I am very close to me in laws and have known them for years to the point where I am now close to them in my own right regardless of DH.
I still get less substantial token gifts from them than DH and thats how it should be.
Sometimes they will get us both something for the house, or a voucher for a meal out together, but dh's gifts from his parents are still his
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