I would like a decision as to when the family will actually be coming on the 25th. They’re all coming here for meals and presents but the plans keep changing. It’s driving me mad. First it’s Christmas dinner at 1 then presents and games and walk the dogs (their dogs, we don’t have any). Then it’s a light lunch, walk the dogs, presents and a late Christmas dinner. Then it’s arriving after the 3pm dog walk, back for dinner and presents afterwards. I’m cooking. And ordering the food. And going a bit crazy. Happens every year, usually works but this year there are more ponderables in the mix. Am I too soft because I don’t want to upset anyone? There will be 12 people. Probably. And two dogs, 1 vegan, 2 veggies and the rest will eat anything luckily. That’s what I would like. A decision.