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Christmas Eve Boxes

(147 Posts)
SpringyChicken Tue 17-Nov-20 22:35:08

Have I missed something? When were Christmas Eve present boxes introduced? I'm appalled at the thought, isn't Christmas commercialised enough already?

Damdee Wed 18-Nov-20 10:11:59

What does it matter what other people do? If they want to give the kids a few gifts on Christmas eve, then so what? My husband's children, now grown up with children of their own, have a 'Christmas fairy' that comes on Christmas eve, leaving a trail of glitter and a few gifts for the little ones. They are following on a tradition from their own parents. Every family is different.

Northerngirl28 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:14:05

I’m with Missfoodlove too. It’s another moneymaker. Some things need anticipation and imagination to bring the best thrills and satisfaction.

jenni123 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:14:15

These C Eve boxes are another fad from USA. my children didnt have anything given on C Eve, they left a mince pie for Santa but that was about it, they were always excited and ready for bed at a reasonable time. They are all grown and have adult children of their own now. My Granddaughter always puts up the tree and decorations before December which I say is much too early, I think half the fun is expectation, I tell her if you put them up too early then by Christmas it's old hat and not exciting anymore, but it's her house and she does as she wants. I personally think mid dec is soon enough. Now I live on my own I dont bother at all, just put the cards on the door.

NanaRoo Wed 18-Nov-20 10:15:12

As her parents work on Christmas Eve, I look after my GD during the day. Last year I put together a Christmas Eve box (had great fun thinking of things to put in); Christmas colouring sheets, crayons, reindeer food, a small decoration for the tree, Christmas choc lollipop, pyjamas, Christmas storybook and some sprinkles for us to use on our baking that day etc. We spent a lovely day getting excited and it’s a tradition we’ll be continuing.

4allweknow Wed 18-Nov-20 10:16:41

Another money making "tradition" introduces a few years ago. As if Christmas isn't commercialised enough it's now taking place on Christmas Eve. Wonder if the folk in the Netherlands who do the gift exchange on the 24th will be opening these type of boxes on the 23rd. Madness and folk with more money than sense being pulled into it.

Rosalyn69 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:19:04

I e never heard of them.
However this year for my son and his wife I have made up Advent Boxes for 1st December with some home stuff and food stuff so the kids can enjoy December and not just Christmas Day. It’s been such a horrid year. It gives me pleasure to do it and the kids will love it.

Mollie11 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:25:26

Advent calendars
This morning on Monday was flogging advent calendars all expensive with various gifts in
Like barbie Thomas tank jewellery and usual choc
No one mentioned the true meaning of an advent calendar and there were none with the nativity on which is what advent and Christmas is all about
I love Christmas but it has gone commercially made no one respects the true meaning any more
When we were young advent calendar was just little windows to open every day and it was exciting

scrapgran Wed 18-Nov-20 10:34:05

Pure commercialism and not to be encouraged. Let the kids open 1 present on christmas eve and wait for the rest

Dillonsgranma Wed 18-Nov-20 10:36:07

I have got a Christmas Eve box this year simply because when I do my four hour drive to see my grandsons I can give it them on my arrival!
It’s got Christmas pencils in it. Santa lollies. A Christmas book each and daft stocking filler type things .
Their big present goes under the tree ?

MissAdventure Wed 18-Nov-20 10:36:27

I used to love watching Blue Peter as they lit a candle each week on their "thing" that was made out of clothes hangers and tinsel.
Oh! The excitement when the last one was lit!!!

jct1 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:39:16

You are my soulmate!

Hobbs1 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:45:15

I started doing them last year. My adult kids and two grandchildren love them. I fill them with special chocolates, Christmas candle, slipper socks and bottle of wine for the adults, for the GC, age 15 and 12 I do new onesies, slipper socks, a card or trivia game, the chocolates they like and a hot chocolate bomb and stirring spoon, plus a new jumper for Christmas morning. I give them all money for Christmas as I haven’t a clue what they need, want or like.

jaylucy Wed 18-Nov-20 10:49:09

Yep, been around for at least the last 5 years!
I heard of them from a Facebook group that I used to belong to (until I got banned for criticising the admins that were being paid by certain businesses to push products) that was supposedly set up to help people to save money and know where to find bargains.
It turned into a competition between some members to see who could spend the most on the items that they put in the box!
I thought that the whole thing with Christmas was the anticipation of Christmas day - most I ever got was sent to bed before my dad went to the pub with one of my uncles and then mum went to midnight mass!
My son just had a reading of "the Night before Christmas" or a video to watch on Christmas Eve.

Madmother21 Wed 18-Nov-20 10:50:50

Missfoodlove I agree with everything you said! I think my DIL gets them all a pair of Christmassy pjs to wear on Christmas Eve, I get a pic of the whole family on Christmas Day wearing them. That’s quite sweet, I don’t mind that.

GreyKnitter Wed 18-Nov-20 10:53:41

I think times change and family traditions develop. I’m sure my grandparents were delighted to get anythingat Christmas, my mum remembered having nuts and fruit in a stocking, my children had Christmas pjs and were allowed to open something of the Christmas food on Christmas Eve - followed by stockings from Santa and presents under the tree and my grandchildren have the elf on the shelf and Christmas Eve boxes of simple bits. None of them spend lots of money on these things but the children love them and they’re making happy memories. That’s what’s it’s all about. Not how much you spend.

Nanatoone Wed 18-Nov-20 11:00:34

We do this and it’s joyful and adds to the lovely family feeling of Xmas. We also do stockings with lots of small bits and the children love them and so do we. Sad for those who don’t see the joy and for those who cannot afford to join in

madmum38 Wed 18-Nov-20 11:04:03

When my children were young at the start of December we would decorate a box and make it our post box, in that my children would put drawings for each other or for their dad and I and then I would put a couple of small toys in and some new pyjamas,it was opened around 6pm and they would be able to play with the toy then get ready for bed with their new pyjamas on. It helped them cope better with Christmas Eve and the excitement that comes with it. Now they are adults but still insist the box is there with little things for each other but there is no way that I would buy one of those expensive Christmas Eve boxes

Ngaio1 Wed 18-Nov-20 11:05:04

Silly idea. Perhaps next year someone will start a "Day before Christmas Eve" box!

Kim19 Wed 18-Nov-20 11:06:04

Have heard of it vaguely but don't know anything of the reasoning behind it. Doesn't make much sense to me.

Alioop Wed 18-Nov-20 11:07:40

My friend buys them for her grandkids and the price of the stuff put in them is more than I would of got on Xmas Day. Totally ridiculous if you ask me. My new PJs were part of my presents Santa brought. All I got Xmas Eve was shouted at for not getting to bed early enough!

lovebeigecardigans1955 Wed 18-Nov-20 11:09:35

We never had these CE boxes as children and as we were under financial constraints then I think my poor mother would have blown a gasket if they'd been expected.

Yet more commercialism. Is waiting so difficult?

Ellet Wed 18-Nov-20 11:16:38

Perhaps Christmas Eve boxes would have stopped my relatives children getting up at 4 a.m. (and waking my children) when they were all young and staying here over Christmas.
Could someone tell me what the Elf on the Shelf is please?

Gwenisgreat1 Wed 18-Nov-20 11:25:24

N ever heard of them!

BusterTank Wed 18-Nov-20 11:28:06

Christmas is already too expensive , without adding something else to the list .

Ziggy62 Wed 18-Nov-20 11:31:44

my children are now 41 and 30, when they were little I always allowed them to open one of the gifts under the tree and watch a video on Christmas Eve while their father was in the pub and I was left to prepare everything for 11/12 people coming for Christmas day lunch.
I still love Christmas eve and dont see any harm in it