Oh escaped!! could some of your whisky escape to me!! Love it , and have some treasured single malts of various kinds I am savouring . How about a swap for something he does like? In my womens group I have already suggested that in january we bring our unwanted gifts to a meeting. So we are going to either have a swap session, where we will rate gifts with some gold stars on a sheet. You wouldnt expect to swap a candle for a jumper . so your gift gets a star rating, and then you can spend those stars with anyone else. So should end up a good time, or alternatively we said we might bring gifts - such as the candles etc - and these are auctioned and a bit of fun had with them. The money raised will be shared half to the group funds and half to a charity. You could raise some much needed money for the charity you support with your whisky. Are you anywhere near North Yorkshire and i will come!!