watermeadow
My sad lack of fun is mostly because I can’t get anywhere anymore. No car, no buses, no offers of lifts and I can’t walk far. I will ask for a lift if it’s important, like vet, or flu jab but my family all work full-time.
Completely understand that - it's physically getting out isn't it? I'm in a similar boat. I do have a car I can drive (automatic and the right height for me to get in and out of) and also now have a hoist in the boot for my mobility scooter. But I struggle to get to the car! Without someone else there. Due to my electric wheelchair not fitting in certain places in the house - really we need to have a couple of walls knocked down or move house - neither of which are quick easy solutions. It is doable if OH comes with me but it's a lot of hassle sometimes. In your situation, I would look into council transport. In my area, there is a kind of dial a bus that comes to the house and takes you wherever you want to go. Same fare as for the regular bus. If there's no bus service in your area, presumably you're rural too? These things aren't always well advertised, so I would contact the council and ask if they have a minibus service available for people to be able to get out - there may well be one. It does mean a bit of planning and less spontaneous - I think with ours you have to give 2 hours notice (or book it the day before eg). Otherwise, taxis - but that can get expensive. Could it be worth starting with one class and getting a taxi once a week there and back, and once you get to know people at the class, it may happen naturally - eg someone offer lifts for the class that's going in the same direction. My issue is I can't go in anyone else's car as I can't get in and out - they are either too high or too low to get into. And I can't do steps.