I give to my grandchildren, presents for the young ones , money for the older ones with the instruction to tell me what they spent it on. One also has a birthday 2nd Jan so ditto.
My daughter lives the other side of the country and I haven't seen them for ages. So for a long time I have sent a token present (£10-15max) so they all have something to unwrap Xmas morning.
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