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Toilet in the 18 and 18th centuries

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HelterSkelter1 Tue 17-Mar-26 09:32:00

I am watching the lovely Bennet Sister series. They go to balls in large houses. What on earth would they do about going to the loo. Long dresses, petticoats and bloomers. How on earth did they manage. Where would the facilities be? Did they have cloakrooms for the cloaks and also the equivalent of potties. Did they just not go out and certainly not to a ball in a white dress if menstruating.
And after having children would they risk dancing with perhaps a lax pelvic floor.

Did ladies type shops haberdashers etc have somewhere a lady could go to the loo if caught short while shopping for ribbons.
I am of course talking about middle class "ladies". I am sure the lower classes just got on with it.
In one episode someone remarks to Mary Bennet hat she "wouldnt want to relieve herself behind a screen" at the ball. What on earth did that mean.
I know we are often short of ladies loos in our towns now, but their life must have been a misery. Long coach or carriage journeys. Long walks that they always seemed to be doing.
I have seen a gadget ton Antiques Roadshow that you could use under a dress for weeing into on a carriage journey. How on earth would you do that privately? Imagine doing it on the 10.20 to Waterloo!

I would love Lucy Worsley to do a programme all about women's hygiene problems from Elizabethan times till now.

SunnySusie Tue 17-Mar-26 20:18:38

I have been to India and Vietnam on recent holidays and both abound in ladies squat toilets which are just holes-in-the-ground. It would actually be easier to use them if you were wearing skirts, its terrible in trousers trying to stop the hems touching anything whilst suspended over the drop on a damp and slippery footplate, holding your breath against the stench. Only used them for a wee luckily. Anything else demands you master the technique of tipping jugs of water over the relevant part whilst suspended over the drop. Normally you cant throw loo roll down them and none is supplied.

TheSunRisesInTheEast Tue 17-Mar-26 21:04:11

No wonder Indian women look so comfortable squatting, they must be very supple!!

HelterSkelter1 Tue 17-Mar-26 21:05:12

I have just found some more info. Flushing loos were introduced in 1851 at the Great Exhibition. Tickets were bought to use them by 28 women and 830,000 men.

In 1879 Glasgow and Paris had public toilets and London lagged behind until 1893.

Selfridges introduced their women's toilets in early 1900 and GB Shaw wrote his essay in 1909 about the lack of women's toilets which excluded women from public life. Working class women could not afford the penny to use a public toilet. Middle/upper class women could afford to enter a department store and buy goods and use the toilet or belong to a women's club where there would be facilities. Toilets were needed by the Suffragettes so they could campaign on the streets for longer.

It must have been an amazing expansion of a woman's world to be able to leave the home and go somewhere other than friends or family where they would have used their toilet facility.

Working class women had such a hard time. I wonder what facilities there were in cotton mills and factories which were staffed mostly by women.

It's an interesting subject the "subjugation" of women by a lack of public toilets. I must find the complete GB Shaw essay

M0nica Tue 17-Mar-26 21:16:35

Millie22

I read a book about the life of the maids who would have looked after a family like the one in P & P.

With five girls to wash for they were continually doing laundry and washing muslin squares presumably used at period times. Poor things.

Washing was done once a week at the most freuent. Sometimes families would only have the washer women come in once a month, Under clothes and night clothes were worn for weeks.

When I was at boarding school in the 1950s, we had one change of underwear a week. Each Friday a linen roll would appear on ne's bed. A ste of underwear and clean nightware rolled up in the week's towel. Sheets were changed every three or four weeks. One bath a week. It was remarkable, that we did not spell, but we didn't. Most of us would wash as much as we could in our washbowls in th privacy of our cublicles.

keepingquiet Tue 17-Mar-26 22:00:18

What a great thread! Thanks HelterSkelter1!

Seabreeze Wed 18-Mar-26 00:10:25

I'm pretty sure Lucy Worsley did do a programme about ladies relieving themselves in the eighteenth century. Try googling it.

David49 Wed 18-Mar-26 07:45:15

WithNobsOnIt

Maybe they did what 500 million Indians still do and pee and poo in the street?

Africa too you often see roadside signs "no open defacation"

In communities, privies in the yard became a public health issue, the well for water was too close and got polluted, cholera outbreaks in cities resulted. No doubt other smaller sickness outbreaks happened before the cause was found.

fancyflowers Wed 18-Mar-26 08:19:03

They look extraordinarily like gravy boats to me. It rather puts me off onion gravy.

Crotchless pants were the norm for a long time, with good reason. It must still have been hard to do your thing without spilling, and just imagine the stench.

Sparklefizz Wed 18-Mar-26 08:39:34

There were still plenty of pissoirs in French villages in the early 1990s.

My husband parked the car and waited outside while my daughter and I opened the door of this stinking place no bigger than a cupboard.

We were both wearing jeans so it was extremely hard to take off one leg of them and keep them dry and clean while trying to squat over the hole in the ground and not touch anything..... meanwhile also holding one's breath. Absolutely vile.

teabagwoman Wed 18-Mar-26 08:40:50

Some years ago I was on a trip to the Isle of Bute and was slightly offended to be told that my first stop should be the public toilets close to the pier. What I didn’t know was that while the ‘ladies’ was functional, Formica, the gents was high Victorian with porcelain and marble and the men were made to wait at regular intervals so we could have a guided tour.

They were opened around 1900 to cater for the many day trippers, well the male ones, and are still working, having been beautifully restored.
www.britainexpress.com/scotland/Bute/rothesays-victorian-toilets.htm

5geecees Wed 18-Mar-26 13:06:25

Where I live, in country West Australia, an outing in the bush often involves a bush toilet, a very deep hole in the ground, a toilet bowl atop and a rugged wooden shed round it. Instead of flushing you put sawdust or straw over it. It doesn't really smell too bad, but in fly season..........

David49 Wed 18-Mar-26 13:31:44

In Europe and Middle East you still get those 2 footpad loos, not the easiest to maneuver. In developing countries the loos can be so awful that a bush is much preferred.

HelterSkelter1 Wed 18-Mar-26 13:46:10

Has anyone bought a Shewee or other portable item to wee into whilr travelling. I think I would prefer to use that and then pour the wee into a pissoir or foot pad type toilet.

Dickens Wed 18-Mar-26 14:29:13

keepingquiet

Not so far away- as a child we only had an outside toilet- so during the night we had a bucket upstairs on the landing.

It was disgusting and sometimes I got the job of emptying it!

It was 1975 when we finally had an upstairs toilet, and another one downstairs. What luxury!

Some people don't know they are born.

And on that subject, anyone here been to France??

It was disgusting and sometimes I got the job of emptying it!

So I wasn't the only one then! My grandmother had a chamber-pot (as she called it) in her bedroom, used by her and my grandfather, and I occasionally had the job of carrying it downstairs, through the living room, into the kitchen and down the steps into the garden, then along to the outside 'lavvie'. Goodness only knows how I didn't spill its contents or even drop it...

My other grandmother (who lived alone) during my visits insisted we use the outside toilet - it was only a couple of steps outside the back door - during the night and a torch was placed on the landing for this purpose. She also had no running water, not even a cold-tap - I had to carry the galvanised bucket to the pump which was situated in a communal area, grandma carried a stick with which to fend off the rats... she finally had a cold-water tap (no sink) installed in her 'parlour' (which was both kitchen and living room) a few months before she died. She considered this a luxury.

I now have 2 bathrooms/toilets in my home.

kircubbin2000 Wed 18-Mar-26 18:29:40

In Syria I came across this problem. At a roman site a family were living in a large tent and offered us refreshments. I think he was the guide. The loo was in the tent but behind a curtain.
Bosra was the site and we were the only visitors.

Septimia Wed 18-Mar-26 19:04:51

We stayed on a campsite in Finland about 35 years ago where they had a 2-seater loo. It was an earth closet and I think the idea was to use the second one when the first got a bit full, rather than to sit and chat with the person on the other seat!

At Guide camp we had to manage with hessian-walled cubicles and a ditch dug in the ground - the soil was piled up on one side of the ditch so that some could be shovelled in each time the loo was used. Using the loo was quite a balancing act and after one day of heavy rain the ground was treacherous and someone slid in!

MayBee70 Wed 18-Mar-26 21:15:30

HelterSkelter1

Has anyone bought a Shewee or other portable item to wee into whilr travelling. I think I would prefer to use that and then pour the wee into a pissoir or foot pad type toilet.

I bought a shee wee when atrophy was causing bladder problems. Thankfully I tried it out before using it when out and about because it just went everywhere. I’m a lot better now, thankfully but think it’s more practical to carry a small plastic jug if I think I might get caught short.

valdavi Wed 18-Mar-26 21:37:44

My Gran had an outdoor 2 seater loo (earth closet).

I don't remember either ever being full when we visited - me & my cousins used to go in in pairs & sit & chat, it was a novelty but we weren't the ones who had to empty them.

When we were fruit picking everyone who was out of nappies had to go in the fields - there was a trowel to dig a hole & cover up and no loo paper - we used dock leaves.So a 2-seater earth closet with loo paper was nearly as good as a flushing toilet compared with that.

Sparklefizz Thu 19-Mar-26 08:21:33

On holiday in Iceland, in the middle of a wide snow-covered wilderness, our guide suggested we all used the loo before moving on. It was snowing and bitterly cold. There was a little wood cabin and I was dreading peeling off my layers in the cold ..... but what a surprise! It even had a little radiator inside and was wonderfully warm, courtesy of nearby hot springs. Amazingly unexpected.

InnocentBystander Thu 19-Mar-26 08:44:04

Given the hundreds of horses on the streets of towns and cities, the stench of horse manure would have been overwhelming, so human pongs had serious competition!

Cabbie21 Thu 19-Mar-26 08:49:42

Yesterday at u3a we had a speaker talking about toilets. He used to be a sanitation engineer, working in many countries. The statistics for people without safe toilets shocked us all. When they are installed, the cheapest and safest are constructed over a pit, far from the smart tiled bathrooms and efficient sewage systems we expect today. Some thought it distasteful, but there were more questions running over time than any other meeting I have been to!
Many of us can recall outside loos, down the garden, needing to be emptied. There is so much that we take for granted nowadays. Particularly for women, proper toilets mean not only better health, but more freedom, to go out, to school, to work, to socialise. ( Even if in this country, some of us won’t go anywhere without knowing if there is a loo!)

HelterSkelter1 Thu 19-Mar-26 09:06:28

At my 4 classroomed flint built .victorian junior school the row of toilets were in a small slate roofed but pretty open building at the back of the playground. With crispy hard toilet paper.
The school is long gone now. All that wonderful flint I hope was used somewhere else. The picture is in my mind, but I so wish I had a photo.

prestbury Thu 19-Mar-26 12:16:22

HelterSkelter1

I wonder what they had in Selfridges? I must Google flushing toilets and see when they came in. I think I had read that before that it enabled women to shop longer or at least get out of the house for longer. All helped towards women's emancipation.

The credit for inventing the flush toilet goes to Sir John Harrington, godson of Elizabeth I, who invented a water closet with a raised cistern and a small downpipe through which water ran to flush the waste in 1592. He built one for himself and one for his godmother; sadly, his invention was ignored for almost 200 years: it was was not until 1775 that Alexander Cummings, a watchmaker, developed the S-shaped pipe under the toilet basin to keep out the foul odours.

MayBee70 Thu 19-Mar-26 13:48:25

When after my marriage broke up I had to take on several jobs and one of them was cleaning the very old creepy haunted village school. The first night I heard a flushing noise coming from the boys toilets. I didn’t realise that the urinals periodically flushed themselves. It really freaked me out. Although the ghost was supposed to be in the store room, not the boys toilets.

Witzend Thu 19-Mar-26 13:57:46

Fallingstar

I think it must have been a world of many aromas back then. People didn’t bathe very often, wash their clothes frequently, or have deodorants, and the waft of the contents of chamber pot behind screens at a dance must have been eye watering. Also not to put too fine a point on it if a person defecated up an alley or in a pot at a dance how on earth did they clean themselves, my guess is that they couldn’t.
Hardly a romantic setting as is portrayed on screen though I suppose people were used to these aromas.
I believe that in certain countries today people do urinate and defecate on the street. Sue Perkins in a documentary about India a few years ago walked down a street full of human faeces and slipped and fell in it if I remember rightly.

Where we used to live (Middle East in the early days) it’s wasn’t uncommon to see men pooing on the beach - at the edge of the water. I do remember (before I realised what they were) wondering what all the funny little sausage shaped things, draped with seaweed were…💩
Where the women went I don’t know.

In those days the people in the villages certainly wouldn’t have had loos.