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Will you be giving anything up for Lent? ♥️

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Urmstongran Tue 25-Feb-20 23:12:49

Shrove Tuesday is over. Now it’s Lent.

Religious or not, denial and willpower is considered to be good for us!

Wednesday 26th February until Thursday 9 April.

Might you (a) be giving something up or (b) plan to add in some good deeds to your lifestyle?

I’m having a think about it tonight ....

Callistemon Tue 25-Feb-20 23:17:06

Chocolate?
Wine?
Gransnet?

hmm

I think I might add good deeds instead.

BlueBelle Tue 25-Feb-20 23:20:54

No not giving anything up and try to do what I can throughout the year so no difference for me

Urmstongran Tue 25-Feb-20 23:37:05

Just an idea!

Eloethan Tue 25-Feb-20 23:55:06

No.

Chewbacca Wed 26-Feb-20 00:06:05

No

grannyactivist Wed 26-Feb-20 00:28:19

I shall be giving up whatever time it takes me to prepare and deliver the weekly Lent Talks, which take place in a different church each week. (I'm part way through preparing Session One and have already spent about three hours on it.) Having done it last year I wasn't planning on putting my hand up to volunteer again, but as no-one else was keen to do it I found myself saying I would. hmm

As my reward I get to eat the 'frugal lunch' (bread and soup) that each church lays on for the congregation after the service. smile

SueDonim Wed 26-Feb-20 01:00:59

No.

I try (don’t always succeed!) to be nice all year round, not just for a few weeks.

suziewoozie Wed 26-Feb-20 01:02:44

No - I’m an atheist

suziewoozie Wed 26-Feb-20 01:06:11

I think for some it might be the ultimate. ‘ Virtue signalling’ ?

Sealover Wed 26-Feb-20 01:12:06

Have never seen the point about giving something up for Lent. What about doing something extra? I try to make sure that I do something every day for someone else, even if it's a small thing like a phone call. It's easy to carry on after Lent and it helps others. Have volunteered to have a Lent Reading Group which means preparing each week and hosting it. Worthwhile and rewarding.

agnurse Wed 26-Feb-20 04:37:02

Sealover

There are actually three separate disciplines we are to apply ourselves to in Lent, of which fasting is only one. (Doesn't even necessarily have to be fasting from food. Giving something up is a fast.) The other two are prayer and almsgiving. So we are indeed encouraged to replace what we are giving up with other pious works.

BlueSky Wed 26-Feb-20 08:56:59

No. I had enough brain washing as a child to last me a lifetime.

TrendyNannie6 Wed 26-Feb-20 08:59:09

Nope

Teetime Wed 26-Feb-20 09:13:28

NO - still recovering from Dry January.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 26-Feb-20 09:14:30

I use lent as a time of reflection, I will give up sweets, crisps and biscuits (hopefully?)

Pittcity Wed 26-Feb-20 09:15:08

Pancakes!

jura2 Wed 26-Feb-20 09:16:51

Nothing, never have, never will.

Callistemon Wed 26-Feb-20 09:24:37

Pittcity
Me too

Urmstongran Wed 26-Feb-20 09:47:25

I’m not religious (I’m a Humanist) but the idea of exercising willpower for 46 days appeals. I’m still ruminating on what to give up. So far I’ve had tea and toast so they’re out of the equation ha!
?

suziewoozie Wed 26-Feb-20 10:04:34

I really just don’t ‘get’ switching on and off aspects of behaviour tied to a religious period. Surely we all need to exercise willpower in everyday life at different times, in different circumstances and for different reasons. It’s part of living as a human being not a 40+ day one off opt in.

henetha Wed 26-Feb-20 10:06:57

Sugar. Just a continuation of trying to eat foods with no sugar or low sugar.

crimpedhalo Wed 26-Feb-20 10:07:24

Yes....Lent lol

Googes41 Wed 26-Feb-20 10:12:14

Trying to give up Chocolate,but for weight loss not religious
Reasons.

Moggycuddler Wed 26-Feb-20 10:15:54

Definitely not! Religious stuff means nothing to me.