Bigbertha1 we are also close to Dunham Massey and that is our go to NT place. I fact we are taking our DGS there tomorrow before going to the ice cream place just outside.
The lights are spectacular and worth the money. Though, as with all these things, the weather can make a huge difference. We were so lucky when we went on a Sunday in December. There had been torrential rain for the two nights before and the night after, but the weather couldn't have been better our night.
I will be booking our tickets this week, because if we don't we won't get the dates and times we want. But I do resent having to book so early!
Lack of public toilets in towns.
Passports not in the drawer I always keep them in. Turning the place upside down.