hazard to others not just me. They also are a fire hazard as it now means much more combustible shelving in the whole shop added to the usual fire hazards in the normal way. So far , information noted, but nothing has been done to improve matters, in fact they were actually putting up another set whilst I was there. This coupled with the annoying , but understandable, moving of goods from their usual shelving to make way for more seasonal things, means that your organised shopping list to enable you to get things quickly and efficiently now does not work as you try to find where the heck the branston pickle has gone to , also adds to frustration and annoyance. I make sure that I do not complain to the members of staff on the shop floor as they are only doing as they are told, but I intend to go back probably tomorrow and see if there is any improvement. If not, I have given them fair warning and shall simply ring the fire brigade and ask if they have a fire certificate. When they say that they have, I shall tell them about the major problems that are there now and ask if they are breaking their rules,by not just the odd extra stand but a major difference. That should mean that the fire brigade will make an unannounced visit and then we shall see what occurs.

Many years ago, I was doing temporary telex work in London as I was travelling to stockholm and to germany etc and wanted to be free to come and go. It is always interesting to do temp work, as you get a chance to see what it is really like to work for specific firms etc., and I did a lot of shipping lines etc. Whenever I went to a new - to me - firm, my first questions were, where was I working and what did they want me to begin with, followed by where are the toilets and then where is the fire escape. They would look at me curiously, but if you think about it, when it is your firm, you know all the ways in and out of a building, short cuts etc., but I dont as it is my first time visiting you. So that plus what times lunch breaks etc where my basic checks whenever I went somewhere new . In this case I went to a transport firm, very busy , quite noisy and the telecommunications area was shut off from the main office with very thick glass, and only one door entrance. It also had , to my horror, a photo copier nearest the door, and you had to walk past that to get to the telex . Of course we had several large boxes of paper for the printers etc too, and I thought this is a death trap. How have they been allowed to do this? The final straw was when someone showed me through to where the toilets were, and we passed a fire exit door that had boxes piled up in front of it!! No mobile phones in those days, but I made an excuse to go and fetch something, went to the nearest call box and rang the fire brigade, asking to check if these people had a fire certificate. They of course said yes, but when I told them the situation I had gone into, they said there was no permission for them to shut the telex room off etc . I went back to the company and surprise surprise in half an hour the fire brigade made an unannounced visit, where they actually closed the firm down for the day, and told them to remove this unauthorised thick glass window, said that photo copiers must never be put close to such a load of paper and the possibility of electrical faults, and I think they were fined for leaving boxes against the fire door. The point of that was that coming in as an outsider you see all these things, and when I was head of a communications firm was used to thinking about such things. When things change gradually you may not notice how slack or dangerous thigs have become until a day when there is a fire or whatever and then you need to be able to leave asap! So, whilst I have sympathy for shops and stores who are pressured by their head offices to put more and more things on display etc., basic safety for both staff and customers must come first. Here endeth the first lesson of the day!!!

Ah a little more light on the scene now and can see the tree outlined against the grey sky, but so far dry and no wind, fingers crossed it kindly stays dry whilst we are walking in Ripon before the expected deluge this afternoon. I had wanted to do a bit more gardening, but absolutely no chance if it is about to pour down. When we get back, the weather will decide the afternoons plans. Dry - a quick change into scruff and out in thegarden - wet - more sorting and ironing before getting ready to do battle with the games group in the pub tonight. I am a glutton for punishment as each new game makes my brain work very hard, but am hoping I might have come to the last of the brand new to me games, and might have the chance to play something I have tried before, where some basic knowledge may stick and allow me to begin to finesse some of my playing. Oh how my social diary fills up these days!! Well fingers crossed, not in so much pain today , which makes a great difference to the day. I expect I shall pay for it tomorrow but thats life. Yesterday really struggled in pain for most of the day and it took me ages to do anything which is very frustrating, so just glad to be able to decide what to do by choice today, not by what I can manage. I went into Tesco , thinking there were a few bits I would get, and as is the usual way, having gone in with just two bags there were a lot of things that have been missing, and some offers so bought 4 jars of beetroot. You bought 3 and got one free, which as it doesnt go off and I always like to have some available was worth getting , etc etc., and needed weetabix and got the largest - and cheapest - size, but the large boxes are such a pain to try and carry. Why dont they put a little handle on the box? Anyway, cupboards looking a bit fuller now.

Mick, hope all goes well with the chiropodist and great that you managed to get in touch about the phone. fingers crossed that they can come and sort it soon. GrandMattie, if they dont get their finger out and get your heater sorted, might it be worth while speaking to citizens advice or age concern people and see if there are some laws or bylaws which cover specifically both being able to keep housing at a particular temperature, and also the length of time that you have been having trouble with this is unacceptable and maybe you are entitled to some temporary heating provided by them or compensation for all the hassle and coldness. They could lend you something like a bottled gas heater , which would at least give you some sort of heating, especially if we get a sudden cold spell. Greyduster, thanks for reminding me that I need to check on my car insurance and see what rubbish offers I get, now that I am 80. They will use any excuse to put the price up wont they?Karma lady , hope you get your walk in today before the rain sets in. It sounds lovely and warm to think of sitting knitting and probably a cup of tea or coffee to hand. When I get back if it is very cold, I shall put more ironing at the top of the list as that is also a warming job to do on a cold day.RoseandLilac, I used to do quite a lot of painting, never had a go at water colours, papers etc were very expensive for that and didnt have much money, but one of the things I found that I enjoyed, was a mixed media, so used gouache , but also used some inks, but not with the pens . I HATE the sound of the pens , they make me cringe, but I used to use differing sizes of paintbrushes with them and enjoyed the effect. The other things I liked where chalks and pastels and again sometimes adding gouach or inks and smudging things in with my thumbs or fingers. Did some good still life and using the smudging effect was good on peaches and apricots to give that smoother skin type. Might think to get my paints and stuff out later this year and have a go with them. I always used to have a small sketch book with me to make quick drawings of things while I was out and about, but seem to have forgotten doing it for some time. Hoping to get to Harlow Carr soon for a trip round there and it would be an ideal place to try sketching again.

Well no doubt a lot more GN's willhave been sending in posts while I have been writing this, but I need to get myself sorted for the trip and then come back and read more news from everyone. Hope everyone has a good day and keeps well

Doodle Tue 21-Oct-25 07:53:00

dragonfly having spent considerable time in hospital wards with Dh, I have come to the conclusion that there is often a dip in how patients are feeling on about the third day after surgery. It’s a sort of anticlimax before they start to pick up again. I do hope your Dh is better today and continues to improve and is home soon.
Thinking of you and the FGTs 💕

Jaxjacky Tue 21-Oct-25 07:51:20

Morning from a dry, clear S Hants, we had more rain yesterday which was a quiet day on the voluntary phone. Quiz in the evening, one error on the last round meant losing second place, do you know what a Snickers bar was originally called? (Answer later!).
A walk today, update the phone stats and the voluntary group AGM tonight, as a driver MrJ will come too.
I’d be hopping about that heater gMattie.
Good you’ve found your happy painting Roses.
FGT
🦩🦩

Grammaretto Tue 21-Oct-25 07:46:36

Good morning all from the Scottish Borders. Overcast.
I went on the U3A walk yesterday. It was 7½ miles but mostly flat along the beautiful Tweed. The sun shone and we ate our picnics at one of the bridges. It was good to be back.

Today I have to do my presentation at Gaelic so will practice reading it.

My Helper leaves today. She posted some of my bric-a-brac on Facebook last night and already I'm being offered paltry amounts for some things.

As Ash says, gMattie after all you've been through, it's a shame DD isn't more supportive but because we have always been capable and independent, they aren't even thinking how their plan changes might affect us. Mine are similarly far too busy to contact their old mum let alone invite her to dinner.

I hope your heater will come today.
Have a good day everyone.
Here is a heron and a fly agaric.

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 21-Oct-25 07:45:31

Morning all from West Oxfordshire.

Yesterday was wet and dismal - but it is October and autumn!

My mouth ulcer is much improved. The numbing/antiseptic lotion suggested by the Pharmacist works a treat.

My three offspring all live in London. Our daughter comes home for a weekend every 6 weeks. We see her other times as well. I’ve just booked tickets to go to her Choir’s Christmas concert. We see elder son and his family slightly more frequently. Our granddaughter is coming to stay for a few days next week - it’s half term. Younger son has only been back once this year but he keeps in touch and we visit various art exhibitions in London. I’d love to see them more but they have very busy lives. I do feel though that me and OH are kept in the loop.

I am seeing friends this afternoon. Dave has his shooting club this evening - I’ll watch the bake off and Richard Cole’s who dunnit on channel 5.

Have a good day. Kind thoughts to the FGT2S. The stress must be shocking but isn’t it true that we’re never given more than we can cope with?🪻

luluaugust Tue 21-Oct-25 07:41:50

Good morning from a brightening W Kent. Off to visit a friend for tea this morning and usual quiet afternoon. Apparently someone I have never heard of from the surgery is phoning me sometime between now and six o’clock tonight! I bet I’m driving when they call. Oh for the days……..
I do usually speak to my DC once a week but seeing them is more difficult as they all work full time. Not like me running around after my mum.
Best wishes to all

baubles Tue 21-Oct-25 07:37:56

Good morning from dark, damp South Lanarkshire.

I hope your heater is installed soon gM. It should be a matter of urgency.

Charity shop today followed by yarn group this evening. It’s a busy time, we’re up to our ears in crocheted angels for our Christmas giveaway.

Good wishes to all for today.

Georgesgran Tue 21-Oct-25 07:36:55

Good Morning from Durham. It’s not really light yet, but it’s dry with rain forecast later.
My day has changed as my friend can’t meet me this morning. so we’ve had to rearrange for Thursday, which is less convenient for me.
I have a chiropody appointment early afternoon today, so I can’t go far before that. I could pot up some pansies.
Yesterday’s physio was useful and just nerve entrapment diagnosed.
Both DDs are off work sick and DD1 has an MRI booked for next month. DD2 just has a heavy cold and it seems both DGSs are coughing and sneezing too.

Thinking of others with much worse things to worry them.

Best wishes to all. X

brook2704 Tue 21-Oct-25 07:29:51

Good morning everyone from Inverness where it’s still dark but looks dry, yesterday we had some warmish sunshine in the afternoon which was very welcome
Hoping your DH is feeling a bit better today dragonfly
A quick visit to the gym this morning for an aerobics class then home as our visitors are arriving around lunchtime. If it’s dry hopefully a local walk with them this afternoon
Thinking of everyone with worries and struggles, hope today is gentle and take care all whatever the day brings 💐

NannyJan53 Tue 21-Oct-25 07:26:37

Good morning from a grey and damp Black Country.

Rained held off most of the day yesterday, but I think it rained overnight

Attending a funeral today for a lady who was part of my Monday walking group. Very sad, she just collapsed and died at home.

That is just not on gM, a storage heater that you informed was not working in February is still not installed! I think making a fuss is called for.

Wishing you all the best day possible. Thinking especially of FGT's

GrannyGravy13 Tue 21-Oct-25 07:24:12

Good morning, I can see the sun rising along with the clouds gathering.

The Imp is tucking into his breakfast (scrambled eggs, toast followed by yoghurt and fruit) he has to be at school at 8am. DH has the job of taking him (next door but one)

I would like to go to a favourite garden centre today, will see what DH is doing.

Thinking of our poorly friends (((hugs))) 🙋‍♀️

multicolourswapshop Tue 21-Oct-25 07:23:25

Good morning all from the east coast of Fife. I had the most perfect visit to Edinburgh, I went to the theatre to see the Elvis impersonators they were fabulous

Have a good day and stay safe

dragonfly46 Tue 21-Oct-25 07:19:10

Good morning from a dark East Midlands. DH was not so good yesterday. I think the early progress lulled us into s sense of false security. His sister is coming to stay today so hoping he is feeling better.

Both my AC lived a distance away. I don’t hear from DD very often but we are always welcome there. DS is going through a very acrimonious separation so I hear from him daily and he is coming up at the weekend.

Wishing everyone the best day possible and FGTs DH is well enough to come home soon.

Redcar Tue 21-Oct-25 07:08:35

Good morning everyone from mid Essex. It’s dark and I don’t know what the weather is doing. We had some very heavy showers yesterday, especially in the afternoon at school pickup time! I went for my usual walk in the morning, but got wet on the way back. Cleared my ‘to do’ list which was mainly admin and could be done sitting down.
Doctors this morning and then I’ll see my friend with dementia this afternoon.
grandmattie I hope your new storage heater will be delivered and installed soon.
Thinking of all those who are struggling in any way, I hope the day brings you some comfort.
Have the best day you can everyone.

kittylester Tue 21-Oct-25 07:05:34

Good morning all from a still dark North Leicestershire. I can't hear rain.

Today we are taking Wolfie birthday shopping - wish us luck. And, no doubt, McDonald's for lunch.

Have the best day possible everyone.

ginny Tue 21-Oct-25 06:53:35

Good morning from Malta where we are forecast as Bellasnana says a warm , sunny day.
We have a free morning so will pop a few things back in the case before a stroll along the front . This afternoon there is a vineyard wine tasting trip.
Hoping today is kind to you all and especially those who are struggling with illnesses and other troubles.

Ashcombe Tue 21-Oct-25 06:50:39

Good morning from a dark but dry Nogent le Bernard where we had strong breezes yesterday evening.

Now that DH no longer has weekly cleaner visits there is nobody to do the ironing, the one domestic task he hasn’t mastered. Yesterday, I caught up with the accumulated pile.
Later we watched all the Monday night quizzes on his laptop which we enjoyed.

Of my three children, only DD2 regularly rings me and that’s usually as a result of me suggesting that we have a chat while she drives to school, grandMattie. All three offspring of mine are too distant to visit easily, with DD1 living in Australia! It certainly lifts my spirits when we do have contact so I understand how you feel, especially with the loss of your DH and Philip then moving nearer to DD and family. I hope the heater arrives soon.

I too struggle with driving in the dark, Greyduster except on familiar roads near home. It can be awkward at our theatre at times when people want lifts after rehearsals in Winter months although I usually say my poor night vision prevents me driving across town after dark so they generally prefer not to risk it!

A good day to all. Thoughts with those in need, especially FGT and himself.

🦩💐🦩🥰🦩

Susan56 Tue 21-Oct-25 06:42:41

Good morning from Shropshire.Another mixed forecast today.

Another day at home today.DH will be painting the kitchen.I am enjoying the unhurried pace of these quiet days like karma doing the daily chores and spending the afternoons reading.

Wishing everyone the best day possible🦩🌻

RosesandLilac Tue 21-Oct-25 06:33:51

🤗 grandMattie, I rarely see my two DCs and messages are sporadic.
Good morning from soggy south Glos, it’s raining here.
I had a good time yesterday finishing my line and wash painting, I’m rather pleased with it! It’s so rare that I actually finish one let alone like it! I will start another today, mixed media is definitely my favourite style; no more struggling with ‘pure’ watercolour!
We had a very wet dog walk yesterday morning, it wasn’t raining when we left and it bucketed down halfway round and all the way back….my waterproof isn’t, I need to reproof it.
I went to Lidls with DH, he got his few bits then went and sat in the car leaving me to pay and pay and drag the trolley the length of the car park, in the pouring rain, because he’d parked as far away as was possible 🙄.
Thankfully there were few people in the store, so no queues for once.
Today I will walk Tink then housework before more art stuff, playing with acrylic inks today for the first time so anything could happen!
Hugs to all who could do with one 🤗🤗🌹

Grandmabatty Tue 21-Oct-25 06:24:30

Good morning all from Polmont where it's currently 10° and wet. GrandMattie I'm annoyed on your behalf about the heater. Bellasnana that sounds like a nice time spent with dgs2.
Yesterday was good. The boys were well behaved and very cheery. It dried up and we spent some time in the garden before I took dgs1 to football training.
Today I'll take them to soft play. It breaks up the day for them (and me). This afternoon will be chilled. Last visit to the post office for money for the hedge removal man. Dinner will be chicken. The small chicken crown I bought on Sunday will do four days easily. Have a good day all.

grandMattie Tue 21-Oct-25 06:20:51

Re.family, bellasnana, thank you. I knew from the start of moving here that it would be like that. My Philip was absolutely mine, the same way that DD was her dad’s.
Sad but not unexpected. I’m pragmatic about it all.

karmalady Tue 21-Oct-25 06:06:52

Good morning from s somerset, it might be bright today and will definitely rain

A wonderful upbeat craft group session yesterday, I only did a few knitting stitches because I was enthralled by the animated lively talking with some 90 year olds, extremely knowledgeable clever people, about all sorts of topics.

I could go for a walk first today, it sets me up and I actually feel like jogging when I start but I don`t, in case people see, hence my fast pace. Head up, arms swinging but half an eye on the trip-hazard wonky pavements ahead

I`ll be gansey-knitting for the rest of the day and doing the daily chores, to keep my house nice

Have a good day

Bellasnana Tue 21-Oct-25 06:01:06

Good morning from Malta where a dry day with a high of 24°C is forecast.

Enjoyed having DGS2 yesterday. He was absolutely fine apart from a bit of a cough so we took him to a big play park where he had a good time.

He was asleep in the car when we got home so I carried him in and he had a two hour nap on the sofa before DD3 and his brother came to fetch him. They had a swimming lesson to go to.

DD1 in the US has been fostering a sweet little dog who had been in a high kill shelter. I don’t think she is going to be able to part with her now.

Not sure what we will do today.

grandMattie that’s a nuisance about your heater and upsetting that your family aren’t more appreciative of you. Wish you lived near me. 💐

Thinking of all of you and hoping the day goes well.☀️

Greyduster Tue 21-Oct-25 05:54:17

Good morning, Michael and all GNs. Still dark in South Yorkshire but it looks rather damp. I had a very early start yesterday - out in the car at quarter to seven. Driving in the dark is a trial these days. It also made for a long day. Today I have a volunteer session at school and then must go back on the trail of an affordable car insurance quote. My present company are, as they say, ‘avin a larf!!
Have the best day you can, folks.

grandMattie Tue 21-Oct-25 05:45:30

Good morning from a damp Bristol. It rained all day yesterday, but not sure if it did last night. We need the rain, but have forgotten what it’s like after the exceptionally dry summer. More is forecast today.
Yesterday was interesting. While at Tesco, I checked my phone for messages and saw one from the the occasional estate manager. My much anticipated spanking new working night storage heater due to be put in today, won’t. The installers’ van has broken down! 🤬 I first reported it to the manager in February, nothing was done. If it’s not done soon, it’ll be a cooold winter. I’m am not pleased!
The WI meeting was very interesting. A (female) journalist found out about all sorts of interesting women “who made Bristol”. Eg., in the early 1900s, a girl from a very poor background loved going to the cinema, some other cinema goers realised that she could read the titles so paid for her to go often, if she would read them for them…. She built up, a whole big group of attendees who couldn’t read either, etc.
DD telephoned; she never does. So I was a little anxious for the reason. She wanted to hear from me, also tell me that they were going away at half term, and she had a PCC meeting on Thursday. I normally dine there on Thursdays. I haven’t been for a fortnight. If I didn’t go this week, it will be 5 weeks without seeing/hearing from them. So be it. (I try very, very hard not to be needy, not to bother them, etc.)
Today, no heater! I’ve got to bake for the FAB cafe. I’ve got two meetings in the afternoon. One is a churchy thing I wouldn’t normally attend, but have been summoned as I’m on the PCC 🤨. The other is the “Later Life Hub”, including AgeUK. We shall be discussing the fete on 1st November, at which the vicar “kindly” volunteered me.
May all the mountaineers find a little chink of joy in their lives, especially fgt and md. 🌹🌷🌺
Carpe diem 🦩🦩🦩🦩