“Setting too good an example is a kind of slander seldom forgiven” I think Emerson said, but I forgive you. ? My Christmas dinner, from Cooks, is in the freezer, my Godminster cheese is coming, the wine is here, the dog treats (gone soft in my old age) are on order. I’ve pickled beetroot and shallots, and made various chutneys, most presents are bought. I have the ingredients for Christmas pudding and cake and then I’m done apart from cards. Hey not so bad after all!
paddyann so sorry to hear about your mum. These things are never easy particularly not at Christmas. You take care of yourself and those lovely gc.
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Warning……SMUG alert, Christmas prep.
(99 Posts)I have made dozens of mince pies, tarts, pâtés and breads and frozen them.
Today it’s more pâté and Parmesan shortbread and soup.
The gifts are all purchased and a few wrapped for posting.
My husband is in charge of cards.
I hate the shops in December and hate being under pressure.
So I have a deadline for the end of November to be sorted.
Please someone tell me I’m not a sad little control freak.
I usually have everything bought and wrapped by November 1st .That gives me time to organise food,we make small cakes with my GD'S for their teachers instead of bought (expensive) gifts so November is all about marzipanning and icing cakes on weekends with 3 overconfident girlies.Its always fun and they do make a great job of it.This weekend we've trees to mae from molds and leave to dry and decide what else they want on put on their already iced cakes.
Trying to keep things "normal" as Great gran is seriously ill an hospital and not expected to live ,the girls all adore her and I want life to stay as usual until it cant .
Granny23 I completely sympathise with you. I moved (downsized to my little bungalow) on 14th December last year. After days of unpacking and cleaning I finally sat down with a sherry and a mince pie at 8pm on Christmas Eve......and the doorbell rang. New neighbours calling to say hello......so my bum only stayed on the sofa for one minute and then I was up pouring drinks and chatting until Midnight. After Christmas I slept for about a week.
Good luck with the move - I hope you have a very happy Christmas in your new home.
I have done most of my Christmas shopping today in early black Friday deals and will check the rest of what I want tomorrow.
It does occur to me that I have absolutely nowhere to put any of it
With you on that one Calistemon.
Except........ bought each the family cats a cracker pack of Dreamies from Home Bargains today. Priorities etc.....
It's not Advent yet.
I will start to do more about it then.
I have finished all my present shopping; main and stocking, so I can lock myself in for the next few days so that I have no need to go anywhere near a shop while this ridiculous Black Friday shindig is taking place.
My food preparation programme is on time and within budget. I am timetabled to make veg curry and winter puddings this weekend, with turkey, ham, sausagemeat etc all on order from local suppliers.
DD makes the mincepies and DGD has said she will make the Christmas biscuits for those who do not like, or cannot eat mincemeat.
Another one feeling (cautiously) smug. Anawful lot can go cockeyed in the four weeks between now and Christmas. Remember last year?
I have bought cards, written letter and printed the address labels.
Ps I ordered wine as well.
Very funny though! ?
I have ordered a Waitrose Christmas cake kit, due to arrive tomorrow, but I have no idea why, as I ordered all the separate ingredients (apart from marzipan) a while ago but haven't made a cake yet.
It's progress, isn't it?
Cards posted to Australia yesterday ? ??
Beechnut
I bought a Christmas cake and have eaten it ?
Sorry....that doesn’t count as prep! ?
Sago thank you so much for the recipe, my family are going to love these?
Like MayBeMaw I admire your efficiency but enjoy the buildup to Christmas and prep won't start for me until we are in the first week of December. I have thought a bit about it, and know what pressies to buy (not many any more). We did make the Christmas cake a month ago. We'll write cards to go abroad at the beginning of December, others the following week. We don't have much freezer space, so most cooking/baking gets done close to Christmas, along with decorations, and accompanied by whatever Christmas music we feel like at the time. And who knows - maybe some snow outside the windows ?
You are Very well organised but my days of cooking for big gatherings are sadly over. I dont make Christmas cake anymore as DH is the only one who eats it. What with one daughter and family abroad and other one who likes Christmas in her own home, I’m no longer the matriarch at Christmas. Still, I was for many years so time to step backwards. I have written all cards and bought the stamps yesterday, so that’s something.
Just paid for our Christmas Day lunch booking at the pub, does that count?
I'm working very long days atm and not finishing until the 23rd. Really couldn't face the effort of cooking for eight people this year ?
We're catering at home on Christmas Eve and Boxing Day, though M&S and Tesco will be making most of it ?
I will manage to open my own bottle of Prosecco ??
Oh Sago, I really admire your organisation! The only time I have been prepared early was when my DD was due on 22 December (back in 1984) I had all presents bought and wrapped and cards written by the end of October! We went to my mum and dad's for Christmas Day, so that saved any mass cooking. Needless to say baby was a week late, so we were on tenterhooks all day!!
You’re just well organised,wishI was , it all looks very tasty.
I have 'thought' a lot about presents but have only bought one so far.
Very envious Sago especially of all that lovely food.
Not jealous at all ?
I have bought and eaten the annual Chocolate Orange for Ds stocking.
Got a few presents but also sidetracked by grandchild number 2 arriving last week.
Downsizing from Cottage to flat - moving day 3rd December. This explains/is my excuse for not having done a single thing towards Christmas. No presents bought, no food stored - zilch. Just heard yesterday that my buyers do not want my white goods, so currently desperately trying to empty and get rid of freezer + fridge, washing machine, tumble dryer and semi fitted wardrobes - all free to a good home but 'buyer to collect'. Wondering if Santa could visit and spirit them all away 
Downsizing from Cottage to flat - moving day 3rd December. This explains/is my excuse for not having done a single thing towards Christmas. No presents bought, no food stored - zilch. Just heard yesterday that my buyers do not want my white goods, so currently desperately trying to empty and get rid of freezer + fridge, washing machine, tumble dryer and semi fitted wardrobes - all free to a good home but 'buyer to collect'. Wondering if Santa could visit and spirit them all away 
Well done Sago!
I, too, like being organised, and love a list!
Our cards are bought , written, and waiting to go.
Presents ( other than for close family) are bought , wrapped, and ready to go.
We're trying, as a family , to be more clutter free and environmentally friendly, so not buying anything for the sake of it, or anything that would end up in the bin or the charity shop in a few months time.
This has eased the strain considerably, as I don't now feel obliged/want to buy " stuff" just so the recipient has a pile of presents to open. Trying to do experiences, food, gardening presents.
I've been buying bits towards the Christmas food shopping for some weeks now, saves having to buy everything last minute. My DD and DDinL now do the same!
I know some people enjoy the last minute thing, and in some cases funds deem it necessary to wait until December, we all get there in the end.
When she lived at home, my DD had a sign in her bedroom that read " If it wasn't for that last minute, I would never get anything done!"
Take care x
I have got the Christmas cake maturing in the pantry and if I am using the oven I put a dozen mince pies in and store them in the freezer. I've got Christmas cards ready to write (although there are less of them every year) I've bought one or two presents but I don't start serious preparations till after DD's birthday on December 2nd.
I like to be organised too. I can't stand being on the last minute for anything. My Dad's Army influence on me growing up! I have bought and wrapped all the presents and those requiring posting are ready to go. I have my cards but haven't written them yet. I learned my lesson a couple of years ago when I wrote and posted early a Christmas card to a previous good neighbour and her husband only to receive a sad phone call to say she had died. Anyone having your lovely food is in for a treat.
Nannylovesshopping
60gm plain flour
2/3 pinch cayenne pepper
1 pinch salt
60gm Parmesan
45gm cubed cold butter.
Put flour,salt,cayenne in a bowl with the butter and grated Parmesan.
Crumble together
Make a dough ball ( you may need a splash of milk)
Chill for 30 mins( the dough not you)
Roll to 4mm thick.
Cut(I use a champagne flute perfect size)
I freeze at this stage and bake from frozen.
Or
Place on a baking sheet and bake at 180/4 8-10 mins.
Cool on a wire rack.
Store in an airtight tin.
I top mine with homemade pesto but the possibilities are endless.
PS, not a control freak at all!
More than once in the past I’ve been frantically wrapping presents at past midnight on Christmas Eve. I enjoy the run up so much more since I made an effort to be more organised - no more last minute panics.
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