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Astitchintime Wed 06-May-26 09:56:38

Been to the dentist this morning. Booked in and the receptionist said “are you exempt.” I replied ‘no’. I will add that I do pay for treatment but couldn’t remember if I paid before or after treatment.
She tells me to take a seat……..then another patient walks in, books in and receptionist says “do you pay for treatment” He says yes and pays.
That got me thinking about my conversation with her so I went back to the receptionist and told her that she had actually asked me if I was exempt and I’d replied ‘no’ to which she snapped ‘well, YOU should have know what I meant”!!
I couldn’t believe how rude she was……I bet she is a delight to live with!
And I did pay for my treatment, just in case you’re wondering!

Wyllow3 Fri 08-May-26 11:15:18

WithNobsOnIt
re benefits and so on - even if you are down as NHS, they need to ask as your circumstances may have changed - eg you might have been awarded Pension Credit and so on and so get the gateway benefits. and maybe not even know it.

Magenta8 Fri 08-May-26 11:40:52

Mojack26

Sounds as if she would be better suited as a GP receptionist! They seem to all have training in how to be unpleasant!!🤣

Really? I must have missed out.angry

Cardamom Fri 08-May-26 12:25:55

I can be a curmudgeonly old bugger but the minute I walk into my GP surgery, podiatry clinic or dental practice, my grumpiness just melts away. The reception staff at all of them are smiley, welcoming, pleasant and helpful; never experienced a single negative experience from any of them. I telephoned my GP practice just yesterday to say that I didn't think I needed the pre booked appointment for next week. She took my phone number, promised to check with a GP and phone me back. Not only did she do that, she also thanked me for letting them know in plenty of time and then followed it up with a text message confirming the cancellation and again thanked me. I must be lucky!

Tenko Fri 08-May-26 16:15:05

I think OP that you got someone having a bad day . Which isn’t an excuse but it happens . I’ve worked in dentistry for most of my adult life and unfortunately since Covid, the attitude from some patients is very demanding, very impatient and also very rude . And reception gets the brunt of it , despite signs asking to treat them with respect. I’ve witnessed reception staff in tears due to the way patients have shouted and screamed at them .