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Shall I change my name?

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Newatthis Sun 14-Dec-25 10:20:31

I first posted on Gransnet when our granddaughter was born 8 years ago and want to thank everyone for all the advice you all gave me as a new grandma. We now also have her sister who is now 5 and yesterday our youngest daughter had our first grandson - we feel blessed. After not seeing our two little granddaughters during Covid (actually not meeting our 5 year old until she was two which was heartbreaking) we now see them regularly. Our new grandson is a wonderful addition to our family and mummy, daddy and baby are healthy and well. The thing is , hall I change my name as I am no longer 'newatthis'?

Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 10:22:57

If you want to but my name was plucked out of thin air because I had just found GN and wanted to disagree with someone about something I readgrin. I don't know about others but I rarely pay any attention to peoples user names unless they are clever/funny.

Allira Sun 14-Dec-25 10:24:17

Congratulations on the new arrival!

If you're happy with it, stay with newatthis, after all, being a grandparent is a constant learning curve!

Allira Sun 14-Dec-25 10:25:53

Sorry - Newatthis

Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 10:28:09

You see, I am often on lots of threads with Allira but it is only just now that I am wondering what her username means.

Oreo Sun 14-Dec-25 10:29:30

I just happened to be having tea and a biscuit when I joined this site😄

Magenta8 Sun 14-Dec-25 10:32:37

I would stick with Newatthis as it is charming and original.

I don't know about other GNs, but I have been a granny for nearly two decades and I still feel 'new at this' sometimes.

One of my GCs is going through a heartbreak following the break of their first romance and I am not at all sure how to help them.

Magenta8 Sun 14-Dec-25 10:34:17

Galaxy were you eating chocolate when you joined GN?grin

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sun 14-Dec-25 10:37:50

A few posters like to change their names. Some do it fairly frequently.

Galaxy Sun 14-Dec-25 10:39:13

No Magenta for some reason I was thinking about space smile

HelterSkelter1 Sun 14-Dec-25 12:06:49

I often read the name and get it a bit wrong. For example Hithere. For a long time I read that as Hit here. Not what I suppose she/he meant Hi there.

I just like the word of my name. And always liked sitting on that coconut mat to whizz down to the bottom and then struggle back up the steps again.

Squiffy Sun 14-Dec-25 12:46:55

Mine was chosen because I happened to be thinking of my Aunt and she used to describe her brothers-in-law as getting squiffy! It’s such a descriptive word. Ironic, too, as I don’t drink alcohol!

fancythat Sun 14-Dec-25 12:53:50

FriedGreenTomatoes2

A few posters like to change their names. Some do it fairly frequently.

Do they?

I thought only two name changes are allowed on here?

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sun 14-Dec-25 13:20:26

I’m not sure how they do it fancythat I think they use someone else’s computer to re register - so it has a different IP address. Often the style in the way they post gives them away anyway.

BlueBelle Sun 14-Dec-25 13:28:58

I always read Hi there as hither rhyming with dither the penny only dropped some months back
I couldn’t think of anything original and was looking at flowers in front of me …..hence Bluebelle which I ve been ever since 13 years now

welbeck Sun 14-Dec-25 14:29:16

I am not at liberty to reveal the origin of my name . . .

lemsip Sun 14-Dec-25 14:31:15

you could be new at anything so why change your name when you can comment at anything you want

M0nica Sun 14-Dec-25 14:35:58

HelterSkelter1

I often read the name and get it a bit wrong. For example Hithere. For a long time I read that as Hit here. Not what I suppose she/he meant Hi there.

I just like the word of my name. And always liked sitting on that coconut mat to whizz down to the bottom and then struggle back up the steps again.

Yes, I do that! I have changed mine once, when someone I knew realised who I was and began to play silly games. I came off GN for 6 months and came back with a new name.

Mind you, it was disconcerting, how quickly regular embers sussed me out and PMd me to say. Were you..........?

Beechnut Sun 14-Dec-25 14:36:13

I’ve a different name to when I first found Gransnet.

Allira Sun 14-Dec-25 16:50:49

welbeck

I am not at liberty to reveal the origin of my name . . .

I always think of Welbeck College, a boy I knew in my teens went there.

madeleine45 Sun 14-Dec-25 21:49:55

I have kept the same name, and sometimes wonder about other names but the one that I always have to look twice at is Redcar, who actually I believe lives in Essex. As I live in Yorkshire, I have to remind myself that they are not in actual Redcar up here in the north east. I usually go onto the morning group, but also look at other threads sometimes.

SORES Sun 14-Dec-25 22:07:54

Newatthis, why change your name, you have introduced yourself now!

Mine was meant to say SOres, as in,
South Oxfordshire resident
I wasn’t quick enough with the shift key

SORES Sun 14-Dec-25 22:10:36

Welbeck! is this a cryptic clue you have provided?
or will you be forever
mysterious …

Whiff Sun 14-Dec-25 22:12:59

Please be aware that trolls take a usernames names and changed a capital for lower case or add a number. This has happened mainly on the estrangement forum .

Plus trolls spell words backwards . And these are really names they used before getting banned.
Llort- troll
emong -gnome
Can't think of all the others .

Changing you name is find but better if you change it to something different. As by just changing a lower case to a capital you with people replying using your old spelling .

I am glad you get to see your granddaughters and now your new grandson.

welbeck Sun 14-Dec-25 23:18:44

I've never heard of Welbeck College so it's nothing to do with that.