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Advent Calendar For Those Who Are Dreading Christmas

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allsortsofbags Tue 20-Nov-18 10:31:29

phoenix that's a great idea too.

Lovely suggestion, thanks for joining in and putting something forward :-) thanks

Anything that helps people who find the run up to Christmas as difficult as Christmas.

For me it was about finding ways to have something positive/ happy, anything to brighten the days.

More ideas very welcome.

NfkDumpling Tue 20-Nov-18 07:09:13

No Brazil nuts?

phoenix Mon 19-Nov-18 21:57:52

Or we could just try this?

www.santagames.net/calendar/index.htm

NfkDumpling Mon 19-Nov-18 20:43:14

152 days until Easter. The first door on the Easter Day calendar has a plain chocolate Brazil nut inside.

days.to/easter/2019

Sparklefizz Mon 19-Nov-18 20:37:40

allsortsofbags This is a terrific idea and thanks for posting about it. Although I have a lot of allergies and food intolerances, there is just one brand of 100% chocolate that doesn't make me ill, so I'm going to go for it - a positive daily message with a chunk of choc! Because I'm worth it grin blush

allsortsofbags Mon 19-Nov-18 18:43:19

yggdrasil Good idea, for any of us who like chocolates we could arrange that as well grin

In fact if we bought our own chocolates we'd be sure to get exactly what we like and if we feel like pushing the boat out so much the better smile

DoraMarr Mon 19-Nov-18 17:21:34

allsortsofbags what a good idea! Yes, it’s easy to be overwhelmed by “what ifs” and “if only”, especially at this time of year when every advert, every magazine, lots of TV programmes are showing us perfectly cooked turkeys served up to impeccably behaved children and smiling relatives, when many of us feel that we’re only just holdoing things together. Just reminding ourselves of the things we can do, the successes we have had and are having every day, can do a lot to improve our lives.

yggdrasil Mon 19-Nov-18 17:05:50

I'd rather have one with chocolates smile

allsortsofbags Mon 19-Nov-18 13:42:02

On a PM with a GNer I suggested an Advent Calendar for those who find Christmas difficult.

The idea is for us to write out special messages for ourselves either daily or in one go to be opened daily on the lead up to Christmas.

I know so many people who don't give themselves credit for managing life, the big things and the small things.

So if Christmas is difficult having something positive, that's real and personal (not some sugar coated generic fridge magnet) that we can give to ourselves as a daily gift it just might help a little.

The messages could be about anything but I thought along the lines of :

Happy times, things we are proud of ourselves for having managed, the name of a person we like or likes us, a new friend be that on-line or in person, helping someone (however small) how we were helped the list is endless really.

Some times we reflect on the difficulties, the hurt, the sadness and the trials of our lives but we often don't reflect on our achievements.

Sometimes just getting from one day to the next is an achievement.

I don't think this is original but I'm putting it out there anyway.

Who knows we may even be able to give positive peer feedback. I'm sure some of you are familiar with this.

Over to GNers.