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Its Over Thank God - Who else feels like this

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BA69 Thu 26-Dec-24 11:13:08

First of all I hope you all had a lovely Christmas Day however you celebrated. But speaking personally I am relieved it is all over, all the pressure and hype starting in November, just for one day. I suppose as I am on my own it makes a difference, but even as a youngster I was never that keen, Somehow it never quite lived up to the expectations, sorry for being a Grinch, and it's lovely for the children, but surely I can't be the only one who feels like this- be honest

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 16:49:23

Ah, thanks.
I am turning into a horrible old moaner, though.

I'm quite ashamed at myself sometimes blush

A good rave up would probably sort me out (or kill me!)

hollysteers Fri 03-Jan-25 16:46:18

No you’re not Miss A, I love your comments, they always stand out💕

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 16:44:46

I've not got faith in anything at all.

That's why I'm such a miserable old biddy. smile

hollysteers Fri 03-Jan-25 16:42:24

One doesn’t need faith to enjoy what started as a pagan rave up to brighten midwinter.

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 15:58:31

I'm always pleased to see the back of it, though I appreciate people with faith enjoy the celebrations.

MissInterpreted Fri 03-Jan-25 15:37:44

BlueBelle

Thank goodness it’s done and dusted, decks all down, tree packed away and I can wash it out of my hair , a time of year I really don't like much at all
Phew it’s done it’s gone

That's how I feel too. Everything's down and put away and we can get back to some kind of normality now.

BlueBelle Fri 03-Jan-25 15:24:32

Thank goodness it’s done and dusted, decks all down, tree packed away and I can wash it out of my hair , a time of year I really don't like much at all
Phew it’s done it’s gone

AGAA4 Fri 03-Jan-25 15:16:03

I have a family birthday celebration tomorrow and after that the festivities are over for me. It's back to home made soup and cutting down on chocolate.

Norah Fri 03-Jan-25 13:32:45

Monday is Epiphany -- and so it blessedly ends.

M0nica Tue 31-Dec-24 01:12:39

megan777

Christmas is great for kids, but for adults, it’s a lot of pressure to make everything “perfect.”

Only if you choose to see it that way. I have never felt any desire to make Christmas 'perfect', whatever that might mean.

BlessedArt Sun 29-Dec-24 21:50:05

I’m relieved! Love getting together but the chaos won’t be missed until next year tchconfused

megan777 Sun 29-Dec-24 21:45:00

Christmas is great for kids, but for adults, it’s a lot of pressure to make everything “perfect.”

Jaberwok Sun 29-Dec-24 18:51:21

Well we've had a lovely Christmas. On our own on the day, but out to lunch with daughter, SIL, + two grown-up granddaughters + partners and, last but certainly not least grandson aged 17. A really wonderful day with no cooking or clearing up for anyone. Lots of presents given and received, a good time had by all. Really perked us up.

Norah Sun 29-Dec-24 17:03:20

Marydoll

Our elves cost us next to nothing. They even have pyjamas and dressing gowns, purchased from the Pound shops. No great expense here.

My DGD is pretty sharp, but she loves the fun of it all, even if a tad suspicious.

I find them daft.

GC like them, naturally we purchased, I made little pyjamas. Silly fun.

LinkyPinky Sun 29-Dec-24 03:44:59

Anato that’s terrible. I feel so sad for you.

Marydoll Sat 28-Dec-24 20:52:28

Our elves cost us next to nothing. They even have pyjamas and dressing gowns, purchased from the Pound shops. No great expense here.

My DGD is pretty sharp, but she loves the fun of it all, even if a tad suspicious.

Jaxjacky Sat 28-Dec-24 20:48:18

I think I might get an elf next year, merry japes for MrJ 🎅
I’m still loving this Christmas period, the grandchildren are off school, my children off work, so we’re seeing more of them all, the pace of life has slowed down.
Our grandchildren at 11 and 17, my son and daughter in their 30’s, still love our rituals/traditions at Christmas, that’s as magical as an elf or Father Christmas.

MissInterpreted Sat 28-Dec-24 20:27:18

FriedGreenTomatoes2

MissInterpreted

My GS doesn't have the elf - no-one else in his class bothers who has it or who doesn't. It's just another expense, along with the fad for xmas eve boxes - I even know someone who does those for her dogs, then they get presents on xmas day too. It's all commercialised nonsense.

Yes an added expense. But people will always spend their disposable income on whatever takes their fancy … pets, crafting, gardening, baking, cruises even!.

Who are we to judge?

Of course people can spend their money on whatever we choose - just as we are free to judge those choices if we want to.
And maybe my children and GS were just more questioning than some, but I know by seven, they were already pretty suspicious about the whole Santa thing (thankfully no elves when my children were that age).

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sat 28-Dec-24 20:26:40

Ours neither Iam. 😊
All the magical images are a joy for the young ‘uns.

Iam64 Sat 28-Dec-24 20:24:26

I know it’s an irritant for some but the idea a seven year old is beyond a bit of giddy magic - well ours aren’t

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sat 28-Dec-24 20:21:40

MissInterpreted

My GS doesn't have the elf - no-one else in his class bothers who has it or who doesn't. It's just another expense, along with the fad for xmas eve boxes - I even know someone who does those for her dogs, then they get presents on xmas day too. It's all commercialised nonsense.

Yes an added expense. But people will always spend their disposable income on whatever takes their fancy … pets, crafting, gardening, baking, cruises even!.

Who are we to judge?

MissInterpreted Sat 28-Dec-24 20:02:51

escaped

That's a shame, MissInterpreted. There are so many ideas for classroom activities relating to The Elf, especially creative writing. There's an abundance of resources at KS1 & KS2 which teachers can use, and the children respond well and enjoy the tasks set. It seems to capture their imagination. Of course, any child who isn't bothered can develop their own individual stories.

I don't think we have KS1 and 2 here in Scotland. But he has a very active imagination and at 7, is probably past all the elf stuff anyway.

escaped Sat 28-Dec-24 19:32:10

That's a shame, MissInterpreted. There are so many ideas for classroom activities relating to The Elf, especially creative writing. There's an abundance of resources at KS1 & KS2 which teachers can use, and the children respond well and enjoy the tasks set. It seems to capture their imagination. Of course, any child who isn't bothered can develop their own individual stories.

MissInterpreted Sat 28-Dec-24 19:21:08

My GS doesn't have the elf - no-one else in his class bothers who has it or who doesn't. It's just another expense, along with the fad for xmas eve boxes - I even know someone who does those for her dogs, then they get presents on xmas day too. It's all commercialised nonsense.

Marydoll Sat 28-Dec-24 18:42:01

We have a set of elves too. DH enjoys thinking up pranks, as much as I do.