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(78 Posts)
Namsnanny Sun 08-Sept-24 15:15:15

First tv ad for youknowwhat, and a tv.channel dedicated to crimbo films.

I don't think I can be accused of being a grinch, as I love the meaning, the decorating the crafts all associated with it.

I just hate the commercial fuss coming at us so early.

Still, I've got my crimbo knitting to concentrate on(elf hats and jumpers), to keep from getting annoyed at the commercial c**p🄢🧶😊

Kim19 Sun 08-Sept-24 18:12:22

I love it and can still manage to rise above the commercial aspect. I even have a couple of important gifts already purchased as I'm also an opportunist. Bring it on.......

AreWeThereYet Sun 08-Sept-24 18:29:28

Doesn't bother me too much as I just ignore it. We stop going to the shops once we get fed up with it until it's all gone. We're making Christmas cake and puddings next week before we go away for a few weeks then won't think about it until December.

The only thing that bothers me is the effect it has on smaller children. Last year I watched a Mum drag her screaming children through the shopping centre because they wanted to visit Santa but apparently they had already been twice and 'she wasn't made of money'. And it was still three weeks before CHristmas.

Astitchintime Sun 08-Sept-24 18:37:40

I admit to buying special treats and things during the months just before Christmas. I then put them in a safe place..........and forget where I put them confused

Norah Sun 08-Sept-24 18:45:33

AGAA4

I wonder if anyone has their Christmas tree up yet?

Not if the nursery isn't stocking trees yet. smile

MissInterpreted Sun 08-Sept-24 18:46:15

I know I'll probably get some stick for this, but I actually think that the earlier it all starts, the more it actually lessens the whole 'magic' of the xmas season.

TwiceAsNice Sun 08-Sept-24 18:49:55

I have bought a couple of presents and stashed them away, couldn’t resist the amount I’d saved in impromptu sales.

I love Christmas but even I was shocked to see the beginnings of a Christmas chocolate and biscuits aisle in Morrisons last week

AGAA4 Sun 08-Sept-24 18:50:03

MissInterpreted

I know I'll probably get some stick for this, but I actually think that the earlier it all starts, the more it actually lessens the whole 'magic' of the xmas season.

Totally agree. When I was a child Christmas didn't start till we were into December and it was so exciting to know it was just a few weeks away.

Ziplok Sun 08-Sept-24 18:53:04

I agree MissInterpreted. I think we become somewhat jaded by the time the big day arrives because everything starts appearing in the shops in September. The magic gets lost in between the mass commercialism, unfortunately.

Having said that, I love Christmas itself, and the few weeks before when choirs singing carols begin, and the church services (starting from Advent) start to prepare for commemorating the birth of Christ, and the markets appear, etc, then I feel a bit more Christmassy. I try not to get sucked in by all the fake razzmatazz of some of the adverts, etc.

TerriBull Sun 08-Sept-24 18:56:58

I agree too, I seem to remember all things Christmas started in December and it was magical back then. Less consumer driven more about the religious significance as well as winter feast

Rekarie Sun 08-Sept-24 19:13:07

Christmas is still magical in my family. My family was ridiculously traditional. No Christmas tree until Christmas Eve for many years in my childhood. That wasn't magical in my eyes.

MissInterpreted Sun 08-Sept-24 19:13:55

I'd have loved that, Rekarie.

AreWeThereYet Sun 08-Sept-24 19:36:24

MissInterpreted

I know I'll probably get some stick for this, but I actually think that the earlier it all starts, the more it actually lessens the whole 'magic' of the xmas season.

I agree.

But I know many won't. Which is why companies make such huge profits over Christmas and many people are broke for months after.

Rekarie Sun 08-Sept-24 19:47:54

MissInterpreted

I'd have loved that, Rekarie.

Yes! A few of my pals have said the same!

My school friends all had their trees up mid December.

We had to wait for Christmas Eve. Drove me mad. We'd get an 18ft tree, a real beauty. In the hall and up to the ceiling of landing. Gorgeous. Hundreds of lights.

Then 24 hours later it was all over and done with.

M0nica Sun 08-Sept-24 20:26:46

Christmas is as commercial as you make it and we don't. Almost every decoration we have has been in the family for years. We do not go wild with presents. We limit it to immediate family and ask for wish lists in early November. My main expense is food, quality rather than quantity.

Luckily I live in a big village with just a small branch of the Co-op in it. I go to the nearest town to shop in a medium sized supermarket in the town centre once a week and another country town to go to the greengrocer in the market.

Otherwise I rarely see shops and I also rarely watch tv, so do not see adverts there either.

As I said Christmas is what you make it. I love ours. It is about family and home, not money and ostentatious expenditure.

Ziplok Sun 08-Sept-24 20:56:35

I think that most of us here take from it what we want, and choose to disengage from all the commercial hype for the ā€œperfect Christmas ā€œ.

However, having said that, the pressures many are faced with via tv, radio, internet, social media, family and friends, etc, can mean that for many, Christmas becomes what it shouldn’t - a competition to ā€œprovide the bestā€ ( or else what will our relatives/friends think?) and an unnecessary worry.

The over hyping and over commercialisation of Christmas, which is geared towards encouraging us to spend more and more in order to reach this mythical ā€œperfectionā€, (with everyone sitting happily around an over laden table, having a fantastic time with loved ones, opening lots and lots of expensive gifts), causes so much angst for so many people and often causes family rifts (which is completely contrary to the message of the birth of Jesus, ironically), and encourages so many to go into such debt in order to achieve the impossible, is the very sad side of what should be a very special time.

Notagranyet1234 Sun 08-Sept-24 20:59:28

I'm always happy when stores get things in early because I can then send it surface post to the far lands where my nearest and dearest reside, rather than the very costly airmail

MissAdventure Sun 08-Sept-24 21:15:39

I expect the Christmas threads will start soon, about who goes where, or is/isn't invited, or may be on their own, or spent more on the family...

Cossy Mon 09-Sept-24 12:06:21

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GrammarGrandma Mon 09-Sept-24 12:17:02

Nope. Not till after the November birthdays. Husband and middle daughter.

Bellzy Mon 09-Sept-24 13:19:19

It does my head in! Not a huge fan of Xmas; the pressure to spend too much and ā€˜have a wonderful time’ is ridiculous. However I’m not actually a Grinch! But seriously, mid-November at the absolute earliest please!!!

mabon1 Mon 09-Sept-24 13:39:59

What not use the word Christmas, for me Crimbo is awful. It is a mass to celebrate the birth of Christ.

mae13 Mon 09-Sept-24 13:48:00

Oreo

Christmas foods were in the supermarkets in August including mince pies.I always think, let’s get Halloween out of the way first.

And I'll bet those mince pies had a "consume by" date sometime in the middle of this month!

Rekarie Mon 09-Sept-24 14:57:10

My mince pies have eat by 26th September.

I've got some. I've eaten 3. But to be hungry I'm not eating them in anticipation of Christmas, I just adore them.

My grandma would bake home made ones all year to keep me happy.

missdeke Mon 09-Sept-24 15:05:29

Oreo

Christmas foods were in the supermarkets in August including mince pies.I always think, let’s get Halloween out of the way first.

In a supermarket I went in recently they had the mince pies next to the hot cross buns...

Celieanne86 Mon 09-Sept-24 16:30:31

I was watching tv blankety blank game show on Saturday with my five years old g.grandaughter (well we all have to make sacrifices) when the big prize was revealed and to my horror it was a Christmas Package, including money, turkey, presents and Santa, how do you explain that to a smart child who says ā€˜but granny why is Santa there it’s not Christmas yet’ I think I came up with a fairy story about a elves and busy times which I hope she believed but I was not impressed to see that on Sept 6 th.