Crossstitchfan
Retread
Crossstitchfan
It’s hard knowing you are getting old. For me, when I feel a bit age-worn, I think that knowing I could have joined Mensa has given me a boost. At 80, on days when I do something silly, and realise how ancient I am, I cheer myself up by thinking, ‘I could have joined Mensa! I am nobody’s fool!’ It does help me to feel like a somebody and not a nobody. Daft really, I suppose.
I think that's brilliant
And that approach works both ways - when my friend's husband (the MENSA man) asks her for help with the cryptic crossword, she is known to jokingly respond "You're the genius, work it out!"Thank you, Retread.
Being Mensa material doesn’t mean one is brainy (well, it does in some cases, but not in mine). General knowledge is not my thing at all. I am quite thick regarding that! I suppose the only difference I see between me and friends (and previously, colleagues) is that I am pretty quick on the uptake and can quite often suggest solutions to problems where others can’t. I think the greatest advantage for me is that it boosts my confidence on ‘down’ days. At 80, it’s easy to feel stupid and forgotten, but I don’t feel that at all, and wonder if it is because of Mensa. In any event, I’m glad I took the test.
General knowledge is just memory. As Einstein said, I can look things up in a book, I don't need to remember everything. Paraphrasing a bit. Problem solving is where the pure and valuable intelligence comes in. Which you can do too. It's like a golden ticket.




