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dkdd Fri 09-Jan-26 16:31:45

I love a meet cute story/rom com.
LONG time single.
Had a 'moment' with a man yesterday. He's a local delivery driver. Third time he's delivered to me. First time (3 months ago maybe) he was blown away by the view where I live, he's never seen it, even though he only lives 2 streets away. I asked him inside that first time to see the view properly. My god, that sounds nuts when I type it, but I am extremely risk averse and judgy and I got nothing but good vibes from this man. He was in my living room for all of 10 seconds. 2nd time (pre xmas) he was all smiley there was a bit of chit chat about snow and views and wildlife. 3rd, yesterday I opened the door to him saying he was hoping he'd get a delivery for me 'that fantastic lady'. He is extremely good looking, and I rarely see men I find attractive.
What should I order next?

Oreo Sat 10-Jan-26 13:46:54

I never liked beards but when I met DP he had a short well kept beard so I became a convert.He shaved it off a year later and instantly looked younger and never went back to a beard.

Fallingstar Sat 10-Jan-26 13:48:00

Whatever you do be careful. Inviting a delivery man - albeit a local one - into your home to see the view sounds reckless. Getting good vibes doesn’t mean he is a good person. If you see him again why not ask if you can meet in a public place, a restaurant etc., courting danger might sound sexy but can end badly. You already know this. So keep it in mind.

sharon103 Sat 10-Jan-26 14:21:39

A bit of digging first. Ask questions like, Have you and your wife lived in this area long? Have you got children?
All of my grocery delivery drivers are really friendly and chatty but I don't assume they fancy me. Friendly and just that.
He's probably just a friendly, chatty man.
But who knows? Questions first.

AGAA4 Sat 10-Jan-26 14:31:11

I hope this man turns out to be as interested in you as you are in him but as others have said use caution and find out a bit more about him.
Good luck 🤞