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Cossy Wed 05-Aug-26 16:37:53

Yesterday my daughter and daughter-in-law were busy grumbling about how slow their first house purchase is taking and wishing it would speed up as they signed their contract 5 weeks ago.

Today my sweet DiL, who’s carry DD baby went into spontaneous labour and after waters broke and baby was upside down with umbilical cord separating, she had an emergency C section and then at 13:00 baby Henry was born at 24.9 weeks, weighing 1lb 6oz.

We are all hoping for a good outcome in the end, please pray to whatever God or spiritual being or keep your fingers crossed that baby Henry comes through this.

DD and DiL in shock and baby about to be transferred to a Neonatal Unit in a hospital nearly 40 miles away. This is their first baby and first try at IVF. He’s so tiny (I couldn’t see him but DD sent photos) 😢

Whitewavemark2 Tue 18-Aug-26 09:10:34

Good to hear. The skill of the staff is awe-inspiring.

Magenta8 Tue 18-Aug-26 09:12:54

Thank you for your update Cossy. Still thinking of you all. Warmest best wishes to youand DH, the mummies and of course, little Henry.

Galaxy Tue 18-Aug-26 09:18:44

Recognising the need for balance in visiting etc is a sign of your love for them all cossy. It shines through x

LizzieDrip Tue 18-Aug-26 09:20:59

Thank you for taking the time to update us on little Henry’s progress. Love and strength to you and your family … keeping fighting Henry💪

Parsley3 Tue 18-Aug-26 09:53:59

Thank you for the update Cossy. Wee Henry is surrounded by so much love.💐

Moth62 Tue 18-Aug-26 09:54:00

How wonderful for Henry’s mums that they can hold him and be involved in his care. Things have moved on so much in 40 years. I pray that he will continue to go from strength to strength surrounded by his family’s love and the skill of the GOSH staff. ❤️

ferry23 Tue 18-Aug-26 09:55:50

Oh Cossy you're simply being the best Mum. Mum-in-law and Grandma. Supportive and completely understanding of the somewhat surreal and fragile situation you find yourself in.

So glad Henry and Grandad are now acquainted!

Stay strong, and yes, what may seem like tiny steps are really massive ones.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 18-Aug-26 10:15:04

Henry 🙏🏻

ixion Tue 18-Aug-26 10:18:54

Continuing to send love to baby Henry and his family and grateful thanks to the wonderful NICU staff.
💐

SueDonim Tue 18-Aug-26 14:48:42

Those such encouraging steps, Cossy, to hold Henry and take part in his care. In modern parlance, they’re building memories with him and whatever the future holds, they will never lose those beautiful experiences. 🩵

merlotgran Tue 18-Aug-26 15:19:45

🤞🤞for further good news about Henry and best wishes to all.

ClicketyClick Tue 18-Aug-26 15:38:44

Such a special union for your DH yesterday. It's amazing how resilient these little mites are your GS sounds a little fighter. Still saying prayers for you all and the fact that going through what you are that you still have time to think of others who may be suffering days a lot about you. Bless you.

ClicketyClick Tue 18-Aug-26 15:39:25

Says not days

AGAA4 Tue 18-Aug-26 16:13:55

So glad the mummies can lift him and change his nappy. Their touch will give little Henry comfort.
Your strength will also help to sustain his mummies.

Wyllow3 Tue 18-Aug-26 17:17:18

Ooo, good to hear. flowers.

Cossy Tue 18-Aug-26 17:20:06

Thanks all, always so lovely, and actually sustaining, to hear and read your posts. You give me strength.

I’ll update again in a few days thanks

blue14 Tue 18-Aug-26 18:28:24

Thank you for the update Cossy.
So pleased that the mums were able to hold Henry.

Sending you all good wishes and keeping you in my thoughts.

Bellanonna Tue 18-Aug-26 18:48:46

Thank you for the update Cossy and look forward to hearing again.

Cossy Thu 20-Aug-26 09:27:58

Morning all

As always, I think of you all and those especially those going through difficult times themselves flowers

Yesterday evening, DS, oldest son, travelled after work by train from Bristol to GOSH, meeting dear Henry then taking them out for a slap up meal, stopping off at a shop on the way back to GOSH to fund copious amounts of snacks. Then late train home to Bristol.

When he arrived DiL had baby Henry on her chest, for the first time, a truly magical moment which DD photographed and sent to us.

At two weeks old Henry is continuing to fight, having Mum’s milk and both Mum’s now involved with his care.

We all know it’s a long, arduous, up and down rollercoaster, but each new day brings us all joy and hope. flowers

Thanks all for your continued 🙏, 🩵, 🤞all so gratefully received. Yesterday I received the most beautiful knitted blanket from one of my friends.

Enjoy your day as best you all can 🌻🌻

ferry23 Thu 20-Aug-26 10:00:51

This is very positive news Cossy - long may it continue. What a moment of joy it must have been for you all to see Henry snuggled to your DIL.

I'm delighted for you all. smile

Grannmarie Thu 20-Aug-26 10:08:07

Thanks for the update, Cossy, Henry is a wee personality now!
Thinking of you and yours, keeping Henry and all who love him and care for him in my prayers.🕯️🙏🕯️

AGAA4 Thu 20-Aug-26 10:14:33

Glad Henry is having more contact with his mums. Best medicine is the strong love of his mummies.

Whitewavemark2 Thu 20-Aug-26 10:16:13

Good oh, - this sounds so much like my nephews progress.
Reasons to be optimistic.

merlotgran Thu 20-Aug-26 10:28:19

each new day brings us all joy and hope

Wonderful to read, cossy
Best wishes to you all.

Greyduster Thu 20-Aug-26 10:57:20

He’s getting there Cossy. Baby steps for your very special little lad! Every good wish to you all